WIBTA for telling my husband to knock off the rough housing with our kids?

1,135 points384 commentssubmitted by MoreAcanthisitta7 to r/AmItheAsshole

Our sons are 6 and 9. They're usually calm until my husband riles them up with this wrestling play. They go pretty hard at it. Like my husband will throw them hard into the couch. My concern is twofold - one or both will get hurt and not even know it or my husband will get hurt. It's not unusual for them to be laughing but a day later they'll have bruises and my husband looks like he got into it with a cat. Also sometimes my husband does this when they go to bed and he tucks them in. It turns into another wrestling match and it's just like put them to fucking bed already. I did bring it up and he just says that kids can take a ton of punishment and boys need to get that energy out. Well take them to the park or have them do yard work.