Found on r/egg_irl. It's a screenshot of a trans man talking about how he refuses to date women because he doesn't want to subject them to "having to date a man" (as if that's such a terrible thing).

https://i.redd.it/lua8cgcgqy171.jpg

https://np.reddit.com/r/egg_irl/comments/nnclll/egg_irl/

Don't go there and post or vote or anything.

One of the implication (in the comments) is that there is no such thing as "healthy masculinity", something which they are interested in trying to fix for the poor, troubled mens. But they don't seem to realize how offensive that assumption is to begin with.

Of couse not everyone agrees with that, and some people even seem to get how this messaging is harmful to trans people and also to cis people.

Growing up in anti-male “feminist” spaces as a transmasculine person really fucked me up tbh. every time I try to work through that negative conditioning and build my confidence and self-esteem as a man, it immediately triggers the intrusive thought that I’m just acting out “male fragility” and that I have a right to be feeling this way because men “aren’t worth shit.” Don’t get me wrong, I’m not placing blame on individuals - I myself was heavily indoctrinated into that culture and was an active participant in a lot of man-bashing. But the ideology behind that is extremely toxic for people of all genders. Nobody should be forced to hate themselves for something they cannot control, or view every mistake or personal failing through the lens of their gender. The enemy is not individual men, it’s the patriarchy. -- u/Effective-Control