Very interesting post from r/Equality subreddit show exactly what is the problem in current gender discourse, she start by saying:

I am a humanitarian, I used to work with SGBV survivors and I’m a survivor too. Yet, I am surrounded with people who see me as misandrist, while all I talk about are cultural, normative and legal issues that are against women!

Humanitarian but people see her as man hater, okay let's see about that. why people say she is a man hater ?!

I can’t be with a man who thinks it’s an injustice for men that they have to provide for their families and that if they get a flat tire no one would line up to help them

You think women being forced by legal and social norms to be caretakers is injustice against women but men being forced by legal and social norms to be providers is not injustice ?! if you really care about equality you should see them both as injustices and human rights violations. but you only see forced gender role of women as injustice ! why ? maybe because you are not humanitarian ? maybe because you hate men and have zero empathy for them ?

Studies and social experiments prove that people are more willing to help women than men, this is clearly sexist behavior that every humanitarian should oppose. why you get angry when men complain about that and ask for EQUAL compassion and empathy ? i thought you want equality, no ?

He doesn’t even understand me explaining to him that all of these issues are actually the byproduct of a patriarchal society that sees women as MOTHERS/ housewives

Why not saying injustice against women is actually the byproduct of a matriarchal society that sees men as FATHERS/ providers ?! no. men's rights issues are not the byproduct of women's rights issues. you are seeing the world through female centric lens. you need a humanitarian lens. both men and women are oppressed equally by gender roles. not just women like you are arguing.

what I’m doing is advocating for equal rights! And that the experiences of women have long been ignored and for men to being these as the injustice inflicted on them is downright offensive and ridiculous!!

No, you are not advocating for gender equality. you can't ask men to have empathy for women and listen to their experiences without in return having empathy for men and listening to their experiences. but when men talk about their experiences you minimize them and call it "offensive and ridiculous" ! equal rights is not about women's rights only. men's rights are important too. you are not humanitarian. you are misandrist. Educate yourself about the experiences of men. Start by reading The Myth of Male Power by Warren Farrell. and read this.