“It’s rare though.” “Men make up 90% of sexual perpetrators.”

I think that at this point there are too many men telling stories about them being sexually/ physically assaulted for it to be as rare as people say it is. Every time I see a new ask Reddit question about this it is always a new group of men who haven’t told their story before (it’s not just committed by other men either). This goes for every forum on the internet which includes here, YouTube, twitter, etc.

My question is how do we convince people that it isn’t as rare as they say it is?