Recently we see a lot of posts telling men "it's okay to cry" .. in the beginning i thought this was a good thing. i said fannally people have some empathy for men. but now i changed my mind.
We never tell women to cry about their problems, instead we create commitees, confrences and reserve billions of dollars from tax payer money or private charity to solve them.
We change laws and policy.
Why not doing the same with men ?! how crying will solve the problem of men who can't see their childrens ? how crying will help men who are forced to pay child support even when DNA test prove he is not the father ? how crying will help men who don't find any domestic violence shelter ? how crying will help a man who was victim of worplace discrimination and less competent woman get the job to fill gender quota ? etc etc ...
Telling men to cry is just another way to dismiss men's issues.
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If your internal dialog is telling you these responses, then maybe you need to cry a little bit and just feel ok about it.
There isn't anybody out there actually telling you that you can't do these things. It's in your mind that you'll suffer some consequences if you do. And maybe you will. But ultimately repressed emotions are bad and we can all agree on that. So can we just take one step forward without also taking one back?
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Ok and they can go fuck themselves because we don’t need to invest anything in people like that.
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