It doesn't make sense to me that advocating on behalf of boys and men has to be seen as anti-woman.

Oftentimes people who criticize feminists are accused of zero-sum thinking. But isn't that the same thing as what the feminists in academia and the media are doing by characterizing us as misogynists for promoting open discussion about men's issues?

I have not met a single mainstream feminist who is interested in an open and honest dialogue about sex and gender. It's always "Rah rah rah you're an incel" or "You're against women's rights"

It can be a major exercise in futility to convince someone that caring about boys and men isn't the same as hating women.

Any ideas on how to show people that we are pro-equality?