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[–]geckorisk44 points45 points46 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Women have tried that shit with me and I ended it quickly. It has happened once from two different women and they only tried it once and then they got a taste of the pimp hand, that quickly brought them back to reality. Then told them that the next time they pulled that shit I would use my fists. They cried and moaned for a bit then apologized and had hot sex. I know that the laws are shit, but don't put up with womens bullshit, either go monk mode or put clear borders, if crossed have consequences.
[–]Aza38312 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's a good way to go, not sure I'd trust doing it in the "good ole US of A" though. If they get the idea to call the cops on your ass your fucked.
[–]Gingerbreadmannnn0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yea the best course of action is to call the cops on them first and follow through with pressing charges. Easy
[–]poshmarkedbudu3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I highly recommend against this course of action.
Walk away. Cut off all interaction. It's not worth the consequences.
[–]MGTOWJayJay22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link
My buddies girlfriend came home drunk last weekend from girls night out and slashed his arm with a serrated 12inch bread knife in a fit of rage leaving a 6 inch gash. Deep enough for stitches. He was too scared to call the cops because HE didn’t want to go to jail so he just waited until she passed out cleaned his arm. He’s too much if a BP to leave her and she abuses him all the time. Smacks him, bites him leaving huge bruises but he’s trapped. Me and my other buddy try to help him leave her but he refuses.
My buddy is an unreported statistic because he doesn’t want to be seen as the bad guy or look like a pussy. 40% is what they come up with because those are the reported ones that people care about. Its much higher than that.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
for sure its close to 50/50. so many men do not report it because they do not want to be seen as pussies.
or like myself, i had some abusive girlfriends but they were so weak that it didn't really bother me, so i just dumped them cause they were weak creatures that inconvenienced me. but yeah, they did try to abuse me enough that it could've been reported, but I think men are also less likely to report borderline activity. that's what any girl i dated was. just borderline. i'd rather just dump her and move on. women will call the cops over literally anything and use the pussy pass to fuck your life.
[–]Aza3832 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I mean c'mon though, he isn't "trapped". He's fallen in love with her absolutely insane crazy ass pussy. She's an absolute cunt obviously but probably great in bed.
I don't give women a pass so why give men a pass? It's not that hard to leave an abusing partner unless you actually love their crazy shit.
[–]teslaistheshit0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agreed. I never understood the "trapped" mentality. Unless you're physically restrained no one can force you to do ANYTHING. People are so mentally weak it's sad.
[–]poshmarkedbudu1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your buddy is an idiot. Period. He has no self respect whatsoever.
[–]11bNg1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your buddy is a pussy honestly dont know what u should tell him
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
if the gash was that deep, wouldnt he need to go to the hospital to get it stitched up by a professional?
[–]Hereddit314 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
...and almost all police depts laugh when you file a report as a man.
[–]Fantoche_Dreemurr10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Fucking bullshit. These would only be the reported ones. what about those where the woman keeps pushing for it until she gets that slap and suddenly acts as if she had been tortured for weeks? Women know perfectly well how to lie on command.
[–]Aza3832 points3 points4 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
They've shown male and female domestic violence is actually about 50/50, who knew that men and women would actually be equal in at least one category? lol
[–]laptopdragon7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
what if we consider all unreported and dismissed claims?
I feel there's a video from Bill Burr about this.
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And when the man defends himself they cry ABUSE!!!!!!
[–]Texian_Fusilier3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I thought that'd be higher. Notice that we're damn near 3 figures% on unreciprocated.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
most domestic violence towards men isn't reported so it's probably more than half.
[–]mgtow-zen4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nice to see it acknowledged, but at the same time I have to say, if you are in an abusive situation and don't leave (or seek help in leaving) then you must like the abuse.
Part of not allowing other people to define or create you involves taking responsibility for yourself. If you don't like something, LEAVE. A lot of these "men suffer too" types of things make me uncomfortable because I'd hate to see the victim virus infect men as well.
(That said, there really should be assistance for men who want to leave but can't due to physical limitations such as transportation and shelter)
[–]hunnerbunner20003 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is why my father left my mother. And when she didn't have him to beat on anymore, she just took it out on us kids.
[–]AutisticCyborg3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bullshit it's more like 70%
[–]-Fender-2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You mean 40% of reported ones. The real number is higher.
[–]MrMannheim1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Depends on the study and how they collect the data. Some studies show (including the men who admit their girlfriend beats them but never went to the police about it for whatever reason) that the number of men who experience domestic violence is double over women. What's the real number? Who knows. Probably significantly higher than what a "professional study" can ever hope to guess.
[–]Toshiba1point00 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Physically my ex stood no chance but as for the unreportable emotional abuse, it was constant and unwavering. The thing that she and most women learn to do is draw the foul by being “upset” “offended.” As soon as you enter that trap now you’re being unreasonable, unfair, ridiculous so that they can use that as an excuse to do whatever they wanted in the first place. It’s a direct application to what you learn when you get your way as a child. I got lucky she didn’t make some bogus allegations, some arnt so lucky.
[–]stringedbeams0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
we should talk about how to help men cope and how to be there for other men
I assume the domestic violence support networks cater to women almost exclusively in a lot of places?
[–]Ninjamonster1240 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So question, if 40% of the victims are make, aren't 60% female?
[–]Goror-1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
today i witnessed a women got stabbed by her Ex husband in front of the work place at 7 AM, not cool.
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[–]Darth_Toenail6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Congratulations on being so stupid that you don't even realise how incredibly stupid that comment was.
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