Am I missing something? angry, sad, suicidal, just feel lost!!!

MRA-automatron-2kb · 2016-11-20T14:30:48+00:00

You can be MGTOW and fuck those hot girls. Just don't let them trap you.

I'm not sure what your problem is. Unless you're saying you think they won't fuck you unless you go all beta?

2016-11-20T14:29:31+00:00

Youre young. High T levels are your enemy.

MaunaLoona · 2016-11-20T16:02:34+00:00

The one most important thing that fathers fail to teach their sons goes something like this:

If you don't find a way to control your sex drive, it will control you.

In the end it all depends on your goals. What are you goals? Is pursuing women bringing you closer to achieving them? If you have no goals, I suppose you might as well indulge. It really is all up to you. There is no right or wrong answer.

csehszlovakze · 2016-11-20T17:43:14+00:00

MGTOW doesn't equal celibacy, it equals not getting married.

MuscleCarz · 2016-11-20T20:29:55+00:00

I've been around awhile, getting up in years and have had several long-term relationships (late 50's).

You're letting your testosterone (Mother Nature) FUCK WITH YOUR HEAD.

Testosterone is wonderful, i.e., builds muscle, heals wounds and gives us sense of well being, but it also compels us to fantasize about and ultimately chase pussy.

My testosterone level is still high because I'm on replacement therapy, so technically, I'm horny as ever.

Here's what I think is happening with you:

You see women everywhere and immediately become aroused, right? But it doesn't stop there, does it...you immediately, reflexively picture her naked, on your bed, you fantasize doing things to her, her doing things to you, which only serves to work you up into a sex starved frenzy, bordering on desperation. We've all been there. Except now, you're groaning with desire and yet are conflicted at MGTOW truth that says BEWARE.

Here's what I do to solve this dilemma:

(1.) When I see a hot woman and I start to feel "stimulated," I immediately recognize what's happening and STOP MYSELF RIGHT THERE. I know what's going on, smile, and immediately tell myself, "my testosterone's up." However, rather than predictably, reflexively fantasizing having sex with her, I...

(2.) Immediately "thought stop" and re-direct my thoughts (reign in Mother Nature) and tell myself, "when I get home, I'm going to work out, rub one out, or both." And that's exactly what I do.

I now know, if I let Mother Nature compel me to fall under her cold, callous spell and keep reflexively fantasizing over women, I'm walking myself straight into the lion's den of self-inflicted mental torture. Mental torture that will make me do stupid shit, like approach women, not from a perspective of confidence, but from a perspective of horny desperation. Women can smell desperation a mile away. Not a very empowering place to be for a man, now is it?

Wanting to have that "emotional, sexual connection" is natural. But after enough relationships (or researching MGTOW truth), you really see what that "emotional connection" really is. Yes, sex feels great, but in reality, SHE DOES NOT AND WILL NEVER LOVE YOU THE WAY YOU LOVE HER, PERIOD. Oh, in the beginning she'll put on a hormone-driven, amazingly convincing act that she does love you (she believes this herself), But given enough time, it always ends the same, her behavior never lies. The sex for her is a means to a hypergamous end...to suck you in to PROVIDE HER DEMANDS. That is all.

And if you don't PROVIDE to her liking, she will throw you on the scrapheap and walk away without a care in the world. Getting angry at the SITUATION is fine, but getting angry at Mother Nature, women and/or hating them for their hard-wired "survival" behavior is like getting angry at a shark or a scorpion for their hard-wired "survival" behavior. It's wasted energy.

The next time you see a hot woman and feel that signal of attraction, stop your mind right here, smile and celebrate that you're "horny," and re-direct your thoughts to controlling your desire (as stated above) and take back your life.

After you work out and/or rub one out, then decide whether or not you want to approach women for that "sexual connection." There's nothing wrong with dating them, fucking them or having fun with them. However, with your balls drained and head cleared, you're more in control, not Mother Nature. You'll now approach women more from a perspective of confidence. At the very least, you'll probably realize you feel more relaxed, centered, not desperate, and find you're more able just move on to more productive endeavors instead.

Remember, Mother Nature doesn't give a shit about horrible divorce laws and/or FUBAR macro-economic states, she'll just keep pushing you to throw yourself right under the fucking bus to make as many babies as you can.

Behave accordingly.

P.S.: as a side note. Have a life plan FOR YOU. Write it down and stick to it. Own it. Let no one stray you from your path. I formulated a plan for myself in my early 30's and have rigorously stuck with it. I'll be retiring comfortably in about 2 to 4 years.

"I live life on my own terms, and answer to no one." Steve McQueen

2016-11-20T19:18:37+00:00

You can fuck them. Just don't catch feelings. Most MGTOWS are only a fuck away from heading back to the plantation.

blue_magoo_62 · 2016-11-21T06:17:04+00:00

in order to get pussy you gotta jump through hoops. if you hate hoops then no pussy. make a decision.

2016-11-20T20:24:00+00:00

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ThisIsNotForTheLivin · 2016-11-20T23:14:55+00:00

Too much testosterone, hence too much emotions. I'm afraid MGTOW might not be for you, you're just genetically predisposed to crave sex.

2016-11-22T07:03:24+00:00

Young Grasshoppa, you are still young and horny. In time you will see there is more to life than ejaculation. Learning to be solo in life and experiencing it on your own terms takes some time to get used to, but it allows you to do what you wish when you wish.

Title	Am I missing something? angry, sad, suicidal, just feel lost!!!
Author	hb8only
Upvotes	3
Comments	16
Date	November 20, 2016 2:25 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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