Women are not monogamous creatures, they are hypergamous. Meaning that they are always looking for better men. You see this behavior in the animal kingdom where the female will ditch the old alpha for the new alpha to secure resources (sometimes even killing their own kids to not lose access to the alpha male and his resources). They are the first to want a monogamous relationship and the first ones to want out of it. They don’t know why they want monogamy so bad but it is not for companionship. They want monogamy to secure resources and eliminate their fear of abandonment. Women aren’t capable of loyalty. Everything they do is in their own self interest. Men are disposable to them. They cannot love you they can only respect you and if your value is on the decline and another mans is rising then she no longer respects you and will leave you for him if that opportunity presents itself. In order to keep a womans peek interest in her prime you must be the supreme alpha everyday of your life. When she gets older and no longer has many options she might resort to monogamy for her own survival and her fear of abandonment but it is not something they want. Given the option to secure resources through divorce/child support/alimony at an older age that woman will take that despite the destruction of the man and the family they cause. They really don’t give a shit about their kids. Any care they give to their kids is in their own self interest knowing that others will frown upon them if they don’t at least feed them. Women only want to fuck the top 20% of men and be provided for in order to freeload and act like children everyday of their lives. The other 80% of men are there to be used and to provide resources while they chase the 20% of men. Commitment is not something they are able to be happy with as they are unsatisfiable creatures. Committing to a woman actually makes her lose respect for you because you are showing her that she’s the best you can do and you have no other prospects.