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[–]isthisthelasttime34196 points197 points198 points 3 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
The thing that gets me is if it were the other around and the guy committed suicide, people would then comfort the girlfriend and go on and on about how it wasn't her fault.
[–]daproest149 points50 points51 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup
[–]Gamedragon34537 points38 points39 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
men need to speak,. they need to say words like this to their face.
[–]Sir_manalot0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The issue is that most men will simp in hopes of getting sex.
In a lot of cases it is the woman’s fault to an extent that a man commits suicide. And it doesn’t help the woman by trying to get her to avoid responsibility.
It would just gnaw at her and/or make her commit more vile deeds.
[–]clintjamehollerith25 points26 points27 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Absolutely.
[–]Analysis-is-Relative23 points24 points25 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A classic example of “man died, women most affected”
[–]Organic_Principle77211 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I knew a girl who's exbf killed himself like 1 week after she broke up with him. He went by her house and found another guy there. They were all about 20 yrs old. The guy went back home and killed himself. Our circle of friends got together and some people took her to a Jimmy Eat World concert so shed feel better. For basically dropping her highschool bf of 4 years and getting with someone new within a week.
I hate simps.
She is at fault to an extent. Yet she is the victim and he is the monster.
[–]Bachelor_Sensei11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Women are always the victims.
-Le Feminazis
[–]asspop14 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
lol, man.. Why even listen to these people. the OP in that thread is weak minded. Suicidal thoughts?? fuck that shit. My life is important.. Ghost everyone and tell them what are they gonna do about it? dumb bitch killed herself. Get another job and move on.. people wanna bring it up.. lol fuck em! ignore!
[–]TRF_Fares1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Preach
[–]Ays_5001 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fuckkk that's true lmao......
[–]hydromarine1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Unfortunately that is true.
[–]Idiodyssey871 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Proof
[–]Sir_manalot118 points119 points120 points 3 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
If a man gets completely mentally destroyed by a girl, she is completely innocent.
If a man does not give a woman everything she wants, he is a monster.
[–]daproest116 points17 points18 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Gamedragon34511 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
we need to say this to women.
[–]daproest117 points18 points19 points 3 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link
I’ve tried, they disagree. They use their feelings as arguments. When u get them angry enough, they’ll start to shame, name call, accuse, etc. It’s the way the female animal is wired. The male animal is wired to use aggression, violence, logic, and reason to solve their problems. Women, being naturally the smaller and physically weaker sex, evolved to use like... social terrorism. They’ll attack your image. They emotionally manipulate you. They’ll talk behind your back. It works quite well to make up for the physical difference since humans are a social species. Being socially ostracized or exiled hurts. And they know it.
Trying to prove a generalization about their gender directly to them, is usually futile. You’ll always lose.
[–]RedEyeBlackEye18 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Pathetic, sad, pitiful, ridiculous, infuriating ass shit homie...but 100% true.
Pathetic creatures.
[–]daproest10 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not pathetic bro. It’s just the animal they evolved to be. Not their fault. U can’t get mad at the sky for rain. Or at a Tiger for being a killer. The difference is, the male natural way of being, has been wiped out and controlled. It’s drilled into us as little kids. “Don’t hit people, be nice to girls, don’t cheat on your woman” etc. We’re programmed. But the nature itself is still there. I imagine that’s how it was for women back when things were better. Their underlying nature was always there; but they were raised to be good women. I think the Middle East still raises boys and girls a certain way to keep both innate natures at bay.
We’re just animals man.
[–]Grand-MasterMgtow4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Like Kevin Samuels says.the 4 things women love to use is S.I.G.N........Shame..Insults..Gaslighting.......Need to be right.
Yep
[–]Gamedragon3451 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Im trying to prove it to some men they wont listen to me. This has to do with the guy called better bachelor joker. He made a vid about promiscuity and weak men, and they said that "he's never listened to a woman in their lives trying to talk about a woman's role in society." and that he only thinks of women as potential romantic interests or something. I didnt know how to disprove them.
The only way is to reverse the roles without them knowing then point out the hypocrisy.
Even that might not work as they want pussy and will throw everything and everyone under the bus for it.
[–]MSP_Generalist2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That would require conversing with them.
Nope. Space Ghost.
[–]ZarBandit57 points58 points59 points 3 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Because a paranoid schizophrenic is such a reliable source of factual testimony? They are literally delusional ffs. And paranoid. It’s right there in the name.
Yes he should have dumped her. Is he trained in treating schizophrenia? No? Then he’s not responsible. He’s not even related. So fuck his sister and the rest of the armchair moralizers who believe the disturbed rantings of delusional woman having a reality breakdown over him. What did these self righteously moral people do to help? Nothing.
If anyone deserves criticism, her family possibly failed to intervene effectively. She should have been committed when she went off the rails. She had meds so that means she was seeing professionals and was under their care. They definitely failed her.
Also, schizophrenics often don’t take their medications. Many require oversight. Why was there none?
Source: plenty of personal experience. A close relative is a diagnosed schizophrenic.
[–]Analysis-is-Relative11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It was very irresponsible of her/her family to not inform her partner that she was suffering from schizophrenia and required medication etc.
Likely she didn’t want to be seen by her partner to be imperfect and hid this intentionally, fearing he may leave her if he knew. You can always count on women to lie, cheat and hide.
[–]MSP_Generalist6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
At some level, the family is happy.
They don't have to deal with her shit any more, and they have someone to blame.
The fact they failed her and him? Neither of them can provide any emotional or tangible benefit to them... So, they couldn't give two shits and a medium fart.
[–]i_am_your_hemeroid40 points41 points42 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Holy fuck poor guy. Invite him over here, eh? He needs some guys to support him.
[–]Corvo_Attano982 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes agree if i where there i will surely stop my all work for him.
[–]redditormaster79721 points22 points23 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Sooo all women? 😂😂 You might be right ;)
[–]StatusWorth24421 points22 points23 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Walk away from women. Keep your money and your sanity!
[–]PsyMonk-1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Keep your money, time, energy, sanity, security, dignity & freedom.
[–]Diogenes--2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Big brain: Avoid crazy
Galaxy brain: All women are crazy
[–]TJCasperson13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Sue the shit out of her estate for Slander
[–]Andthentherewasblue10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I doubt there's assets
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
There probably isn't but it's defamation
I'd rather cut my losses and disappear. Why is he hanging on?...
[–]clintjamehollerith12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
First, seek counseling, it sounds like you need it. In the meantime I don't see any quick solution to this problem. You could emphasize to your family that your ex was schizophrenic, and perhaps get them to understand she made it all up. Unfortunately everyone is going to believe her because she is a woman and a perpetual victim. It is the politics of the time. My reaction would be to say screw you all, and I would cut everyone off. If I could, I would move out of town, and not tell anyone where I was going, nor would I give anyone my phone number. However, that is what I would do. You have to find what's best for you.
[–]Chakra_Devourer10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A basket case of crazy. And those other people don't give a fuck. They're ready to demonize him just because she said so.
[–]Redhood61610 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“Get married so you don’t die alone”
👍
[–]Bri-708 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Seems all to common to blame someone else for what they did.
You met an ultimate man- ipulator, and YOU survived. I hope peace for you brother.
[–]Wrongdoer-Majestic6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I would, at the very least, sue the employer for wrongful termination. Not with the intent to necessarily continue employment there, but to perhaps go for a cash payout so you can start again somewhere else.
Better than staying someplace where everyone knew about her issues , but still blame you when she eventually blows a gasket.
[–]literaturemaxx5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If this is true, this a deep injustice
[–]fractal974 points5 points6 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
That's the consequence of not letting go of strange women when your gut is telling you something doesn't add up. The rule must be: a girlfriend should be allowed to make a mistake 3 times. First, second and never again. Not following this costed me 20 years of my life ruined by a psychopath and 2 parentally alienated children.
Now, losing all the friends after telling your side of story also doesn't add up. Either they are no friends or something is wrong with you. In any case, standing firm behind what you know is true, if you didn't do anything wrong, is paramount. Others people and their opinions are irrelevant. The best you can do is look for a job and work out. Forget about whining on the internet.
[–]IcyNeighborhood70572 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not quite related to women as a whole but still interesting story, I hope this guy can get better
[–]zsm1th1103 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe not related women as a whole, but rather, in our society’s willingness to lynch the man without a shred of credible evidence. When a schizophrenic’s word is worth more than ours, that should tell you everything you need to know.
[–]SuitBoat3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Where is the original post? I want to see the responses to it
[–]Marfi09[S] 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/koybhi/my_ex_committed_suicide_and_everyone_is_blaming/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
[–]Laabaas4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
did yall tell him what time it is?
time to MGTOW
[–]Gloval12 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I had an ex in my mid-20's that seemed amazing at first, but eventually her mask came off and I saw the serious mental issues she had. She started to regularly pick at my "triggers" for lack of a better term, causing regular arguments. Eventually this escalated to her threatening to harm herself over even the smallest shit, like not agreeing on what TV show to watch. This would terrify me and she knew it, and honestly that terror kept me with her way longer than I should have. Eventually I started to play her own game back at her, the only difference was when I started to pick at her triggers she just got all mad and left almost immediately. It made me realize how one-sided our relationship really was pretty much the whole time. The only silver lining was when she left, I never heard from her again.
Fast forward to now, and I'm in my mid-30's and have put a lot of work into myself, seeking self-help and professional help resources, doing what I need to do to grow. And her? Pfft, she's on Twitter, has purple hair, and is constantly complaining about her anxiety and loneliness while retweeting far left crap about how big daddy government should save us.
Tldr: Yes avoid crazy, and don't ignore warning signs for any reason.
[–]CoinSwapTrader2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
seems she might have been demonically harassed and the suicidal ideations contaminated and infected him as well....some women are walking curses and bonding with them will totally destroy your life and happiness!
[–]Buzz1322 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
this forum gives me chills lately, poor guy
[–]DoctorB501 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Stop beating yourself up! You are not responsible for the mental health of other people. You are responsible for yourself. Cut off contact with your sister and anyone else who tries to lay guilt trips on you if you know you aren't guilty. Are you alone? It's better to be alone than in the company of assholes. And most people today are assholes.
[–]RedEyeBlackEye11 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This shit is gawd damn ridiculous homie. THAT BITCH WAS A PIECE OF LYING EVIL SHIT. She destroyed your life FOR NO REASON JUST FOR LULZ.
This is exactly the reason why "shit happens".
[–]SlumpyNuudles1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I had an ex that pulled that card on me after I broke up with her. I was living with my parents and we started getting phone calls saying how shitty I was to her for her to think like that. She never did it but thankfully my parents were on my side saying how much of a piece of shit she was to play me like that. It was after that I said no more to relationships. All it takes is 1 bad move and your done.
[–]Fuzi0z1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is why you don't date when you have your own mental issues. If he was mental free and happy hr wouldnt be feeling guilty because in fact he isn't. She was retard and could see how easy her life could be as a women
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Advice for boys: do not dip your dick in crazy.
[–]Another_Human_Bot1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
things like that make me remember why i choose to be MGTOW
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think that its time for a reboot for OP. Starting life all over again, in a new location, far away from the past, and this time making the correct decisions. If he is young, it'll be easier to start over, and he should completely stop blaming himself for her mistakes. That girl was a piece of shit, who tried to drown the guy along with herself. No need to give her any more headspace, and start thinking of the future.
I'm fully expecting my ex to be this story sometime soon.
Three years, her cheating on me constantly. She needed a therapist, not a boyfriend.
Amusingly enough she ghosted me after she found bigger meat. Being the beta cuck I am, I tried to get her back. She said she dropped me like that because she thought I would kill myself. How fucking idiotic does that sound? I ghosted you because I thought you'd kill yourself, wanted to let you down easy.
She always talked about suicide and was pretty nihilistic. I'm sure I'll see the story some day.
[–]ThrowawayGhostGuy10 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Men need to wake up and realize that you need to record every interaction with women, even the ones you think you can trust.
[–]delsystem32exe0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
wow.
[–]25toten0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wish we knew this guys online alias. He is a brother at his possible all time low in life.
Godspeed anon.
[–]frikabg0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
even in death it is not their fault but a man's .... jesus christ!
[–]thesoloronin0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Man this hits home so hard as I've been through exactly the same thing, but with DV in place of the Schizophrenia. She was about 22lbs heavier than I was. I was just 110lbs and this was pre-RP. Imagine the damage she did.
My first ex before that was also the same. My family was against our relationship due to Muslimophibia and I KNEW this shit deep down therefore I had to let her be the one to cut me off without setting off a cascade of irreversible damage.
This guy has to learn how to ignore people. She was your ex, not anymore. And have to tell all of his ex friends; A veery big FUCK YOU.
Because even his coworkers are trying to make his life sufferable.
What a 🤡🌍
[–]johnnyy45000 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Look, I feel sorry for the guy, but dating a co-worker is figuratively shitting where you eat
[–]PsyMonk-0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Proof that everyone you know is toxic.
If you have ANY SPINE AT ALL, you will cut them all off (regardless of who they are to you) and leave.
That's the best I can tell you.
[–]rayedward3630 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Could be describing my ex. Threatened suicide because of regret on new years, and I simply told her, "Not my problem. Fuck off." And that was that. Luckily she doesn't live or work near me (I hope) and we have no mutual friends. Been two weeks of silence, still not sure how she got my number again, but what happens is all on her and her poor choices at this point. I've got my own crap to deal with.
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