What are some good reading to be more selfish and kill off the instinct and societal programming to be disposable and self sacrifice

The top ones I can think of right now that had that effect on me are

-The manipulated man by Esther Vilar -The fountainhead by Ayn Rand -How I found freedom in an unfree world by Harry Browne

I also love the movie Swept Away by Linda Wertmuler, the Italian ver and not the crappy remake

Funny also that three out of four of these was written by women

Anything else guys?