📷r/AmItheAsshole•Posted byu/PenguinSurfer222 hours ago

AITA for telling my friend that she isn't as attractive as she thinks?

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A few nights ago I was hanging out with one of my friends, and we decided to order food through Door Dash. About 30 minutes later, I get a notification that the delivery guy is approaching with our order. Without a word she dashes out of the front room, I'm confused, but the doorbell rings, so I go answer it.

Once she hears the door close, she saunters back into the room, grabs the food from me and starts pulling out items. Still confused, I ask;

"What was that all about."

She then tells me that she doesn't like to be seen when delivery guys are at the door, because "they always hit on her." She then shows me a group of saved messages from delivery drivers/service workers asking her out. Apparently it's a common occurrence for her.

I was shocked, and we get into a conversation about how inappropriate it is for them to do that. At some point in the conversation she says;

"That's one of the drawbacks to being really pretty. I mean if I wasn't so obviously out of your league, then I'm sure you would hit on me all the time"

I laughed, because I thought she was joking. But she kept pushing this point, so I responded with;

"Honestly, you're not that attractive, a lot of guys are just desperate, and they probably think they have a chance with a girl who looks like you."

She tried to laugh it off as well, but the rest of the night was pretty awkward, and we haven't really spoken to each other since.

TL;DR - My friend who is constantly being hit on told me I was out of her league. I told her she wasn't as attractive as she thought she was. We haven't spoken since.