Kind of an interesting situation at work:
My co-worker and supervisor is a 40 y/o female, with a body the shape of a barrel. Her husband is late 30’s and they have a few kids together. About a year ago she cheated on him, seemingly out of the blue, with a guy who is not even a chad, he’s below average height, pudgy and has a terrible personality. However he is funny, so he has that going for him. This guy is actually a friend of mine and the first time they hooked up he told me about it the next day, not bragging he actually felt guilty. I told him to forget about her, she’s married and that’s something you just don’t do. Anyways, they continue to hook up, her husband finds out and her marriage begins to break down. My buddy gets a new girl and dumps the married chick, the fling goes nowhere, everybody at work finds out. To make a long story short she moves out for a few months, begins to feel regret, pleads with husband to take her back and he does. Now they have a happy marriage again lol.
Anyways, so I’m in a new position at work where I have to work in the same area as the aforementioned woman. I’m nice and easy to get along with, so we become friends, work-friends only - I don’t hang out with anyone from work if I can help it. Also want to point out that when she was going on her cheating spree she tried to hook up with me at a work party, she hugged me and tried to kiss me. I politely refused and played it off like a joke. The point I want to make is that I suspect this woman likes sharing her feelings with me because she wants to fuck me. I’m good looking and younger than her.
Anyways, since I’m friends with the guy she cheated on she knows I know stuff and begins to unload her emotions on me bit by bit. I try to be as vague as possible without condemning her actions but I try not to lie either. She tells me that now she feels the guilt of what she’s done and that it gets worse with every day that passes. I tell her at least you owned up to it right? Now you’re committed to your husband, just put all that stuff in the past and move on (I don’t talk about the red pill at work). She tells me that at the time she felt no guilt whatsoever, that she kept it from her husband and didn’t feel a thing (her exact words). She also told me that she was expecting to go into a relationship with the guy she cheated with. It was only after that didn’t happen that she tried to get back together with her husband.
That’s about all there is to say on it. I can’t believe the marriage is still standing. I’m going to try and avoid any conversations about this with her in the future.
Cheers dudes.
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