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Dear MGTOW brothers...

November 6, 2017
14 upvotes

My dear MGTOW brothers,

I went MGTOW in 2014 (february 2014 to be precise) and my life has only gotten better over the years. Sure, I sometimes felt loneliness and the desire for love and sex but they were easily overcome by good friends, dogs and practicing my hobbies. Those brought me great joy.

I’ve basically been having the time of my life doing the things I enjoy on my terms and having no toxic relationship or negative influence in my life.

At the same time, I was doing nothing to please women, I was even actively avoiding talking to them. So I never got any interest from women, which made living a MGTOW lifestyle easier (because there was no temptation).

Last week, I was going out with my friends (paintball game in the forest, it was great), and some women were with us. As usual, I said hello and exchanged basic politeness and then proceeded to talk with my male friends while ignoring the women. I could hear the women bitching and nagging and it was, as usual, a great reminder why I decided to go MGTOW.

I was enjoying the game and laughing with my friends when a girl began to show interest in me, for the first time in almost 4 years. Rather than rejecting her with a cold hearted attitude, I let my barriers down and enjoyed her feminine energy. I had a great time with her and it felt really really good but…now, I’m torn apart by feelings and I hate it.

It's like it was before I went MGTOW. I think about her a lot of the time. I have feelings of love, sexual desire and at the same time I feel pain.

Compared to the previous years when I led a calm, happy and serene life, this is shit. And this feminine energy and sex isn’t worth feeling like that.

Worst thing is, this woman isn’t that beautiful. It’s just that it’s been too long since I last was intimate with a woman. As long as I didn’t have any interest from women, there was no temptation, but now that there is, it’s like my body craves feminine energy and companionship. I’m going down a road I know all too well and that will lead me to misery if I follow it, but at the same time I don’t know if I will have the strength to resist the temptation.

I don’t want to keep feeling like this. I want to go back to my normal way of being. Worst thing, I think she is trying to get in my pants.

I live in Africa, so prostitutes aren’t safe to use here.

My dear MGTOW brothers. Please.

Help.

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Title Dear MGTOW brothers...
Author Redasshole
Upvotes 14
Comments 17
Date November 6, 2017 9:22 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit /r/MGTOW
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/dear-mgtow-brothers.539388
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[–]mrscene14 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's not love, it's lust. You just met, you're not having feelings of love. The lust will wear off in a few days or weeks and your rational mind will reappear. Even the most seasoned MGTOW have those weak moments, but also have the awareness to understand it and let it pass.

[–]8017352 points3 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

You do understand that the MGTOW red pill has a longer lasting sauertaste than TRPs, right? Swallow wisely.

[–]Redasshole[S] 1 point2 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

Sorry I don't understand your message. I'm not a native speaker.

[–]8017351 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Which part don't you understand?

[–]Redasshole[S] 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

longer lasting sauertaste than TRPs

This one. I have a dictionnary but I still don't understand. I understand the words "longer" and "last" individually but in this context i don't understand.

[–]8017351 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

=] sauer(sauerkraut, german for cabbage iitc) taste = bitter taste

MGTOW imo is narrower than TRP, part of, but narrower. It's about individuals walking away. With TRP knowledge applied.

[–]Redasshole[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Oh I understand now, thank you !

I guess I still hadn't swallowed the pill fully then :)

[–]8017350 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I guess I still hadn't swallowed the pill fully then :)

It's up to you,

I went MGTOW in 2014 (february 2014 to be precise)

That sure is some mileage.

now, I’m torn apart by feelings

Mileage does/not apply.

Compared to the previous years when I led a calm, happy and serene life, this is shit. And this feminine energy and sex isn’t worth feeling like that.

I don’t want to keep feeling like this. I want to go back to my normal way of being. Worst thing, I think she is trying to get in my pants.

OR

My dear MGTOW brothers. Please. Help.

Decided yet?

[–]Throwawayforinsaniti1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Ask her out. You'll go on a few dates, have a few laughs, fuck like rabbits. But you know the nature of women. You'll see it in the way she talks, how her attitude adapts to you, and in what she values. Then you'll come back here and see it all again in the stories of your brothers.

Going your own way doesn't mean living life alone. Just live it on your terms. Make no commitments. Don't cohabitate. If she gives you an ultimatum, pick your dignity over her.

[–]Redasshole[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Whatever happens we won't fuck. Because I live in Africa and I will never fuck somebody here. There are so much STDs here it's unbelievable (I'm going back to europe in 9 months though so it's cool).

To answer your points I'm just afraid she will blind me from the nature of women.

I'm also not sure I will be able to escape. I grew up a huge mangina beta blue pill boy and I'm not sure this part of me is dead yet. I'm not sure I will be able to pick my dignity over her.

Last time, I escaped pregnancy and marriage thanks to - almost litterally - a miracle.

I'm happy alone. I don't want that to change.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I agree with you that feminine energy can still be pleasant--that's probably just biology, but there's nothing wrong with that. If you continue to see this girl, let yourself enjoy the good feelings her presence/looks/scent bring you, just don't try to hold onto them at all. Treat her like a shooting star- delightful to observe, but worth thinking about only for the moment it is right in front of you. Don't linger on her or let your mind start building up any fantasies of a future. At least that's my opinion. Best of luck!

[–]Redasshole[S] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

That's very hard to do.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It is, and it takes practice. But what greater achievement is there than self control and experiencing each moment as it is?

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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