I've been frustrated with how feminist extremists seem to love to take language and twist it to make men look as bad as possible. For example, the term "friendzone" has been used for a long time to express disappointment when a man had been hoping to get together with a woman romantically, but she says "let's be friends." It's a sucky situation, and he's doing nothing wrong by feeling disappointed. All our lives we've been pressured to hide our emotions, so we should embrace it if a man feels disappointed and expresses that feeling. There's nothing wrong with that. But along come the haters to twist "friendzone" into meaning he somehow felt "entitled to sex." I don't know any man who thinks a woman owes him sex. It's perfectly normal for a man to feel attraction toward women and want to find a girlfriend. Yet, lately there's been a lot of hostility toward men who attempt to do that. If a man goes out trying to meet women hoping he'll find someone special, there's nothing wrong with that. Yet, thanks to extremist feminists, that innocuous term "friendzone" gets made sinister. Supposedly he thinks she owes him sex and so he's practically a rapist. That's total BS.

When I was a kid, about 8 years old, I went over to a friend's house. About 4 other boys were there. We decided it would be fun to wade through the creek there in our blue jeans and T shirts. Of course, that got our clothes and shoes totally wet. When we got back, my friend's mom said, "boys will be boys." That's another innocuous expression used to mean boys do boy kind of things like playing in the mud. Boys do things that girls typically don't like such as that, wading through the creek like my friends and I did, riding bikes over ramps, and playing with toy trucks. Again, there's nothing wrong with any of this, but leave it to the feminist bigots to come along and hijack an expression. They've claimed that expression is all about rapists making excuses for their crimes. Don't let them. Almost all men despise rapists. In fact, it's rapists who get most assaulted in prison. Men despise them. We have no absurd conspiracy to make excuses for rapists. This notion of "rape culture" is nonsense. Rape has been both illegal and despised for centuries. Leave it to feminist extremists to try to hijack "boys will be boys" to try to prove how evil men supposedly are. They're wrong. And they're being disgusting and hateful people to try to twist language in ways that make men look as bad as possible.

These are just two examples. There are many more, but if I kept writing, this would end up at dissertation-length. There are also words that feminists make up like "mansplain" that's designed specifically to stereotype men and shame us, hoping to shut down dialogue as if our ideas were automatically wrong because of our gender. That's hostility. That's hate. I may write in more detail about that some other time.

In short, I want to encourage men to fight back and take back language. Language is supposed to exist as a tool for communication. Unfortunately, hateful feminist extremists use it as a weapon against men.