I heard a golddigger say.

That the average men also wants a hot feminine woman with him, because it makes him look: succesfull, more attractive, more valuable in the eyes of other men and women.

Do you agree with that?

I have to say, that sounds actually a bit correct.

Because I see how dudes (especially the not so good looking ones) get extra or more respect, status, etc., from both men and women; when he has a hot feminine girlfriend/wife. It seems that especially the older men, play this game of wanting a women (golddigger) next to them to make themself look better. To show the world how succesfull they are, because they afford a hot feminine wife/gf (golddigger).
That EGO of us, can get in the way of peace.