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[–]Steaknkidney45203 points204 points205 points 4 years ago (37 children) | Copy Link
Especially re ladies. If she's being hot and cold towards you, (as I am currently experiencing) cease communicating with her and continue to find ways to improve yourself in every facet of life. You have nowhere to go but up.
[–]TheRealEyesWideOpen124 points125 points126 points 4 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link
Hot and cold is just her attempt to make you crazy. Ignore it. Focus on you. She will either monkey branch or won’t. NFG
[–]Steaknkidney4543 points44 points45 points 4 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
After a few times out, things fizzled out, we're not together as of now and I have no idea if she's with other guys. I haven't asked--and don't plan on doing so.
[–]rosspghettod33 points34 points35 points 4 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
You’re not marrying her, if you’re really that dedicated to a good life you’re doing her a favor including her. If she wants on the ride she can show up, if she wants other dudes who gives a fuck
[–]Steaknkidney458 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Well put. She came back into my life unexpectedly after not talking for a month, so anything can happen.
[–]ithinkoutloudtoo17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
How many guys was she with in that month where you weren’t talking?
[–]Steaknkidney45-5 points-4 points-3 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
No effing idea; didn't ask. But she said I was on her mind during that time.
[–]bigmodaman2017319 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
You're still bluepilled if you really think it isn't any guy. Women are hot and cold when they feel like they're settling for you and think they can do better. The reason they don't completely cut you off is so they can keep you as a back up. Please do yourself a favor and never talk to this girl again. Even after working on yourself do it for yourself and find new people who will respect you and treat you like the king you are.
[–]ChadwickSlickdick6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is excellent advice. It is hard, especially with feelings attached, but you must get through them and push on. There could be 20 reason why she wants to stay or go and I bet very few have to do with the reL “you.” It’s all a battle of who you are vs. the fantasy you she has built up. Either way, forge on.
[–]qp0n3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep. When women are legitimately into you they swarm you like a school of piranhas. They try to lock you up before another woman does. If they do anything else, then you're plan B at best.
[–]Steaknkidney45-2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Sage advice, but I literally don't know her situation. Odds are obviously better that there are other dudes--I freely admit that. But as I alluded to in another post, there is a satisfaction and peace of mind in not knowing.
[–]qp0n1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
there is a satisfaction and peace of mind in not knowing.
The goal is not to cut her off and then be happy with not knowing, it's to cut her off and then be happy with not caring. If knowing her past is a factor in how you feel, then you are still attached, which is a bad sign.
She doesn't want you, she just thinks she might need you. Send her loose, find someone who wants you for you, or work on being happy with yourself.
[–]kriskros180 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ask her if you wanna know how blue pill she thinks you are.
Do it bro!
[–]xnesteax24 points25 points26 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I can 100% guarantee she is with other guys.
[–]Steaknkidney456 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There is a great peace of mind in my not knowing and having no social media presence to keep tabs on her.
[–]Throwseph12080911 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or it's that she's off and on with trying to monkey branch. Like she's got her eye on a new target but doesn't have a firm hold yet, and so when she feels like she's got him she's cold with you, and when she's uncertain then she's back to being hot again. Hot and cold is the surest red flag of impending monkey branch behavior.
[–]Raddyrode18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
I’ve hit rock bottom this year and lost all of my social group but I’m hoping to make new friends this year and to get healthier
[–]Steaknkidney455 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Absolutely. Friends can come and go, and it's amazing what can happen when you put yourself out there and meet new people. I've reconnected with old ones and, like you, lost some in my group, but that says more about them than about you if you're an overall good and decent person.
[–]qp0n0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How did you go about 'putting yourself out there'? I see people say this all the time; it's a frustratingly vague suggestion.
[–]Helikzhan1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Keep in mind always that life doesn't end. It goes on always adapting to the circumstances surrounding it. Shedding the old self for the new self is a ritual of all living things. Including humans!
[–]AlbertCohol10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This ain’t /r/theredpill
Chuck’er
[–]BTSNP4th11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
God, that's the most gargantuan simp community I've ever seen by far.
[–]lastlaugh1008 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Check her social media, she’s probably trying to monkey branch.
[–]Steaknkidney4546 points47 points48 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Three things:
1) I have no social media and wouldn't check her's anyway. 2) I'd rather not know. 3) If she monkey branches, that's her deal. I can't waste energy on things I can't control.
[–]King-Juggernaut24 points25 points26 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Very Stoic of you.
[–]Steaknkidney4518 points19 points20 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Thank you. One of my several traits which she openly found attractive. Sadly, things can and do change on a dime with chicks.
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[–]Steaknkidney454 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Appreciate it. I would ALWAYS demand a paternity test should the unthinkable, unplanned happen.
[–]Roninizer5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Deleting my Facebook and never making a Twitter account along the way were some of the best decisions of my life. You see this on a day to day basis.
[–]Steaknkidney458 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not being on Facebook is a great litmus test. People who truly care about you--and vice-versa--will find some way to stay in contact. Ever heard of a freaking phone call/text message/e-mail? Otherwise, why give a shit about people who clearly don't about you?
[–]Zetaghostmale1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This ☝️
True, I have experienced it.
[–]kriskros180 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Perfect. But gotta think, after a month of thotcation, still want her riding your schwin-schwin(sandman 🤣)?
[–]BTSNP4th5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Advice like this falls on deaf-ears to someone who is monk and ace.
I dont have social media to check in a thot because I dont give a shit.
I wouldnt check on a thot because I dont give a shit.
I dont have a thot to check up on because I dont give enough of a shit to have women in my life.
[–]chocolatedestruction[S] 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agreed
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Writing all this shut out here and talking and thinking about her is a bad move. Stop talking and get out there and ‘do’. Don’t respond to this message. Ignore every other message and just ‘do’.
[–]monk201976 points77 points78 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
You could extend that period to the rest of your life
[–]mgtow-for-life8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nice!
[–]bfrahm4205 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like a shitty life by definition
[–]voshler2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Right
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
im so glad i spent my 30s on: finances
[–]pernickety_0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good to hear and know that I'm spending my 20s on finances.
[–]monk20192 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah improving your life is shitty af
[–]bfrahm4200 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No but solely focusing on that and only that is, by anyone's definition, a shitty life
[–]tilnewstuff4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No you can't. This type of unrealistic idealism is what makes guys ignore good advice like this post. Be realistic.
[–]yooshio55 points56 points57 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The essence of MGTOW...A bachelor with a one-track mind.
[–]autoeroticassfxation24 points25 points26 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's disgusting.
[–]FaustoLG36 points37 points38 points 4 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
Except that this quote is for making you a good slave, not a good man... That's the original context.
Although MGTOW uses this quote and turns it into a MGTOW mantra. AWESOME!
[–]chocolatedestruction[S] 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
So focusing on yourself and building personal wealth makes you a good slave. Yeah okay
[–]bdf3920 points21 points22 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
I think FaustoLG is trying to say since the quote says "a period" the implication is that he will date after it and be willing to share all he has worked for during his period of solitude.
[–]rosspghettod11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
I went through that “period” 18-26. Then I got snatched up by some freakishly hot 18 yr old fucking turbo babe who married me and somehow made me forget who I was for 10 years.
Been single a year again now. Pissed that I bent on my internal mantra “never marry” (wayyyyyy before r/MTGOW it’s not a new idea been around centuries) EDIT been around since the dawn of mankind
Anyways. Don’t marry.
[–]catchingtherosemary2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Do you think you would still be with that chick if you didn't marry her?
[–]rosspghettod2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Hell no, she lost affection after like 5 years but then she tried to force herself to love me and stay but 5 years of faking it were too much.
[–]catchingtherosemary4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
do you think she lost affection because you were acting "beta"? / do you think that is always the reason why women who previously loved a man lose affection for him?
[–]linkwaker102 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
The thing is even if you 'hold frame' or whatever other RP terms to describe overcoming a woman's internal turmoil, there's too many enabling factors (ie. No consequences) for them to snatch up the next tasty treat instead of actually being steadfast to their husband. Whether it's Deadbedroom or a bunch of other factors, you can't reasonably hope for long term loyalty in today's relationships.
Jeff Bezos divorced/got a divorce with his wife, who's to say you're anything special as the average layman?
[–]catchingtherosemary0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
My experience has been completely consistent with everything you are saying. One of my brothers is married for a couple years to a woman that strikes me as not too different from Bezos' wife, but i do get this thought about my other brothers' soon to be wife... She is such a goodie two shoes. She is a low drama easy to be around cute not hot in any way post wall 31 year old and my brother is a definite 9 across the board. They have your typical friends / lovers vibes to their pictures. (I've always wanted to post pictures of chicks in my life and be like "hey mgtow is this girl just another thot? She looks square") I understand all women are like that, and everything changes, but isn't it possible that my brother is just out of her league and that will keep her from straying? Also the main reason they are getting married is because they both want to be parents and live the nice American Life... And if she's a traitor gal who wants a home with husband and wife maybe she won't screw that up?
[–]linkwaker101 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Getting kids can only somewhat reinforce a commitment (for at most 18 years?) if only for the goal of raising children, I'm not saying it's impossible to have that committed relationship and there are economic parameters to consider here too. But what I am saying here is that it's a lot about what's in the moment and available to them despite previous exchanges of provisioning in the past etc. Perhaps everything will work out fine for your other brother, but beware on social media you're only shown the highlight reel. Also Men's beauty doesn't quite equate to women's beauty and fertility. (I'll personally have to go to TFM for more on that for my self-reflection.)
For you though I wouldn't worry about external validation (even from mgtow) nothing good comes out of that unless you're doing a business exchange. In your example you're citing that you've possibly found a unicorn - but just because you found one doesn't mean it's not dangerous by itself. Many come here to find wisdom from others and to be prepared with a toolset for self-preservation that not a lot of people would've found otherwise. Keep them in mind even when you're courting and keep looking for other Men's wisdom!
[–]catchingtherosemary0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]rosspghettod1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Honestly, I’ve never considered the thought of beta vs alpha while dealing with a chick in my life. In regards to my previous marriage maybe me becoming a professional and providing for us seemed important to me at the time but she really couldn’t of cared less. I don’t think what we considered important in the relationship meshed because of that age gap.
That being said. If we were perfect for each other she’d of still been cheating on me with her other married cheating friends because that’s literally the friend group’s hobby. This was found out right before she left after I was snooping on her after catching infidelity, (caught her taking a sexy bathroom selfie so then investigated from there).
But had I not become a provider and kept to my deusch bag ways she’d of gone the way of all the other chicks before her... shacking up with some good looking engineer type dude while creepily stalking my Facebook.
JUST STOP WORRYING ABOUT WHAT SHES GOING TO DO AND HOW TO ACT SO THAT YOU CAN PREVENT THINGS FROM HAPPENING. Go Your Own Way. You obviously want a relationship with this chick just do it. And stop trying to manipulate her or yourself with weird behavior training “frame” techniques.
She WILL demand marriage at some point. That’s when the relationship is over. When she has affection and tingles and feelings for you she will be blind to everything else and happy.
Then when it goes away and she’s kinda blah about you and the sex is same old same ol. she’ll want to push to “the next step.” That’s just because she’s completely bored of a loving relationship. Because the next step is not a relationship at all. It’s basically her dumping you, being nice only when she must, taking all your stuff, and pumping out babies for you to provide for. Once you’re married she won’t even have to be sort of nice anymore.
[–]Trollileo1230 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Slave?
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[–]firebirdone3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yoga killed it for me. That shit is impossible! CONGRATULATIONS on making it past that!!!
[–]TmacMGTOW19 points20 points21 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is what every man should do in his 20s. You are not at your peak SMV anyway.
[–]FritzLn8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And most men would only do this to be a better slave for his future woman.
Who no doubt, will have been fucking a different guy every week, her life a complete mess, for the entire time you were busting your ass to be perfect for her in the future
Suckers
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago* (9 children) | Copy Link
Why no video games? I can understand the women and stuff like that.
[–]ResultsoverExcuses9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Mind games I think?
[–]autoeroticassfxation8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
How many times have you heard a woman say "he's got no game".
It's a vital component of attraction for them. They only say it when the game is so effective they feel powerless, and have been run through repeatedly.
[–]linkwaker10-1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Video Games can be a very unproductive activity (especially the time commitment of MMOs/MMORPGs) I'd give single player games a pass but there are people out there who think they're gonna do a 30 min session but oh shit 2 hours passed. That plus it's a very sedentary activity and doesn't actively promote finance skills except for a few niche games. imo moderation is where it's at and most people should already have game fatigue (i.e. naturally shorter sessions) after experiencing the same type of games for the past 20 years.
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[–][deleted] 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah video games are such a distraction compared to reddit, right?
[–]thewayupp-5 points-4 points-3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
How many hours of your life have you spent playing video games? If you've averaged 2 hours per day for the last 15 years, then thats over 10,000 hours.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Winding down and relaxing is important to be able to focus on your job when you are working. Rather work 8 efficient hours and wind down 2 hours than working 10 hours, constantly thinking about work and burning out in some years.
[–]thewayupp-4 points-3 points-2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Seems like saying anything against video games gets a real knee Jerk off reaction. Sounds like you got a handle on it tho. A real master of success.
[–]LetMeBeYourDadPls0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Every man? We are all going our own way Nothing counts for all of us except AWALT.
[–]Fozes8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
For what? Why go through all the suffering and toil? Some eventual hedonistic reward?
My entire life I was told love is the reason to keep living. When you realize love is an illusion what's the actual fucking point? So tired of this pathetic monkey brain
[–]Unit6142 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It's not the same for everyone, that's why you should go YOUR own way.
[–]Fozes2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The way i want to go involves love. I'm being sent my own loveless way
[–]slab_of_beef0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
love isn't confined to the opposite sex, actually love is just made up crap for women.
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[+]chocolatedestruction[S] -6 points-5 points-4 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
That mentality is the reason why so many people don't succeed in life.
[–]gprime6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, but you need to realize that success as you define it is not something that many people want. Money buys choice, but most people are never going to be stratospherically wealthy, so short of that there is good evidence that this is a point beyond which further wealth does not increase one's happiness generally. And if you're MGTOW, you're not supporting a wife or kids, so there's no need to slavishly accumulate capital to waste on material goods you don't particularly want, especially at the expense of your leisure time. And as far as health, there is a trade off involved; living a "healthy" lifestyle means depriving yourself a great deal of short term hedonism. For many people, that isn't a winning argument, both because life can be cut short at any time, and because a long life of deprivation isn't very rewarding in the eyes of many. I know that personally I'd rather indulge my hedonistic preferences and die at 60 than make "healthy" choices and live to 85.
I think the only logical definition of success is a personal one, measured against what the individual actually values, rather than something formulaic like the original quote presumes.
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[–]chocolatedestruction[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You measure success by how much wealth you have, security and health. This post said nothing about making alot of money. It's about being smart and securing one's future. Men that don't think this way terrify me.
[–]chocolatedestruction[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude...do you know what wealth actually means?
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You will not regret it.
A few years ago I did this with 2 of my best friends. We started a multimedia production company that took off, and this is important, entirely through hard work and focus that would have absolutely not been possible with girlfriends.
Last 2 years I've put around 50k in savings.
[–]kokymac1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I am entering that now.
[–]JedYorks1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s me on my main in smash
[–]ZANIESXD1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
But I like gaming. :p
[–]tang_011 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'll play games if I want!
[–]chocolatedestruction[S] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lmfao no one said you couldn't
[–]HierEncore1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
health, business, and finances.... the exact things I neglect the most. My health, because my medical insurance sucks and co-payments are high and taking time off work for medical and dental work will ensure i get replaced by someone 10 years younger than me and more eager to impress.
business and finances, another big nope. all i can do is skip meals and tighten my belt. my FT job takes up all my time and leaves me sore after work, no real opportunity to increase my income. Although there probably is, but I dont see it.
I do my best to save inspite of making poverty-level wages (no college) , but one car repair, or one medical emergency, and it's all gone.
I wonder how many guys in here are stuck in my situation... hopefully im the only one.
[–]the_aj1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Go to school to be a lineman. My uncle was in a very similar situation to you. He was 41 and dropped it all and completed the training. It’s hard, dangerous work but it’s fulfilling and you can make big bucks!! I think he pulled in close to $250k last year. Lots of overtime. I know money doesn’t necessarily MAKE you happy, but shit a new, exciting career, new friends, NEW money, new you my guy.
[–]theparhelionn1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is what we need more of on this sub
[–]charvo1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think that really pays dividends when a man reaches the 2nd half of his life.
[–]r80011 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No games?! No. Heavily disagree. ...Wait... Are we talking dating games here or videogames, because if it's the former, then agree.
[–]teelolws1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Heh look what happens if you just take the first six words of that quote.
/immature
yup yup
[–]Justin_Case6190 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly!
[–]taiseanwade0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly my friends. Start early for best results
[–]TheSud0070 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What I do and what I'll continue to do
Good on you mate
[–]mrevr0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Going through my transition right now .
I wish you all the luck mate
[–]ayram38240 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
me, a dumbass, realizing this at the age of 27
[–]chocolatedestruction[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
are you married with kids?
[–]ayram38242 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
quick rundown:
single, no kids, no debt, 44K to my name, car paid off, no health issues, no family attachments, credit score 780something, starting University next fall
replying to you made me realize i should be thankful
[–]chocolatedestruction[S] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You're doing better than 70% of american males. Be happy, keeping climbing that ladder called life and workout. lol that's my moto
[–]ayram38241 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
fingers crossed i should be starting a new job within this month thatll keep me occupied 9-5 Mon-Fri. i already go to gym 1-2 hours a day everyday. should have my bachelors in 2 years. im climbing until my arms fall off. thanks bro good luck
That's amazing. Keep at it. I'm in the process of getting my second bachelor's and then my doctorate. Just trying to do what makes me happy
[–]astralduelist0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
And after that period you realize you dont need anybody because you were all alone when it really mattered :)
You probably didn't read the post because it said "a period in his life" not "all his life".
[–]largepaycheckaddict0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Amen 🙏
[–]Ice-Berg-Hermit0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There right now
[–]Paladin29030 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That period is called “my life.” Lol. Today’s girls, especially Millennial girls (which are the prime dating targets), are nothing but drama, headaches, and problems.
I don’t want any of that shit in my life. They’ve priced themselves out of the market, as far as I’m concerned. Definitely not worth the effort involved.
[–]CdVrfl0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And that period should be 1-100 yearls old
[–]A_Stylish_Man0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
100% agree. But basically as long as you're MGTOW, this is your lifestyle!
[–]Red03900 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fuck yeah
[–]ErnestShocks0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Goooodnesssss if this isn't me rn. Just trying to focus on becoming as healthy and stable as possible. Seems like everything else really doesn't want that though because damn is it tough.
[–]Nemoitto0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why did I read this as “Every man should have a period”? Lol. I was legit thinking some feminist came in here and posted something
[–]EqualFaithlessness1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Read the same thing lmao
[–]HowDoYouEvenMean0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Or grow up
[–]chocolatedestruction[S] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's the literal definition of the post
[–]HowDoYouEvenMean0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No I mean, grow up
[–]Strtwrktguy0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hell yes.
[–]Texian_Fusilier0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've done about 4 years like that.
[–]AMovedHeathen0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So is everyone else here now gay or what
[–]MafiosoMGTOW0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah this period should be age 16-65.
[–]neubiiAUT0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I am at it rn, stopped smoking pot, started working out 5-6 times a week, picked up a guitar and taught myself, eating cleaner than ever, lost over 5kgs already (from 76 to 71), gaming is still a huge addiction of mine and I don't really know how to tackle it atm. It's so hard to get myself to study and work when i know i could chill and game.
[–]kucanusa0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There right now, just got to keep my investments climbing so I can retire at 33.
Fucking preach
[–]phoneticau0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Amen Brother
[–]ShardBlade0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Na games are fun
[–]purgeallinfidels0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That is the best advice ever.
[–]astrokibwe0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Me too my brother
[–]mgtowthrowww0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I remember telling people this in my early 20s and they treated me like a lunatic.
“I was one missing check from being homeless. I want to make sure I’m solid”
“What? So you can’t have a girlfriend.”
“Yeah. I gotta work 80 hours a week to fix this fuckup”
“That’s dumb”
“Okay”.
[–]Greeneyeball670 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No games? Are you taking my Minecraft from me?
[–]Zombocom19110 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yep, and after doing that, most men will then allow a female to come and tear it all down, while screaming at him the entire time. fucking morons.
[–]xero1300 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Amen.
Because you're worth it
[–]juice_bomb0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So no fun or time to enjoy life?
[–]PolesWithGoals0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That period will last my entire life
[–]charvo0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Life can be seen as 4 parts. The 1st part is from birth to 22 years old. That's the part where a man has to learn via schooling. The 2nd part is from 23-44. That's when he has to work hard and try to save as much as possible. Capital buildup is key here. Compounding returns will be important. 45-66 is the part when a man works smart. Take care of yourself physically because this is the age in which a man's body can be vulnerable. Continue to build capital and investments. 67 to end of life is when a man gets reap the fruits of his labor. Relax and enjoy what you have built up in the 1st 3 parts of your life.
I want to add a disclaimer here though. I used the motivation of thinking I needed money to raise a wife and kids to make myself get through the daily grind when things got tough. I think being MGTOW does have different motivations especially if one discovers MGTOW early in life. Do you have the motivation to want to work hard and save? Now that I am MGTOW but with a decent nest egg from my earlier years, I find myself wanting to go the FIRE route. I am leading a minimalistic life with little stress. I like it. Am I glad I focused and saved in my early years? Definitely.
[–]Dkchawre0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Absulutely.
[–]Jonlife0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Duh. This is what it means to be red pilled. Any man who doesn't have this sort of focus is a simp. He's blue pilled and being strung along by pop culture and vagina. He's blind and has no idea why he's serving that vagina.
Once you wake up, take the red pill etc, there's no turning back. No amount of pussy will cloud your mindset.
[–]Pruny850 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
#MeToo
[–]r0bo71c0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This period is right now for me! :) thanks brothers!! Go your own way!!
[–]Ballistic_Ballhead0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And this period should last his entire life.
You're wrong here.
[–]BarfTheChicken0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I like gaming tho
[–]v_iHuGi0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Girls will always be a waste of time time, better than spend time with friends & Family, play games & work hard.
[–]Sneakybobo0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm also doing this right now. But the worst addiction to give up is shitposting on social media haha
[–]markus_brutus0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same thing brother. Working to build a legacy i can be proud of, no distractions.
[–]Fortius140 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've been doing this since I was 32 years old. I'm 37 now and almost a millionaire. The problem (or gracious fact) that you will learn in this time period is how much of a drain most people in general are. Women, in particular, usually don't add much but just take. You try and tell them what you're trying to build and it seems to go over their head. It was good for them to walk on me as I'm in getting in better shape physically, mentally and emotionally like never before. And if you're like me, it will be hard to even talk to women again seriously.
[–]chocolatedestruction[S] -4 points-3 points-2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Anyone who disagrees with this and has something negative to say about this post lives a shitty life and is comfortable in his shitty life.
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