Ever see your ex and realize you dodged a bullet

PhrygianScaler · 2021-06-21T02:08:40+00:00

I’ve lived long enough to see every girl I ever simped for turn into the Cafeteria lady. Every. Single. One.

kclanton80 · 2021-06-21T02:27:58+00:00

My girlfriend from high school divorced her husband a few years ago. Has recently been hanging around a few of my friends and I bumped into her at a barbecue in the afternoon. She has three kids and is about 70 lb heavier..... I'm fit and in shape and still dating 23-year-olds at 40.

She actually thought she was going to try and reconnect with me in the beginning until I showed her absolutely no interest whatsoever.

My beta friend who holds the barbecue has even told me that we should be together and that I would be happy if I had her. I couldn't help but laugh hysterically inside.

It took me literally years to get over this girl and stop thinking about her as I would probably say she was my first love. Now when I see her all I can think of is thank God we did not stay together

anon_likes_tendies · 2021-06-21T03:05:17+00:00

the wall is undefeated.

darzamat · 2021-06-21T04:23:30+00:00

Same as you bro. My last ex pushed me towards discovering red pill and MGTOW. Last time I saw her, her facial skin was so torn and wrinkled, she looked like The Wicked Witch of the West. She saw me, stopped to talk to me, I just gave her the most cynical and dissaproving look ever, and kept on walking. Most satisfying moment EVER !!! Her face was full of wrinkles, a lot more than usual for her age and a lot more than other women, also her feet were very swollen, just like a fat woman. She looked a mess. There is no way I'm exposing myself in public with her on tow. I gave her a look of complete dissaproval and kept walking.

If a simple glance can be a rejection, I did it !!

Goaliej · 2021-06-21T02:07:34+00:00

I work in a hospital on the second floor. There are three elevators just outside the unit I work on. As I was getting about 15 feet from the elevator on the left, my ex got off the center elevator. I don't think that she recognize me as I was wearing a mask due to Covid and she didn't look at me or say anything to me. She was about 220lbs. with nice curves when I last dated her six years ago. She sure has ballooned up - now she's about 270-ish and was walking with a cane! I didn't say anything, just got on the elevator and went down and to the canteen to get a tall fresh coffee.

mnchrme · 2021-06-21T02:27:19+00:00

Yea. They are a mess.

Permaban_Me_Speddit · 2021-06-21T01:36:59+00:00

Same, she looks like a literal little boy now so I'm good haha

EvilGuy · 2021-06-21T05:11:33+00:00

Yeah I recently went on Facebook for the first time in about 3 years and was checking up on all the old high school people I could remember and find.

Every single girl I used to think was hot, now pretty much looks like used up garbage.

Time is not kind to anyone but women especially.

rockthejazz · 2021-06-21T04:33:15+00:00

the person i wanted in my last year of school but never got with, i saw her about 10 years latter and she had put on about 50kg or more, it could have been me that got her pregnant with in 6 months of leaving school. bullet defiantly dodged i was just a horny teenager in retrospect.

Thinkingman21 · 2021-06-21T08:07:36+00:00

Ex was seen this year divorced at 30 with no kids and always wants to talk. Nope.

tomukurazu · 2021-06-21T15:51:21+00:00

well, ofc we went through all shit, i have a fresh one.

yesterday was my birthday (i spent the day with my dad since it's also the father's day, we watched gone with the wind) i got a text one of the girls i was fucking back at then. she was wishing me a happy birthday, so i thought what gives, let's be civilized human being and i replied "thank you, i am surprised you remembered".

fuck me, right.

her response, "it was on my calendar, don't you ever talk to me, never ever try to contact me".

i should know better and just ignore, but i was in a good mood, tried to be polite.

53withtrollhair · 2021-06-21T05:10:33+00:00

The last one I ran into didn't pack on a bunch of weight, the opposite. She looked like she was drying out. That was the first thing that came to mind. Drying out.

OwenWentFullMGTOW · 2021-06-21T13:43:35+00:00

Prom back in high school was a total compromise. Didn't want to go but got talked into it.

At the afterparty, I chatted up my prom date's friend. She was gorgeous, had a cute smile, lean and skinny body, etc., she was just hot.

A friend sent me a link to the prom friend's Facebook a few days ago and it's hard to believe it's even the same person. The only thing I recognized was her smile. The wall is undefeated.

Number_Useful · 2021-06-21T06:16:16+00:00

Dated a girl when I was 18-21. She was gorgeous and did modeling, did some local commercials. Logged into Instagram after years of not using it and she showed up in the people feed. Has dead eyes, she looks like my 50 yr old aunt that wears too much make up.

BoogersAndSugar · 2021-06-21T09:36:59+00:00

Absolutely! She found me on Facebook. I accepted her friend request and just assumed that was as far it'd go, but no, she started constantly sending me messages and trying to worm her way back into my life. Eventually she took the hint and backed off. Pretty girl and extremely intelligent, but an absolute sociopath. She almost wrecked my life.

TopAd4848 · 2021-06-21T12:49:13+00:00

Every single time I pick up our son. She has royally f-ed up every aspect of life, from health to finances to cleanliness and treating people right. Good thing she got rid of me the very moment I took my first steps on the path to betterment. Would've probably had no more than 10% of the success I had since then.

Evil_Cat0000 · 2021-06-21T13:24:29+00:00

Every woman you don't date is a bullet dodged.

2021-06-21T15:47:46+00:00

It’ll be interesting to see women I know hit the wall in the upcoming years.

I’m only 20 and I already have seen some of the “popular girls” from high school put on some serious weight. Crazy how quick it can happen. I almost feel bad for them, like it’s only been a couple of years.

SwoleyMoleyFrijoley · 2021-06-21T17:47:30+00:00

Men turn into classic cars. We gain value with maintenance and proper care.

Women turn into beaters. They'll get you from A to B but they're a salvage title at best. Nobody can fix that bent frame so ride it until the wheels go flat and the brakes are shot then pawn them off on the next sucker. They'll end up in the junkyard where they belong eventually.

TheSmartTraeder · 2021-06-21T20:17:14+00:00

Oh yeah, I have seen girls from the past. The reason why I stuck with none of them was because most of them had serious issues anyways. There hasn't been a single one that was zero drama.

I just looked at the list of past flings and going through all names made me realize that every single girl had some kind of psychological problems. No exceptions. So much cheating, ghosting and BPD disorders were involved.

I'd say less than 5% are (or were) relationship material. And with those it's only a matter of time before problems arrive.

Supersonic_staples · 2021-06-22T00:47:42+00:00

I know social media morphed into a cancer but Facebook was brilliant for seeing how old crushes and ex GF turned out. Haven’t seen a single one morph into anything I want to be around, dodged sooo many bullets.

reacherj5 · 2021-06-23T19:09:46+00:00

I recognize it, thats when andd why the breakup happens, sure they have hit the wall and all after, but the looks is not reason, its everything else, like craziness.

soccerdelica · 2021-06-22T01:22:40+00:00

One time a some years ago when I was like 18 or something, out and about fucked up as u do when ur teenagers, my friends point out some girl on sidewalk like “hey that’s (ex’s name)” “I’m like no way that’s her you guys are tripping” The girl was like easily 50% bigger in all areas and not in a good way from what I remembered of her. Told them “I’ll prove it watch this” Approached her and was like “hey excuse me is your name ___” got the most hilarious choked bitch face stare back at me and she didn’t say anything and walked away. Woke up to a paragraph message sent at like 4 am saying shit like “good to see u hit rock bottom, loser, drunk drug addict” just shittin on me right. We were together from like grade 9-11 then I just wanted to fuck more girls got bored with her

headxshotx · 2021-06-21T03:10:01+00:00

This would almost be agreeable if it wasn't so fake

Title	Ever see your ex and realize you dodged a bullet
Author	GracenandGracen
Upvotes	38
Comments	58
Date	June 21, 2021 12:58 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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