We have to be willing to acknowledge the absolute death of fatherhood.

This is not that we can't as fathers acknowledge other fathers, at least so long as that term carries only symbolic meaning.

To all the men who did not want to have children my heart goes out to you and your children for their mother selfish acts.

For all the disillusioned fatherd who believe they have been a father: thoes that choose to ignore the fact that -if they were impactful, it was because the mother allowed you to feel that way.

But most of all my heart goes out to all the men who wanted to be a father and was refused that opportunity to decide how to raise that child.

You are all good men in my opinion.

I suggest that we refuse to go along with the empty platitudes and celebrations, rather I think we should spend the day in mourning.