It's a tactic just like nagging for the majority of women.

When girls try to shame you or yell at you for having standards? That's a shit test to see if you have the high status and self-respect to stand up to them and hold your ground. If you don't, then sit down and shut up, silly beta.

When girls try to tell you not to break up with your cheating gf? When they tell you that this MGTOW thing is just a phase and you'll find a girl someday? It is a way to weed out the men without enough self-respect to take what they want.