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Finally learned my lesson dating.

May 20, 2019
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I got out of a really rough relationship about a year ago and I’m finally getting over it. Single mom abused me, made me pay for child support, and sell my video game consoles just to have her make rent. Recently tried dating by fooling around with a friend but I got mislead and pressured into having sex. She mislead my emotions and then gets back with her ex because he has more money. I’m glad to say I’m done with women.

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Title Finally learned my lesson dating.
Author thealleycatking
Upvotes 35
Comments 9
Date May 20, 2019 10:51 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit /r/MGTOW
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[–]tdh79211 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Welcome!

Posts like yours are quite common. I hope you swallow the red pill. Life will get a lot easier.

[–]-NavyBluePaint-8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't quit life, just quit women.

[–]Ghost_Enduring4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Just don't look back, keep on walking.

[–]crityouallday3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

At least you got off easy. Unfortunately Men have paid worst prices.

[–]Heart0fSword4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

That last part happened with me 2 times, with 2 different girls (it might be 3, but I don't really know if that's true).

The first one literally stopped talking to me as soon as she met a rich guy (he has a yatcht. If you known how expensive it is to have AND maintain one, then you know what I'm talking about). She married to him and now lives in the USA.

The other one grew up with me and tried talking to me (she is getting desperate as she's hitting 30). It was all well and good when she accepts, out of nowhere, a guy asking her hand to be her GF. Then she breaks up a while later and begin talking to me again after a year. Everything nice, I wanted to ask her out at the theater, and on the planned day, when I call her before picking her up, she says she got back with her BF and freaking asks me to buy her BF's ticket (they're both so dumb that they don't even know how to buy online) before the movie. But he has the latest car and all. He can pay for things she wants and can take her to the places she likes. Ah, they've broke up again, about a year and a half ago. And she tries to talk to me again, and even touch me sometimes. I know a slut when I see one — it doesn't matter how much a girl and her family are "solid". Today I ignore her everytime we meet at church or any place else. I'm better talking to an ant or the dying grass.

The third one wasn't actually a relationship, but we talked everyday over the internet, since we were both from different countries (USA and Brazil). Turns out she married to a rich guy basically because their families were close ever since. She was always a kind girl and all, but marring that fast to a rich boi has my doubts today. Nowadays they fight a lot and he even left home. He doesn't like anything she does (anime, games, etc) so that's why I think that their wedding was basically arranged or she might have had a big eye on his pocket there. Not that it matters to me.

And that's why can't trust a freaking woman again. All I can think is that they'd anything for money.

I've always been a really nice and kind guy, but they've changed me. I got hurt to the point that I can't find myself involved with any woman emotionally. Just sexually. But I'm smart, and I know that even that can screw me up.

Ever since a fellow MGTOW member showed me this life style, I've been really better. I'm taking care of myself and I'm not falling into traps. I'm not marrying someone just to taken away from my hobbies, being ordered around and taking my money. Get real.

Nowadays the only female that has my attention is my dog. She's the only one worth my time and feelings, as she doesn't care for what I am or what I have. And she won't betray me for money.

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[–]11bNg0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

U paid child support for a creampie that wasnt yours?

[–]thealleycatking0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Unfortunately

[–]mvlock0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

the media showing women in different light from the reality

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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