It's been several months since I've had sex, so earlier this week I agreed to meet up with a girl I met on Tinder. This girl set the date/time and even sent a confirmation message an hour before the date yesterday to meet up at 9:00pm.

I was about 5 minutes late to the park where were going to meet up at. Normally I'm EARLY for dates because I can't seem to rid myself of human decency but I overslept taking a nap so I was running late. Hell, I even felt a little guilty for being 5 minutes late.

Anyway, over the course of the next hour I was exchanging texts with this girl as I waited for her. I was cutting her some slack because I had been late in responding to her "confirmation text" and I thought maybe she was waiting to leave her apartment until I responded. And also it's a big city so I can sort of understand that it takes a while to get from Point A to Point B.

As I kept waiting, the more pissed off I got. She would take 15 minutes to respond to text messages about the location, about what she was wearing so that I could identify her, and finally a "where are you?" text I sent her. Finally I just sent her a text saying "I don't want to wait anymore, I'm going home." She tried calling me and I just ignored it and blocked her. I'm not going to wait like a starved dog for over an hour just to fuck someone, especially when they can't even respond in a decent amount of time to give me an update.

I kept rationalizing to myself the reasons why she might be late, but we had agreed to meet at 9:00pm. She should have been there at that time. I'm sick of making excuses for women. Maybe it seems insignificant but for me it felt good to be able to tell this woman to fuck off, I'm not going to let you waste my time.

A year ago I would have waited for her to arrive, probably would have fucked her, and put up with her bullshit as long as she was down to fuck. Not anymore.