Ok a few months ago I(M27)decided to end our marriage after 7years with my wife(F27). I just couldn’t take the fighting and the abuse anymore. Every year our marriage got worse and worse and it broke me down to the point where I couldn’t take it. The week before New Years she went on a trip with her parents and I stayed behind due to work. On New Years she confessed that she’s cheated on me quite a few times throughout our marriage. To me that was the last straw. When she came back I packed most of my belongings and left I was homeless for a few days till I reached out to an ex coworker he offered me a room and there I stayed. Though there was no way she’d let me leave just like that. In the last 2 months she’s tried to run me over, get me arrested, taken practically all my money, and I could go on really. Right now she’s talking to i don’t know how many guys as a way to get me jealous and get me back. I’m sticking with my decision and I’m not turning back this time I can’t and I won’t. Emotionally I’m struggling so hard to keep myself together. I can’t take it when she calls me and sends me pictures of things she’s doing with other guys. It makes me so angry because I would never in my life stoop that low and hurt her that way. Last night she called me drunk trying to say how much she missed me as she was trying to wake up the guy she just slept asking where her underwear was. That hurt me so so bad I got upset and lost it for a moment Said a lot of mean things I probably shouldn’t have. Today she’s using all that against me making herself out to be the victim. She called my mom crying and saying how much of an asshole I was and that I was the one hurting her for leaving. How can she pretend to be so innocent to everyone when all she’s done is cause me pain?
Sorry for the grammar.

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/auehgf/how_can_someone_that_hurts_and_abuses_you_make/