How Feminism Ruined Marriages

PrinceRaj53 · 2019-11-11T14:43:09+00:00

Well, there is absolutely no shortage of people who, in their willful ignorance, will wife up a woman they "feel a connection with"(I know I know, cringe). The average joe has zero idea about female nature, the laws, the problems that a marriage can bring in a man's life etc because of his willful ignorance plus tradcon-ism & the "woke progressive" bullshit that goes on in the society which make men blind to the obvious knowledge of these things.

So its men's willful ignorance + indoctrination + lies told by mommy, religion and society. Every single thing plays it's own role, and as all of these are part of the chain reaction called gynocentrism , it just works out of the box.

As well all know, we RedPill/Mgtow never endorsed marriage, at all. In fact, RedPill/MGTOW rejects the very notion of marriage and LTR because, since our parent's/grandparent's/great grandparent's times, it was always a poor foundation and bad business contract for men (since mankind started to develop).

We redpill/mgtow guys don't only say "yo bro don't marry" because of the possible divorce rape, law issues or "marriage is a bad deal in the modern times". Although these reasons are part of the "why" , sure, but most people miss the most important aspect of the "why" which is beyond the usual reasons.

That part is : the "female evolutionary nature" which is inside each and every woman which is biological, and undeniable. As for marriage, it is a poor foundation on which men try to operate a relationship feeling (men don't think while in a relationship, they feel, and that's where everything starts going downhill) that "everything will be alright because My cousin's husband and my cousin are also married and they are doing great"/"my mom married my dad and they are doing great"/"some random woman and man got married and they are doing great". What they miss here is that there is a fine line between "it seems they are doing great" and "they are actually very happy, specially the husband".

Now, why men forget that? Simple, its his cousin/mom/friend/family member or a woman they are seeing, which means family. And as we all know, men tend to get defensive when it comes to family and sensitive topics associated with the woman they are seeing. So they spout the same bs again and again : "no no she is great, I know her", "she will neeeeever be like that, I am sure", and the best cliche of 2019 : "Not All Women Are Like That Because Stacy and Linda are Not Like That". I wish I could have a dollar everytime someone says these kind of lines.

So, back to the main point of marriage being a poor foundation to have a relationship. Why? Because, you as a man, are essentially promising a woman "I will be with you forever" giving her the "gf/fiance/wife" post just like that, while she is giving/laying out conditions for you to operate in, just like a one sided business contract where someone willingly gives in without thinking twice based on his feelings .

You are not saying to the woman "I will only stick with you if you behave well, stay loyal, treat me well or if only you fulfill my conditions first"(although these things mean jack shit anyways, she will be the coin flip you didn't want her to be the moment she wants to), you are saying none of that. You're just saying to the woman that "I have no clue how you'll behave in future but I'll be with you forever anyway because I am that insecure that you wont stay with me otherwise".

The psychological damage that this does to your bargaining position is catastrophic. She has almost no incentive to behave, or prove her worth to you anymore because you've given up all your cards to get exclusive access to hers. Which by default makes you low value in her eyes.

"If this guy is stupid enough to marry me, he is not a high value at all" this is a female hamster wheel.

It's almost comical how quickly a women's behavior shifts once she's instilled with this knowledge, it's an emotional conquest for her. Nothing breeds worse behavior than a woman who knows she has your unwavering emotional commitment.

In short, marriage is just a dumb idea to limit a man and to force him to be inside a box all the time by limiting his access to outside. You are literally wasting your time to build something that can be broken at any time. Every second a man wastes on a woman in a relationship, is a second he lost to obtain ego satisfaction and thus never got that second for himself.

This, is why we all say marriage is the worst deal mankind ever created, because it is nothing but a one sided losing contract for you,the man; where the woman wins regardless of whatever she does. And even if they don't win, its still a lousy deal because there is nothing in a relationship for men except ego satisfaction, because women and sex are meant to be for entertainment, not to build a relationship with. Women are not suitable for long term relationship, as except ego satisfaction and "something is better than nothing", they do not offer anything else. Its that simple. Don't know why people complicate it so much.

Women are just not suitable for long term relationships. You as a man are just wasting your most valuable asset "commitment" while getting punished for doing so.

Each and every relationship with women should have zero investments (emotional, financial, psychological etc) from the man's side. And it should come with an expiry date/time of 4-6 months, that too without cohabitation. Enjoy the sex while it lasts, and get out when it becomes incompatible. Plain and simple, see?

Like my dad says, "it's great when it's simple."

Don't pay for things you can't own.

Silas1067 · 2020-01-18T14:14:16+00:00

I've been married 20 years, and feminism is screwing things up for me. It might not happen right away, and you might not even see it, but it will ultimately become an issue.

After supporting my wife and kids for 20 years (she doesn't work), paying all the bills, mortgage, etc., my wife comes into a large inheritance (multiple millions). First thing she tells me is that she is going to leave all her money to our kids if she dies (even though I have her as primary beneficiary on all my accounts). Then she says that her money will only be used to help with college--otherwise it stays in the stock market. Translation: I gotta keep working until age 70, while my wife sits on millions.

So even though she seems to be the nice housewife, she

a) Doesn't trust me (thinks I would blow all her money if she died, or give it to some bimbo)

b) Is setting herself up independently from me, aka potential plan b

Nice way to make me feel like I am a walking ATM machine

Never marry

Title	How Feminism Ruined Marriages
Author	DangZagnut
Upvotes	20
Comments	2
Date	November 11, 2019 12:16 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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