This was a text conversation I was having with a plate (not one anymore). She was really big into marriage and kids and would always talk about "us" having kids, even though I never suggested anything of that sort.

Yesterday, since the conversation led to the topic, I told her that I'm not interested in marriage since it is dangerous for men given the biased practice of law against men in marriage. I cited statistics of how often women get custody of kids, men having to pay alimony, fake dowry and harassment cases, etc.

Her : That means you should choose the wife properly. It is your fault if the marriage fails and if the wife gets custody and alimony.

Me : By that logic, if you get raped, it is because you didn't choose your clothes, people you hang out with properly. It is your fault if you get raped.

Her (after a few minutes of silence) : So... what plans for the weekend?