Hypergamy trumps Morality in the Female Brain.

Have you heard this one before? “There are plenty of good women out there. You are just dating the wrong ones.”

Yes, gentlemen: It is YOUR fault that you cannot find a decent woman.

One thing that I have noticed throughout my life (way before I became Red-Pilled) was that women did not seem to care about morals and virtuous ethics. (“Why are women attracted to immoral assholes?”)

I dismissed these uncomfortable doubts about female “goodness” in the past, but after witnessing shitty, unethical behavior from almost every woman that I know and after reading more about female morality and behavior, things are beginning to come into focus.

Why is it that women have zero loyalty to a man who has sacrificed so much for them? Briffault’s Law

How is it that she can divorce a man, take half of his money, alienate him from his children, monkeybranch to another man... lie, cheat, steal, and still feel good about herself?

How is it that women can send love letters to serial killers and the worst monsters in prison, while being turned off by “nice guys”. Hybristophilia

Why are Women attracted to psychopaths?

Things started to make sense when I saw THIS POST by 79johnsmith:

“Kohlberg found that as young girls developed, they developed normally, going from stage 1, to stage 2, then somehow got stuck at stage 3 of the moral development ladder, seemingly unable to progress to stage 4 and above.

Enter Carol Gilligan, a female researcher, who also found that women similarly get stuck at stage 3 and attributed it to the extremely high value women placed on social interaction above all else.

Gilligan could not dispute Kohlberg's findings and given women would appear stuck at stage 3 of the development ladder, she simply re-labelled women's morality as 'the Ethics of Care' which only has 3 stages (corresponding to the first 3 stages of Kohlberg's ladder).

The important takeaway is this:-

A woman's highest form of morality is based on social conformity and social interaction while a man's highest form of morality is based around fairness and treating others fairly.”

So, in general: Women only care about social conformity, NOT about what is right and wrong. As long as SHE LOOKS GOOD in the eyes of others: then she is good.

If she cheats, if she lies, if she steals, if she sleeps with 100 guys and no one else knows about it: THEN IT DOESN’T COUNT.

Perhaps this is why we see so much virtue signaling by women today. Virtue signaling accomplishes two things: It broadcasts the APPEARANCE of a woman having some virtuous ethics and morality, and it is an easy way for her to get some ATTENTION, which is one of the most important things for a woman.

After some painful breakups in my own life, I could never understand how women could move on so quickly and easily. These were women who said that they “loved me” at some point in our relationship.

THIS VIDEO by huMAN was a real eye-opener for me and helped me realize that women are not really capable of Love in the way that I thought that they were. THIS DISCUSSION (Manufacturing of Love) also hit very close to home.

Women are selling a male version of Love that they are incapable of delivering on.

“Men value LOVE: Women love VALUE.”

Now comes the question: Why are women so different from men when it comes to morality?

If you watch the video by huMAN that I linked to, He discusses the concept of “war brides”. All throughout history, human tribes have been at war. One tribe would invade another tribe’s territory, kill all the men and boys, probably ignore the elderly, and take the young fertile women. Now what choice does the captured wife of a now-dead man have? She can fight to the death, perhaps, or “throw herself off a cliff.” OR she can submit to the conquering tribe who killed her family, and become the wife of the guy who killed her husband. And what better way to be sure that he is the most “ALPHA” male: He PROVED it by KILLING her husband!

The same old story played out in modern times when the Nazis invaded the rest of Europe. Plenty of women were willing to betray their “tribe” and sleep with the invading Nazis. (They got their heads shaved after the war... The treasonous Men? Well, they were killed, as they should have been, IMO. Different punishments for the same crime... sound familiar?)

So women have EVOLVED this way: To lack loyalty. The loyal ones were killed off a long, long time ago. The “loyalty” DNA did not survive. She is only as loyal as her OPTIONS.

They evolved to have morals of social conformity, not of caring for others. To make decisions based on FEELINGS that she has RIGHT NOW, very easily forgetting about the sacrifices you made for her in the past. She doesn’t Love YOU. She loves the Status and Security that you PROVIDE, until something better comes along.

It really all comes down to SURVIVAL. Her primal survival instinct will always drive her hypergamous behavior. She will always be looking to “trade up” or monkeybranch to the guy with the most “STATUS”: The most status in HER mind (and perhaps more importantly: HER FRIENDS’ minds!) Pay close attention to who her close friends are. Status and Attention (and “Tingles”) are as important to a woman as Sex is to a man. Women will always be in COMPETITION with one another for social position. This is why older women don’t mentor younger women and often give them terrible advice. Older women are competing with younger women and secretly deep down: They want to see younger women fail.

Don’t hate women for it: They are a product of evolution. Their hypergamous doubt never sleeps, just as a man’s sex drive never sleeps. They will always be looking for the most “Alpha” that they can get, even if he is a psychopath with absolutely zero morality. Even if he tortures, rapes, and kills other women and children.

Women are not ALL the same, but they all come with some degree of malware installed on the hard drive. Some more, some less.

These are just some thoughts... opinion, not facts. They are disturbing concepts, and yes perhaps evoke disgust. But again: Don’t hate women for something that they cannot control. They are a product of our violent past (and present). It’s just Female Nature.

Better to accept them for what they ARE rather than hate them for what they can NEVER BE.