I have been in many groups settings but I never seem to fit in with any group. I can be civil to everyone but it's hard to go past that because I always run out of things to talk about and I live my life differently from most of society. It seems that every guy I meet always cares about finding the most attractive partner and reaching the top of the rat race but I don't want to do that. Their entire lives revolve around making lots of money to spend on women which I think is a complete waste of time.

It used to be hard when I was younger trying to fit in socially and be recognized as part of the group but I'm starting to give up on fitting in and just living my own life. Fitting in now would mean getting a girlfriend and buying a lot of luxury goods to keep up with everyone else. I couldn't keep up one day and I decided to just do everything alone and live by my own principles. I regret not doing this earlier because it would have saved me a lot of stress.

If you're feeling lonely and can't fit in you shouldn't force yourself to fit in. A lot of people will pressure you to fit in socially but it's better to live your life and go your own way because even if you manage to fit in you will be miserable if you are constantly living for others like misery likes company.