This is nothing new. I've never felt anything other than total contempt for anyone who uses dating as a means of financial gain. I despise that, whether a man or a woman does it. Of course, it's not all that common for men to do it. I know it's considered just instinct for women, but it gives me a totally nauseas feeling in the pit of my stomach. I don't give in to all my instincts. I have an instinct to beat the crap out of anyone who is rude, but so far I've always been able to choose to override and instinct that I know is wrong. I don't understand how women can simply use men for money without feeling like disgusting and horrible people.