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I feel trapped in a sexless, platonic marriage. Let herself go (240lbs now), but I fucked up and had a kid with her. I am scared that if I leave her then I will rarely get to see my kid again.

iamnotfromtexas90

November 6, 2018

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https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce/comments/9uoj9q/i_feel_trapped_in_a_sexless_platonic_marriage/?st=jo5yb9bp&sh=8a386559

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Title	I feel trapped in a sexless, platonic marriage. Let herself go (240lbs now), but I fucked up and had a kid with her. I am scared that if I leave her then I will rarely get to see my kid again.
Author	iamnotfromtexas90
Upvotes	80
Comments	44
Date	November 6, 2018 4:31 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/9uptjc/i_feel_trapped_in_a_sexless_platonic_marriage_let/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/i-feel-trapped-in-a-sexless-platonic-marriage-let.463767 https://theredarchive.com/post/463767

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just speaking from experience dude. i'm pretty good at gauging timelines now. can also add at that 2.1 years from now she will be one a first name basis with every local state federal and international law enforcement agency and homeboy "mr good man" (who sounds like a really good hearted guy) is going to have 5-7 squad cars with flashing lights surrounding him over false kidnapping claims, dv, etc. classic darvo. and yes i'm projecting. in fact, the "gooder" guy you are the worse you're going to get it. she wants dude fucking dead. not just mentally, physically, financially broken, she actually wants to put him in the ground and piss on his motherfucking grave so that she can rewrite history to "her" kids about how horrible of a man daddy was. OP, take this as a warning. And ask 39 other dudes on here to tell you their story. at least its a good sign he acknowledged the problem and reached out on here. it may have saved his life

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Another example of why men shouldnt marry. Even Ali Wong joked about this in her stand-up special. Marriage is retirement for women. She doesnt have to work, becomes 300 lbs, does nothing but shop, and nag you to redecorate the house. If youre lucky, theyll cook or clean. Then they hide behind their kids as an excuse to do nothing even though most of these moms could probably win a medal for neglect.

I feel bad for my dad because hes in this same situation. After my mom had her first kid (me), she let herself go and rarely works. Her dumb middle-aged divorced girlfriends poison her mind with this modern SJW bullshit because they failed in their marriages with massive douchebags they chose. Women care more about their phones and Benzes than their kids. Women now make bad mothers and bad partners. So why the fuck would you get married?

Now that its already happened, I would suggest you rip the bandaid off. Youre going to lose half your crap but your sanity is more important. Id rather live alone in an apartment than with a bitch in a house. I understand your concern regarding custody of your child and im sure youll be able to see him. Being a good parent is more important than how often you see them. Good luck!

EDIT: GET A PATERNITY TEST FIRST!

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