I find men and women are quite opposite in that men are rude and aggressive when they’re downtrodden, but women tend to be that way when they’re in a good mood and feel uplifted.

Fairly small sample size I know, but my sister particularly, she’s always been a fairly rude person, always picking at you, but she lost her job and got divorced in the space of a year and she actually turned into quite a nice person for a period. But the second she remarried and got her employment back on track, she’s aggressive and picky. I find this generally, it’s like the more social standing women feel they have the more rude they become.

In general I find men the opposite, the assholes out there are usually working low end jobs and insecure. While successful men tend to become more empathetic and nice.