I met a dude through a friend as a couple of us guys were going on a monthly retreat for a few days. We got to know each other, I learned he had a girlfriend and always teasingly with a smile talked about how it wasn't fair that he was taken because he'd want to fuck every other girl he sees. I quickly learned that he's as blue pilled as you can be, believing that female validating is the end-all-be-all of your life.
So he realized I wasn't paying attention to women at all and started asking me questions like "Did you ever had a girlfriend?" and I casually said "never." You could see how his world-view was slowly shifting since I was able to say it without any shame or whatever. He often smiled but my attitude was the first thing that got him to show shock. He asked if I'm a virgin and I said that I never thought about it.
He kept asking more questions like "Why aren't you interested in girls??" and I casually said I don't see a reason to get one. After he asked me to elaborate, I simply said that I only mess with stuff that I can benefit off of, and I don't see much I can benefit off of a girl.
Fast-forward a few weeks later to today, I learned that the dude broke up with his girlfriend because I made him realize there was nothing in it for him other than the pleasure of being able to feel like a 'good boy' whenever he did what his girlfriend told him to do. He said that he wants to learn how not to depend on that feeling like me.
I didn't even have an agenda to "set him free" or whatever, I just gave him my reasons for not having a girlfriend without saying anything bad about female nature or anything. And that was enough for a blue-pilled guy to break up with his girl and want to learn internal validation.
I learned this just an hour ago and thought I'd share with you gents.
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