I[24M] recently bought the mother of my child[23F] a car with my life savings. She broke up with me unexpectedly today.
We have had a good relationship for over three years. We hit a rough spot half a year ago. I didn't think it would work out, I was willing to get my own apartment. She convinced me to stay and I thought things have been going great since.
Two weeks ago I decided to buy her a car to help with the kids and errands. She was ecstatic, squeezed me really tight and told me how wonderful I was. Since then we haven't had any arguments or issues(so I thought). I have poured my heart and soul out to this woman, we fell in love and started a family. She is unlike anyone I have ever met, her and our child are my world.
This morning she woke me up and promptly broke up with me before I even got out of bed. I had a major breakdown, I asked her why this was happening and where we went wrong. What could we do to fix this. All I got in return was silence, then a request to leave her house by the end of the day with virtually nothing to my name. Now I'm sitting here in tears suddenly having to figure out what to do with my life.
TL;DR: Kicked out of family household, almost nothing to my name. What should I do?
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