If there was a women who truly loved you, you would of found her before you hit twenty years old. The reality is that any women who is interested in you now only loves you for what you have.

RiggyNo · 2019-09-15T19:08:14+00:00

In this day and age I believe the word love has no meaning to it when it comes to people. Society is full of degeneracy, love for people is gone. If a woman told me she loved me Id know that not to be true as she is more than likely fantasising over other men that she hasn't even met. Its a sad and cruel world but that's how it is, at times I don't want it to carry on anymore.

eduardkoopman · 2019-09-15T19:06:24+00:00

If personality really mattered she would have loved you when you were at your worst and didn't have much money and status.

I still remember and carry with me the scars. Of the rough dating history I had in my teens, 20's, up to early 30's. I was able to experience and get all there is relationship wise in that time: random sex, short term reationship sex, and a long term relationship. The LTR was the least worse in nastiness, but the worse in stress and burden. The dating at that time, was nasty. So much rejections, and tries to use me for all type of things. It wasn't even funny anymore.
I still pat my back, for not ending up with a really low self esteem and/or getting depressed.

DangZagnut · 2019-09-15T19:09:05+00:00

It's all about money. Always.

Even at a young age girls date you for what you're doing for them.

OLD-TRUCK · 2019-09-15T23:45:50+00:00

This is so true. I wasn't good enough fresh out of high school, out of money, and working construction.

If there is interest now, it is only because my financial situation has improved.

Starshitlord · 2019-09-16T01:10:36+00:00

Nail on the head, few girls I was kinda interested in when I was 20 or 21 who rejected me came back in my life the last few years, they have the relationship and baby fever now that they are 30. Straight nope, I will chat with one on occasion but that’s rare. They both got fat had multiple relationships basic red flags. Me I just got better and better financially. They just want my resources. All my exes seem to be that way. I will stay single with my nice house, car and great job.

CastandRefused · 2019-09-16T00:57:53+00:00

The last time I believed a woman loved me was three years ago, never will I make that mistake again.

XbabyjeezusX · 2019-09-16T01:14:51+00:00

And water is wet...

MenGoingTOWin · 2019-09-15T18:58:54+00:00

So... women were capable of love before 20? What exactly breaks in them at this age?

https://therationalmale.com/2012/09/10/men-in-love/

GoodMan_Gone · 2019-09-15T19:53:20+00:00

Well, the fact she mainly loves "me" is actually what I can provide would actually be a deal I'd settle for. As long as she'd be able to see beyond the ape hill and after a dosaged sh*treating she'd be able to figure out I'm the best deal she can hook. Sadly that's not the case in this godforgotten freakshow clown world.

CeascaDidGoodAndBad · 2019-09-15T22:05:11+00:00

But I know my mom ever since I was born :(

the40yearoldincel · 2019-09-16T04:44:39+00:00

I'm 40 years old, and I've never had a woman interested me. I've never had a girlfriend, never been in any type of relationship, I've never even been on a date. It's been said many times over, if a woman was really interested in you romantically/sexually, she would be make it abundantly clear, no guessing games about it whatsoever. I've never had that happen to me, so therefore after experiencing life this long without ever experiencing that, I know no woman could ever really love me for me. If some woman did find me attractive, it would only be for my resources. Thankfully I'm poor, that it wouldn't be money that would draw one to me.

FindingKeeping · 2019-09-16T07:26:11+00:00

A WOMEN who loves me, my mom. She still acts as women, emotional, delusional, impractical but yeah thats the trade everyone has to deal with

Sakana011 · 2019-09-15T23:41:36+00:00

I have a similar thought
I have 17 years old and basically if i don't meet any girl until my 25 i will not marry
I never ever had a girlfriend in my entire live lmao. I'm just giving sometime because i don't know if i can meet someone in college or something like that, but seeing how the things are going out there in the world and Sexual Market i guess be single and a eternal virgin is the smartest choice

[deleted] · 2019-09-16T00:09:11+00:00

"If there was a women who truly loved you, you would of found her before you hit twenty years old."

Wise, wise words. Very true. Once women reach a certain age, they start valuing commitment more than love, and are willing to PROSTITUTE themselves to get it! Of course it's not in their best interests that men realize this, so they sell beta males bullshit like they're "less visual" or that they've "matured".

801735 · 2019-09-16T01:47:49+00:00

Have or represent to her in her current state of being. Similar to how males do/experience it.

legalquestion4545 · 2019-09-16T05:10:59+00:00

The is so fucking wrong

I dated a bitch who I thought loved me during that age. Once we got to 25 she started mentioning babies and monkey branches to a richer dick when I said no. Your assumption is that you both stay 20 . ha!

cursed_deity · 2019-09-16T08:41:01+00:00

what if you just met her and are broke (or pretend to be) ?

LOIKDU · 2019-09-16T11:12:00+00:00

That's my mindset right there

Amsacrine · 2019-09-20T23:27:41+00:00

No offense, but you still haven't grasped that women don't love like men love.

They love, but in a different way.

So the real item to take away from this is if you classify love in the way that you are, no women will ever love you.

Now, if you succeed in most or all of the things you do, and you do this for each stage of your life better than 60-80% of the men out there, and suffer no major catastrophes in your life (horrific disabling car accident, shot in combat, get cancer, etc) you will be able to maintain a strong attractive base for which certain less emotional women will be unable to rationalize leaving you.

You can't keep tingles up forever, but you can make your life a cliff they can't bear to walk off due to your continual success.

But then we are right back to a cost-benefit analysis of long term relationships, and for me this always fails unless you need to procreate.