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[–]Ben_Eszes448 points449 points450 points 5 years ago* (16 children) | Copy Link
"Open up" as in "tell me that you have a soft spot for kittens or children" but not "tell me the serious problems that you face throughout your day."
[–]thotless_rat_bastard322 points323 points324 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It's actually code for; tell where your soft spots are so I know where to stick the knife!
[–]User-31f64a4e95 points96 points97 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This. If you don't say much, you are too difficult to manipulate.
[–][deleted] 78 points79 points80 points 5 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
On cue:
[–]Ripsaw199049 points50 points51 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Pretty hilarious but youre on the wrong subreddit man, this is advice for r/theredpill
[–]Cristoff1320 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is like where at job interviews they ask things like "what do you think are your weaknesses". What can you say? You have to give some bullshit which still makes you look good. Shit tests aren't just for romantic relationships.
[–]WhatMixedFeelings6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
!RedditSilver
[–]Thotsithinknots3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I prefer that they dont get off. This way they're indifferent to seeing me again :)
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh. Well I'm a piece of shit.
[–]Thotsithinknots2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We all are bub - but you'll be damned if you ever see putting any sexual effort past getting off in. I don't need some hoe sweating over me. Pride is never a good thing laddy especially when it involves women. That's the road paved for suckers. I'm sure you know this but dont put it into practice. You will. Eventually.
[–]TowerOfMG1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
!redditsilver
u/WhatMixedFeelings
[–]BallsNemze38 points39 points40 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Harharhar Spot on !
[–]rebuildingMyself11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"Oh...you want me to help you fix something about yourself? Why am I randomly thinking of Chad?"
[–]Sfrider362 points363 points364 points 5 years ago (26 children) | Copy Link
..and they are labeled as the more empathetic gender..
[–][deleted] 183 points184 points185 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is such a joke.
[–][deleted] 93 points94 points95 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Women can read ya but they don't feel ya.
[–]adamrockblackandblue27 points28 points29 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Third eye opening right here.
[–]axxxman9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Empathy, but not sympathy
[–]thotless_rat_bastard0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Empathy is understanding how a person feels, and you get it from your childhood/parents, or not.
Sympathy is feeling sorry for another person.
[–]rich_before_300 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
that's something.
[–]chest_henderson67 points68 points69 points 5 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
They only have empathy for people they care for deeply. They have none for others. When it appears that they do it is a charade, a work of performance art.
[–]TigPlaze66 points67 points68 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
If you're a man who she's not attracted to or in love with, you're just a subhuman to her. She doesn't care if you suffer and die. She has more empathy for a dog or a cat than she has for you.
[–][deleted] 38 points39 points40 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
you know that look of pure digust they give guys they aren't attracted to who simply try to interact with them in public, like ask for the time or something
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[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yep thats why i happily ignore women in public, its blissful
Having percevieved empathy for a dog or a cat gives her some social status. She will put the animal down if it gets in the way of her target.
[–]JayJayEcks18 points19 points20 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nope.
Women have empathy, for only themselves.
Everything else is a facade.
[–]Invoker115 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
and even that's a struggle
[–]No_Weekend0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I find professional/high-fashion models empathetic, some are into me but some are just good friends/people. Always try to pay for lunch/coffee for everyone, and try to go above and beyond with volunteering.
Most average looking girls (who were dating/marrying way up) there's no chance of them being supportive and they bitch about their husbands/boyfriends.
[–]Sir_manalot1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Probably because the models are dating/where they are suppose to be and feel content with what they have.
While average women are either to high doe who they are or want to be far higher then they really are.
[–]Uglyprince2000-36 points37 points38 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Yeah when you have money or looks, if it was chad she would be all ears.
[–]MustacheCel48 points49 points50 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Not really. If Chad gets too emotional he loses his status.
[–]ovrload8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
but most respectable chads will never be that emotional. they have so many options anyway
[–]Sir_manalot16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have met dudes who looked like Chad but acted beta.
They get absolutely nothing in terms of dating for it
And have seen ugly men pull sexy women because of how narcassistic and abusive they are.
Looks do matter, but being a violent alpha asshole matters too.
[–]Invoker119 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Even chad is treated like shit sometimes
[–]ideserveall5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They use their empathic abilitiy just to manipulate men, not to feel for them.
[–]AntiAbleism0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Huge fucking lie.
[–]The_Dank_Astero0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don’t feel so good...
[–]strongandhappy158 points159 points160 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
"oh, you have problems? Pussy."
[–]Be__Live4472 points73 points74 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
lol.
Yet they want you to sit and listen to their trivial shit - pointless passive aggressive work drama and preventable personal drama like its the end of the fucking world:
"Today at work...that bitch actually didn't take out her Keurig pod from the machine!"
Uh huh
"....I was like wtf Sheila? But I didn't say anything, instead I just left mine in that will show her.."
Yep
"....Then I hear her talking to that other bitch about it, who came back from lunch late AGAIN by the way...."
Tunes out
[–]rebuildingMyself61 points62 points63 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
After listening to such crap for twenty minutes, I (mistakenly) unloaded on her about how my boss blamed me for some shit that I had nothing to do with and he actually threatened my job over it. Her response?
"Why are you complaining? He's your boss and that's your job!"
I almost dumped her right there (and I wish I had, tbh)
[–]Itisforsexy8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Merely reading this is reducing my IQ. How are women so vapid and empty? It defies belief. Yes, we men are systemically oppressed in society, and unlike feminists we can quantify where and how we are. However, we're granted an amazing gift. The ability to conceive of the universe in all its wonders, in the grand scope, and to appreciate the small things at the same time.
I would never in my worst nightmares want to become a woman. They're shells of beings, transcending this occasionally only to complain about the most baseless unimportant trivial garbage.
[–][deleted] 122 points123 points124 points 5 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
This is so true it hurts. This is one of the reasons that men have such a hard time in a relationship. NOBODY tells you the truth about what is attractive and desirable. You are told to be nice, agreeable, safe, and non threatening but it's the opposite of what women seek. Then you are ridiculed as being a bitch or boring. You just can't win.
[–]Njzz901042 points43 points44 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You can win if you go MGTOW. I have a decent Job and make a good amount of Money, but when I look at these Guys who have better carres in our Company and make way more Money then i still have a better Life. One Guy is planning to get married next Year to Girl he's together for a Year and he's just 25. Another Guy had to stay at Home yesterday because he's Girlfriend left his two Children at his Home and then ghosted his Ass apparently. Another Guy got a big Neck Tattoo Just to impress his now Girlfriend. These a just normal Guys in Germany.
[–]jrpark0534 points35 points36 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I'm not a nice person, but I am a kind person, and I like being a kind person.
If a woman doesn't like that, if she thinks that me being an asshole will give her the tingles, then I'm not interested.
Yep, you cannot win.
[–][deleted] 27 points28 points29 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
this is why i gave up. even in my most blue pill days, i was never a push over. i'm not a doormat lover, never have been, but i am kind.
there is a movie from the earl 2000's, "slackers" i think with Jason Segal and he has a line i'll never forget. "treat a girl like dirt, and she'll stick to you like mud."
i get the biological need for stregth, a provider, etc, etc. buti never saw how you couldn't be that person as well as being kind, but my kindness has always been used against me. i guess in the modern world where no real threats exist, strength is often just a perception and kindness makes you look weak. it's such low IQ thinking since in many ways being kind and compassionate takes the greatest strength and mental fortitude. i'd rather just be kind and do my own shit and not have to deal with passing another shit test.
[–]jrpark059 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are spot on: the modern view of "strength" is "just a perception".
Nowadays there are cardboard cutouts of different concepts: such as associating strength with buying a truck (those Ford commercials), or being an asshole.
There's no other analysis than that, and like you said, it is low IQ thinking. Also, looking at the statistics for divorce, crime, substance abuse, and education, this thinking is dangerous as well.
I believe MGTOWs forsee a collapse of civilization in the modern world, with one application being feminism and hypergamy. MGTOWs are walking away and saying "I don't have to deal with this; it is not my responsibility things are the way they are. Let the beast die".
[–]Lucas_Tiberius1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Help the unfortunate
[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
you are spot on, i've truly seen so many girls in my life go for the 'bad boy' guys who lie/steal treat everyone like complete shit and are so rude to people.
I remember me and my colleague were watch this obnoxious guy being an idiot stealing stuff etc at the front of the store and my colleague said "but you see girls will go for guys like that"
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
you are exactly right, its impossible to please them they live their life through their emotions and there is little logic to what they want, hopefully they'll start to realise this when most men begin to walk away
[–]arpowers0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's about 1. passing tests and 2. being a challenge. Check out Doc Love he gets it.
[–]Hirudin87 points88 points89 points 5 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link
Just do what most men in "successful" relationships do. Have pre-planned responses for these types of inquiries that focus on light-hearted and non-threatening problems so that she can feel like you "opened up" to her while you keep the real problems that are bothering you bottled up inside, knowing that if you ever said them out loud, she'd leave you in a heartbeat.
Repeat until dead.
[–]the_unseen_one36 points37 points38 points 5 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Pretty much. Telling her the truth is instant relationship suicide, though it's a good way to get her to bail and think it's her idea when you want her gone.
[–]Hirudin22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Yup. It's like a relationship's "off" switch.
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[–]Darth_Toenail-3 points-2 points-1 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Useful, but disgusting nonetheless. Why were you spooning a pile of dogshit on your couch?
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Shit dude. That's some legendary shit.
[–]tallwheel6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Because she probably had an awesome pussy, man. Pump 'n dump. I mean, we all needed to get our rocks off when we were in our 20's and stupider than we are now. Understandable. Let's just be greatful if we managed to come out of it without any kids or uncurable diseases.
[–][deleted] 25 points26 points27 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude this is exactly how I got my ex to stop being obsessed with me. (transitioning to mgtow) I tried to break up with her once, she literally held on to my legs and wouldn't let go because she didn't want to lose me. Then I acted lazy for a bit, told her about some childhood trauma, said I needed her support- and boom, she was eager to leave. Women are so simple lmao
[–][deleted] 13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
there are varying degrees of this. cry over a movie, might work. show stressed feelings over work, even better.
BUT THE BEST.....is you look her straight in her dead eyes and tell he how you really feel this relationship is something special and if you can, put on the waterworks. nothing will make a woman run away faster than you saying you want just her and crying because you find your "love" so amazingly moving and special.
problem is this is almost impossible to do because men are not as good at lying as women. plus we don't have that 'i can cry instantly no matter how i really feel' gene that women have.
[–]jrpark051 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep. Did that a few times. LOL
[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
We don’t talk about what men should do in relationships around here.
[–]Hirudin21 points22 points23 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just pointing out how one of the reasons people get into relationships: having someone to talk to about your problems... is a farce. You don't get to voice what's really concerning you.
[–]TigPlaze1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
And hire a prostitute to fuck and to spill your guts to so you have access to at least one woman who treats you like a human being.
[–]wutc7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
And hire a prostitute to fuck and to spill your guts to
Why on earth would you want to do that?!
you have access to at least one woman who treats you like a human being
...Only because you're paying her!
Confiding in a woman --- any woman --- is a bad idea for a man.
You know i've been seeing whores for years and i actually for the most part have quite a high opinion of them. Most of them are pretty sensible and more self aware than the average slag. I've told some of them plenty and they were still happy to service me. Pleasing men is their job and most of them seem to understand there is a little more to that than just the mechanical stuff.
The most honest dealings you will ever have with a woman is with a whore.
[–]TigPlaze0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Because a whore is a better human being that almost all other women. With a whore, you get an honest transaction -- money for sex. The price is agreed upon in advance and that's the ONLY amount you pay. She won't divorce you and take half your shit.
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[–]wutc44 points45 points46 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Ugh...
You're well rid of her.
[–]PopCultureMGTOW53 points54 points55 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
LMAO @ "open up more". First argument after "opening up" just once, and believe me, every one of your human vulnerabilities will be thrown in your face. Made that mistake once in my life and never again...lol
[–]geturcraptogether12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Man this the friggin gospel truth right here.
[–]TheSpin142 points43 points44 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is actually a huge reason of Mgtow for me. If my life difficulties drive you away then why do you deserve to be there when I’ve worked through them?
[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"if you can't handle me at my worst, then you don't deserve me at my best". lol.
actually that quote fits but totally different context. With men it means can you handle us when life has us down and we're struggling, which all humans deal with. for women it means, can you handle me when i'm a raging irrational hormonal PMS cunt that wants to punch you in the face and then cry on your shoulder the next minute.
[–]atheist_terry_ascend34 points35 points36 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
lmao.. seriously
"open up" = talk about how you overcame some shit like an abusive dad and cant feel anymore, not actually venting and needing emotional support
[–]sacriliciously36 points37 points38 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh hell no because 3 years from now you'll be accused of being abusive "just like your father".
[–]atheist_terry_ascend16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
GG
[–]chest_henderson26 points27 points28 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
"I already have a pussy. I don't need another one."
[–]Uglyprince2000-15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's savage mate!
[–]tallwheel8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good advice for men too, if you just change the wording a little.
"She already has a pussy. She doesn't need another one."
[–]greenleefs24 points25 points26 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Been there, done that:
"Ugh, you're such a victim" and she went to fuck random dudes in a band. The band wasn't even any good.
"..." and she ran off and told people I got beaten every day as a child and made fun of it. To be fair, she did enjoy squashing bugs a little too much.
"THIS IS NOT HOW THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE. WE'RE SUPPOSED TO TALK ABOUT ME AND MY FEELINGS AND MY ISSUES, NOT YOU." She was a superhot 20/10 that was a little too short to be a supermodel. Way up there on the crazy hot scale. I dropped her like a rock after she said that. She tried to reconnect but I need to lower the amount of insane in my life.
Don't open up to women. Never ever do that. Ever. Women are incapable of empathy. Female therapists are predators.
[–]ThanatopsisRex8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The band wasn't even any good.
Now that's cruel.
[–]no_gal_friend0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
never open up to women , NOT EVEN your cousins or relatives.
[–]TonyMontana45626 points27 points28 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
At the end of the day they'll always pick the bottled-up alpha over the open feelings beta. On the surface they want us to be more open but 100% of the time they'll go against their own mantra.
[–]I-am-the-lul24 points25 points26 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
"I wish you would open up and share your true feelings" = "I want dirt I can use against you on a later date"
[–]8lackJack8lack19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It’s pretty much how Scientology traps you.
The audit process gets you to reveal your dirty laundry in your life.
Then you are fucked there after.
[–]The-sleep-of-reason8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Feminism & Social Justice have a lot in common with Scientology.
[–]rationalthought3144 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
and a psychological weapon to twist in your guts later
[–][deleted] 18 points19 points20 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
The men who still believe that ruse should brush up on the story of Samson & Delilah, methinks... On the other hand, if you want to get yourself rid of some annoying snowflake in a hurry and with the guarantee of her never coming back, tell her the most embarrassing story of your life (feel free to make it all up) and then sob in the end.
[–]Gordyne17 points18 points19 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep. Want to lose you unicorn(earlier)? Tell her about your problems and insecurities, like a normal human being.
[–]Deviousalpeaujonze14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My first few weeks of 'career employment' I told my wife about my concerns at work (and things that could lead to me getting fired or losing opportunities for advancement) and she got so upset and naggy I told myself I would never mention anything serious to her again.
[–]anongogogo12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
All women are hypergamy whores. I open up.
[–]TheMeatWhistle4512 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When they say they want you to “open up” they mean they want you to lavish them with affection and tell them how you feel about THEM. They give a fuck about anything besides themselves.
[–]dontdoxxyoself9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I remember I went on a date with a girl last year and heard her tell me all about her issues with work, with friends, with uni... She did this in large amounts on our first three dates. It wasn't all that we talked about but it was a sizeable portion of our evenings. She said she liked spending time with me because I would shut up and just listen. One day, before we had a fourth date scheduled, I had a rough day at work. A lot was weighing on me. She had called to chat and asked me to open up. I spoke for a solid 5 minutes about the things frustrating me. We never saw each other again. She texted me that I was too negative for her, and that was it.
It's not the first time it's happened...surely won't be the last. Go your own way, gents.
[–]BallsNemze7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Wow, cant agree more... But we have to listen to every fucking ounce of shit listenable
[–]PinkPilledRed177 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No we don't. We have options: earplugs, beer, music, more important interruptions, improve ourselves, trade up.
[–]Tomato_Joker5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Always remember:
What you open up to them about will be used against you [in an argument] sooner or later. They don't really care about what you're going through, they're just curious and want to know because they love gossip [and live for it.]
It's emotional blackmail.
lol truth.
[–]MigrainesRcontagious5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Awesome, problem instantly solved.
[–]MrBluePill6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
LOL. True story.
[–]Xxtourlife3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No wonder girls don't feel like talking to me after I tell my side.Its like they say "okay" and the awkward, Dead Silence takes form.
I realized that they want us to listen to their Bullshit of Felicia and how she is a total Bitch.I ain't got time 4 dat.
It's why I don't even bother talking to girls anymore.I just keep quiet and Play Tekken 6 or WWE 2011 on my PSP(Mine is still alive😁😁) while waiting for a lecture.
Not an Incel,I have 2 sisters and they are quite easy to talk to.
[–]Njzz90106 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No one is saying that you are an Incel. You don't have to defend yourself
[–]rationalthought3146 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We're fooled into this because blue pill media has a fictional female character listening to the strong male opening up about his feelings and the female characters listening and giving comfort. The strong male is the better for it in the show. All this does in reality is set up a lot of guys to get crushed.
[–]JimmyPellen5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What they really mean is:
Men need to open up (their wallets) more.
i have a friend still married. good friend but worse cuck loser husband ever. wife stays with him because she is a 3/10 at best. he does because he doesn't want to be away from his daughter.
she literally treats him like a piece of shit, sets his schedule, takes all his money, never works herself. it's clear he is completely 100% a money ATM to her and her displeasure with having a low SMV and not being able to monkey branch leads to alot of repressed shit from her. it's crazy when you see a marriage where the love is gone and they still stay together and he opens his wallet for her.
dude is an amazing artist too and often talks about wishing he had his own room and money to focus on his talents, but instead, just works to pay for his kid and wife.
he was actually a huge motivator in my going my own way. one day i asked, "so, how does she get money for every meal she eats?". this was a time she had taken the kid and went to live with her parents because they were fighting. he said "from me.". so here we had a wife who because he was just a middle class guy and didn't spoil her with riches, treated him like shit to the point of taking his child away (as a means to manipulate further). so he's not seeing his kid or his wife and still has to pay for 3 meals a day for her. that would damage my soul to be honest. but as he said, "i gotta pay for her food or my kid won't have money to eat as well". such manipulation.
[–]EconomistMagazine6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They want you to open up so they can find your weaknesses faster. They don't want to help, they just want to weigh your potential downsides against another man.
It's the equivalent of going to a car salesman and expecting them to honestly tell your everything won't with the car... You'll never buy it just because the salesman was honest... You'll just move in to the next car.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha, oh you have problems? Oversensitive
[–]kayfab3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
women say they want and what they truly want hahahah
[–]SarahC1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They tend to be shit tests.
[–]TigPlaze3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
EXACTLY. Or he may be mocked and told to "man up" first before she vanishes.
[–]saikon_14852 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yea that about sums it all up fellas
[–]HappyDaysMyDays1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Unfortunately...that is accurate.
[–]pielicker1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Open up...as in your wallet.
[–]AngelZafkiel2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"men talking about their problems? Lol ima drink their sweet man tears."
[–]MattFoley793 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, they despise any sign of weakness.
[–]8017351 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
LOL ]=)
[–]haymansafc1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The moment men start opening up, they're branded as all sorts of nasties, told to not feel so "entitled", expected to "man up" and given absolutely no acknowledgement of what they're dealing with. Especially when it comes to gynocentrism in today's society.
Meanwhile, the mainstream media bleats on about high suicide rates in men but skims around the vast majority of the actual issues as men are no longer allowed to voice concerns without facing being labelled or stigmatised.
[–]boydjon0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No don’t it will open the, I’m going to make you think you are gaslighting me syndrome.
[–]rationalthought3140 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
should have ended with the words "what a crybaby!" floating in the air in the last panel.
For real
[–]Anon485290 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Accurate.
[–]mastweiller0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think she actually wanted a slap on the ass, and to get him a beer.
she thinks "wow you seem weak, off i go to the 5 other guys I have as backups when im sick of this relationship"
[–]Sesquipedalian4life0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Aint that the fucking truth..
[–]2BrownBalls0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Right in the feels...
[–]LikeARocStar0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
LMFAO that's hilarious, and so true!
[–]pushkar_chaudhari0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Bitch will automatically get disappeared after u tell her that u are the part of staff cut
You know, we make fun of this, but this is real. Happened to me a good number of times.
[–]Paladin29030 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“Men need to open up more” is a shit test. She’s just digging for information that she can then use against you to qualify you as a beta male and then dump your ass. Like mushrooms.....Feed em’ shit and keep em’ in the dark.
As a male, the only people you can talk about your problems with are your old man, a male sibling (that you’re actually close with), and GOOD friends. Not just friends....GOOD friends, that are like brothers. That’s it.
Save your money on the therapists. They don’t give a flying fuck about you, and they don’t know you. It’s just a racket to try and get you hooked on pills.
[–]feedmeacid0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So relatable.
Her: "Why are you so quiet, TALK TO ME!!!"
Me: "Okay, here goes, I will actually open up and make myself vulnerable to you."
Her: "You're stupid for feeling that way. Get over it."
Then they change the subject to something about themselves.
[–]robowriter0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No absolutely not. Fuck you.
[–]Natsume240 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Everytime I see this, it reminds me of the multiple times these words were said, and upon me opening up myself, I ended up either dumped, friendzoned, or straight up ignored.
And people WONDER why I don't talk about feelings with women. It is a weapon they will use against you.
[–]Frogkaboo0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is why we retreat and stfu when we have issues. It's risk management because we deep down know that something like this could happen.
And it has happened .. often. On little things
[–]Faded_Snake0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe the first thing you open up about shouldnt be about how much your life sucks, they don't want all kinds of negativity in a relationship. A girl isn't gonna want a broken mess that they will have to put back together
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