This kid. Maybe 19 at most, first job, I'm 24, okay, yes, I'm not much older.

This kid has a fiance. First thing I asked is if she is pregnant. He said no. I said thank God, and he was a bit out off by that.

This kid truly believes in 'true love'. I've been there my self one time and it was enough to prove to me that 'true love' is the biggest fucking illusion our hormones play on us. That shit comes and goes when it pleases. It's a good boost to the beginning of a relationship but it's a fucking chore to maintain because I learned the hard way, men have to maintain the love on both sides...women just sit back and let us work.

I talked to him about it all and I told him

"Look do your own thing I'm not judging you, I've been there. But I will tell you 2 things. 1) you are the man, not her, and second, the moment you see any red flags, look for more and run".

"You're mgtow aren't ya" he asked.

"Yep"

"I better leave before we get into an argument"

I waives good bye as he left and said "simp on brother".

God I can't imagine getting married at 19...fucking nightmare getting married at all.