That's some of the best advice I've ever gotten. As men, we're put under pressure to have sex with a lot of different women. There's the shaming bullshit we're hit with if we don't, crap like, "incel," "virgin," and "can't get any." If it's wrong to slut shame women, i.e., shaming women for having sex, then it's wrong to shame men for not having sex. If you did it with someone you can't trust, you could end up trapped into supporting a kid you didn't want for 18 years. You could catch an STD. You could even end up in prison for a rape you didn't commit. It's just not smart to go out screwing around with God knows who. I'm not a prude. I'm not saying no one should ever have sex. I'm only saying be picky. I personally don't think there's anything wrong with hiring a quality sex worker if you want to. Of course, we get shamed for that too. The amount of hostility toward male sexuality is absurd. The truth is, you're never obligated to have sex with anyone. If someone is willing, but she's someone you cannot trust, you're being smart by turning down a chance to have sex.
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