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Reading posts from deadbeadrooms is even more illuminating than watching the Red Pill Interviews

March 23, 2018
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The past couple of days since I discovered MGTOW have been a hell of an eye opener. I thought I had women figured out because I never put up with their shit and usually can see right through their trashy antics, but even in my most cynical moments I didn't think women were this bad.

Check this post in deadbeadrooms,

We have sex about once a month but it always feels so forced. Like he’s not that interested and only doing it to get me to shut up. He always asks for blowjobs but has gone down on me about 4 or 5 times in the 9 years we’ve been together. I’ve gained about 40 pounds since we first moved in but so has he and I’m still attracted to him but he’s clearly no longer attracted to me. He tells me he’s attracted to me but doesn’t act like it or even acts interested when I undress around him. Last week he finally admitted he has a porn addiction and that he prefers masturbating rather than having sex with me. It’s not that he has a low libido. He masturbates and watches porn 4 or 5 times a week. He said it’s because he chasing the idea of having sex with a woman with the perfect body. I feel crushed. I feel so ugly and unloveable. I feel so worthless. I feel like no man would touch me with a 10 foot poll. What sucks the most is that he’s the breadwinner and even though I work 40 hours a week I could never live on my own on my income alone. We live in one of the most expensive cities in the nation. I’d have to move back to where I’m from. I’d have to give up my career and start from scratch. There’s no walking away without giving up everything else as well. http://archive.fo/yFxKX and https://i.imgur.com/tdA8Yws.png

He’s paid for all of my education and is planning to pay for my MA. If and when I walk away I’m choosing to give up on Graduate school as well. http://archive.fo/yFxKX#selection-2595.0-2595.143

In reply to this instead of telling her to maybe, ya know, work out, or do something or anything to help earn her place since she's just mooching off the guy, what do the fuckers suggest?

Start (or continue) to save as much money as you can in a secret account. Start your exit plan and figure out from a practical point of view what you need to do now so you’ll be able to move out on your own. You said you’d lose your career, so figure out how you can transition your work experience into something new and start laying the groundwork. Figure out where you might want to/be able to afford to live. Sounds like this relationship is over so just take advantage of the free rent right now and call it over, in your head. Planning the future will take your mind off this miserable self esteem crushing crap. http://archive.fo/yFxKX#selection-2225.0-2225.618

They are literally telling the bitch to take advantage of the guy and to then surprise dump him after 9 years together when the guy is still trying. These people are degenerate scum. Seriously, fuck these trailer trash bitches.

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Title Reading posts from deadbeadrooms is even more illuminating than watching the Red Pill Interviews
Author bitcoin-optimist
Upvotes 186
Comments 63
Date March 23, 2018 1:18 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit /r/MGTOW
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[–][deleted] 79 points80 points  (33 children) | Copy Link

That sub is cancer. For your own health just stop reading and go your own way.

[–]bitcoin-optimist[S,🍰] 45 points46 points  (29 children) | Copy Link

Hard to believe these are real people. It is enough to make me wonder if the government troll factories aren't intentionally sabotaging relationships by giving bad advice because I refuse to believe a person with even a sub-average IQ would tell a woman to leave her 9 year relationship when the only problem is the guy isn't porking the mooching cud-chewing cow frequently enough even though she's adding nothing of value and is unwilling to do the one thing she knows will fix the problem. The guy even straight up told her he desires a woman with at least a half decent body. How dense can she get? He is probably working his ass off so she can live in the city to continue her career in underwater basket-weaving. Scum. All of them.

[–]roman160626 points27 points  (18 children) | Copy Link

Imagine how stupid the average person is, then realize half the people are dumber than that. George Carlin

[–]Watchingcluturefade5 points6 points  (15 children) | Copy Link

Hahaha, oh boy, you struck a nerve with me here my friend.

I the business wold I all the time hear exchanges from higher ups, managers, VP's even some CEO's where I just sit thre dumbfounded at how they managed to get to that level. Must be some benefit to themselve that is not easily seen.

But I think, man this guy is average, holy shit, that means that 110-120 Million people in the US are dumber that this guy .... it's a thought that I have had to hold back a chuckle in a big meeting or two

[–]FortyandLifeToGo3 points4 points  (14 children) | Copy Link

Just sit back in those meetings and enjoy watching your managers validate "Peters Principle".

[–]Watchingcluturefade2 points3 points  (10 children) | Copy Link

Yikes, DON'T DRINK AND REDDIT!!!! Man could I have misspelled anything else in that comment? lol

But yes, I actually had never heard of Peter's Principle until you said that. It is ABSOLUTELY true with the large companies I work with, how funny. Now that you pointed it out it is all I am going to see.

Lawl, thank!

[–]FortyandLifeToGo0 points1 point  (9 children) | Copy Link

Just in case you aren't (maybe you are...but for those that are not aware of) familiar with this gem:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parkinson%27s_law

[–]Watchingcluturefade1 point2 points  (8 children) | Copy Link

Another great read, thank you.

My company is "small" ($10M revenue considered very small from the companies I deal with).

However, the $100B conglomerates I deal with are at a point that they are so incredibly bloated that they are starting to have massive layoffs. A lot of their employees are freaking out but I just want to say to them, I am sorry, I agree that your job is just redundant.

It's almost like a lot of companies, especially with automation, are starting to peak at the law above. Now they are having to let go of their massive bureaucratic mess to try to lean the company out and people are blaming the company for it instead of the bureaucrats that kept inflating their jobs and associates.

I mean, technically that IS the company, but the business model is solid. I just think they have gotten to the point (as to the principle you stated above) that they have so much overlapping VP's and managers and whatever else, that they have become incredibly inefficient.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

However, the $100B conglomerates I deal with are at a point that they are so incredibly bloated that they are starting to have massive layoffs.

And most of the bloat comes from unqualified diversity hires that sit around and do nothing other than fill quotas.

[–]Watchingcluturefade0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Honestly don't know. They were just purchased by a larger company called Aventor and the chaos has been unbelievable.

They have literally fired like 10% of the people in the company and my numbers have still gone up. Pretty funny to wonder what Aventor said when they first were able to see the books and the waste of upper administration.

Companies are doing less with more and it is REALLY pissing off people who don't want to work hard. But that is the future, better get used to it.

[–]FortyandLifeToGo0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

Precisely what my 100B conglomerate is going through...and has been going through for the better part of the last 11 years. In fact, I'm being moved for the 5th time as a result of the upside down triangle (more chiefs than Indians). Chiefs do not generate revenue. The Indians do.

[–]Watchingcluturefade0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

Jesus .... well, if you are still there after 11 years of such chaos I know I don't have to wish you luck since you must be a necessary piece of the puzzle.

The last few months though have been filled with a lot of tears from those who think they are more important than they are

[–]oozzoonnee0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

What's that?

[–]FortyandLifeToGo0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]WikiTextBot2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Peter principle

The Peter principle is a concept in management theory formulated by educator Laurence J. Peter and published in 1969. It states that the selection of a candidate for a position is based on the candidate's performance in their current role, rather than on abilities relevant to the intended role. Thus, employees only stop being promoted once they can no longer perform effectively, and "managers rise to the level of their incompetence".


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[–]ShrunkenHed5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

and then realize that 90% of women are below that.

[–]YetisInAtlanta1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

always a relevant line

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

women would tell her that, all women

[–]Fabianstrategy14 points5 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

I have seen women give other women this exact advice in the real world. I have a lot of female nurses working under me, so far the body count for divorce season on just one floor is two divorces in progress, and 3 break-ups, of the 15 personnel there. All these women are post wall too. I've met a couple of there spouses/bf's. Seemed like okay guys to me.

[–]YetisInAtlanta6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

women are cancer to other women. if one isnt happy, no one is allowed to be happy and they try their damnedest to bring everyone around them down

[–]Fabianstrategy13 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Crabs in a bucket.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Its only hard to believe because we get by through imagining people are mostly like us. Well, if you have some values, they're NOT. That's as true as AWALT, so just focus on what you can do, not their degeneracy.

[–]DarwinianKEKistani1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They are single bitter most likely post wall females. They purposefully give bad advice cause they want to ruin other bitches lives

[–]0signal01 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Hard to believe these are real people.

They are dead people walking.

[–]BertranThePharmacist3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nah, it remembers me an anecdote:

A doctor examines his patient:
- Good... okay... a-ha, nice... good...
- Is it really so good, doc?
- No, it's good that I don't have this shit too.

The same with dead bedrooms.

[–]the_unseen_one2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Every sub related to relationships and marriages is shit.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Yup . This is why I only visit and post on this sub. No need (and no time) to read other posts and other subs. I already know that are extremely gynocentric and full of feminists,hamsters,simps and whiteknights

[–]Mengone49 points50 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

asking deadbedrooms for relationship help is like asking a homeless man for financial advice.

[–]TheGillos7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Asking deadbedrooms for relationship help is like asking Sarah Huckabee Sanders for fitness advice.

[–]Section-206 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

That's because most of those type of subs are infested with females. It's cunt central over there.

[–]askmrcia5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Pretty much any sub dealng with any sort of relationship issues not named mgtow or redpill is filled with women.

Askmen? AskmenOver30? Relationships? DeadBedrooms? PurplePillDebate? All those subs are infested with women providing the worse advice.

I see the worse dating advice plastered all over reddit. You know what advice i'm talking about. Partner's past don't matter, tell your wife your problems, your wife/gf should be allowed to hang witb ex's, ect...

[–]Section-200 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Women -always- advise in their own best interests. It give's me a headache just thinking about it.

[–]ShrunkenHed2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

what an analogy. This conversation is done.

[–]Sol_Install24 points25 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is why you don't pay for anything. Not her debts. Not her schooling. And this is why you can't be with someone who doesn't take care of themselves. I mean him fapping to a woman he thinks has the perfect body and admitting that is a bit fucked up, but both seem to have a case of not being able to be honest.

And this raises another issue with marriage. Men who are married because they cannot afford a divorce and women who are married because they cannot make it on their own. Browse scarymommy enough and you'll see posts like that. I worry about these provider types.

[–]ejc127916 points17 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

It’s all very familiar. When I was married, this is the sort of advice my wife and her friends would give each other. They want a man to ‘make me happy’ which invariably translates to: support them financially, treat them like a princess, look after the kids, give them whatever they ask for and never complain. Meanwhile they have ZERO concept of trying to make their husband happy. The husband is expected to be happy simply to have them as a wife. It is truly a fucked up mess.

[–]orionthefisherman3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This is exactly the situation I found myself in before I found the redpill/mgtow. Stuck living with a woman that didn't care to do anything I enjoyed. Hated my friends. Didn't want anything to do with my son. Constantly upset with my earning level. Could walk in the door and instantly start bitching about everything, but if I didn't act like I was happy to see her, I was the asshole. My dream project/career was meaningless. Thankfully I saw the light.

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

/r/sex is equally terrible. There was this post about this bitch forcing her husband into an Open Relationship and banging Chad. Guy takes some time to find a chick but his wife explodes and creates a drama. Everyone is telling the guy to go back and not fuck the new girl. I mean WTF. Makes me feel like Patrick Bateman with a chainsaw in American Psycho.

[–]askmrcia6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

I got banned from that sub long ago for suggesting advice that the op should have every right to be upset that his gf only gives him missionary sex, when she admitted she used be a little more wild in her past.

I still remember t. Instanty banned and attacked by the members. The girlfriend's excuse was she felt "slutty" doing those things now. My comment was that was a weak excuse and he should consider breaking up with her because chances are she not attracted to him.

[–]Teflon08194 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

He's doing all of that for her, and she can't even be bothered to try to lose some weight?

[–]bitcoin-optimist[S,🍰] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Might explain why all these guys are going trans. Gay men probably figure if a guy is willing to marry Shamu beta bro might be desperate enough to trade up to Chelsea Manning and pay for zir college education.

[–]Xein2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Woman gets fat and of course the man gets blamed for "porn addiction" or "masturbation addiction" because he isn't attracted to obesity. She obviously needs to lose weight, but fails to even mention that in the story..

My only knock against the guy in this story is that he's fat too. I think it's hypocritical to expect your partner to be fit if you're not. He gets more of a pass than she does though since he is earning most of the money and probably has to devote most of his time/energy to his job.

[–]AboutNinthAccount2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They want sexually active women to return to availability. Theirs.

[–]oozzoonnee2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

even in my most cynical moments I didn't think women were this bad.

Same here. I'm an optimistic person by nature so I have to come here everyday for my daily red pills.

[–]MGTOWlifestyle2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Wow, truly an eye-opener. That's really it, relationships for women is all about maximising their benefits, PERIOD. Love is a men's thing.

[–]starkfuture1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"fuck these trailer trash bitches" r/deadbedroom - just saying :-)

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

YEah just forget about trying to go to the gym and forget about improving your fucking self. That would take effort.

[–]wellimout0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

One thing I don't get is, why is the dude with her if he doesn't want to fuck her? She doesn't say they're married, which means he's less trapped in the relationship. What is his deal?

[–]bitcoin-optimist[S,🍰] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

The way she describes the cost of living I wouldn't be surprised if she is living in San Francisco. How much do you want to bet this is his first serious long term relationship? The guy probably loves her, stupid fool that he is, wants to do right by her, and doesn't realize she is taking him to the cleaners.

[–]ilikerelish-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Be careful. The same can be, and has been said about this sub, and those who are in here, and it is misguided. I think to say the same things about DB is on the same level.

Think about it, when people bitch about MGTOW who are going though RP rage, we say.. it's RP rage. When you go over there, you have a bunch of people who have been neglected by their spouse for so long that the resentment is physically burning them. They are in the grips of neglect rage, I doubt they are even looking at it from the angle of taking advantage, just the best course to GTFO of there and start over. Though you are definitely right about the fact that they are ignoring the obvious, self-improvement since weight is a likely culprit, and jumping straight to pulling the ripcord.

I browsed that sub long before I came here, some of the shit that the neglectful spouse pulls is epically callous and cruel regardless of gender.

[–]bitcoin-optimist[S,🍰] 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Define neglect? The guy not putting her baby bib on and feeding her 10lbs of filet mignon? Only dicking her once a month because the bitch is so hideous he has to close his eyes to be with the monstrosity? The guy is obviously trying to make it work and doesn't want her to feel bad so he puts up a stoic front while paying for everything she wants: from her schooling to living in one of the most expensive cities in the world so she can find work in her field. These women are fucking disgusting and deserve no pity. Flaming chainsaw to the face with the lot of them.

[–]ilikerelish0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

My comment was a generalization, I should have been clear that it did not specifically relate to the specific story. It was in response to the "degenerate scum" comment. Sorry for the confusion. The point I was making is that I can see where the sub was coming from. A group of people who share the same experience and biases are piling on against the person they perceive to be the bad guy/girl. It's no different than when guys in this sub engage in a red pill rage circle jerk. We don't castigate them for working their shit out, we accept that it's a reality. I used to follow the sub pretty closely, and I have seen equally cruel and shitty advice where the roles are reversed. I might have been able to go with the program if there were a gender bias, but that to my knowledge is not the case. This doesn't make them degenerate, it makes them hurt, and angry people. Neither of which are particularly conducive of level headed rational thought.

Neglectful - In my mind is not meeting the needs of another person for whom you have responsibility or responsibility to.

All of that said, I think she is a shitty person, and the advice she got was equally shitty. However, I would challenge you to go to someone who just got a hard and deep red pilling and ask them for dating advice.. see if what you get back is any more reasonable than what the posters are suggesting. That is, if it's anything more than incoherent grumbling mixed in with swearing, and hateful rants.

Based on your statements in this comment, it would seem you have some shit to work out in regard to women. I sure as hell am not going to look down on you for it. In fact, I hope you get it worked out and get past the anger. Apathy is a beautiful thing, and I hope you make it there as soon as you can.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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