I remember back when I was dating and frustrated with all the bullshit flakiness and other games. One day I saw a call coming through from some woman I had made a date with for that evening. She had left a v-mail earlier that she needed to talk with me. I could tell from the hesitation in her voice that she was going to flake on me, and I was so sick and tired of being flaked on. This woman had a major issue with texts and emails. Something about her religion said it's some kind of sin. Whatever, I can live without those.

But anyway, I know she's calling to flake out on the damn date, and I just refuse to take the call. I was just sick and tired of cooperating with the bullshit. That was my first inkling about MGTOW, although I had never heard of that. I was tired of being used and played. My gut told me that I needed to find a way to simply refuse any cooperation with women any way I could. I didn't figure out right then that I should stop dating altogether, but I did resolve that I would just EJECT at the first sign of any bullshit. The truth is, once a woman starts the bullshit, she'll never stop it. So if you're still trying to mess with dating, any single flake is a signal to just cut her off. Just bail and don't call, text, or communicate with her in any way.

After that, I realized that I had to just eject over and over because there was so much bullshit. The concept of giving your word and keeping it is foreign to women. I was always taught that if you say you'll do something, you must keep your word and do it. When you live that way, people know you're reliable. Your word is gold. Women don't do that AT ALL. If they agree to do something, they'll whimsically flake out for anything that strikes their fancy. They go whichever way the wind blows them.

I remember asking a woman if it bothered her when she dishonored herself by breaking her word. She looked at me like I was from outer space. She didn't even understand what dishonoring herself meant. For her, giving her word and then breaking it was just a normal part of life like sneezing. I told her since she didn't have enough respect for people to honor her word, I wanted nothing to do with her. No dating. No friendship. No correspondence. She acted like I was some big meanie for telling her that, but to me that's normal. If you give your word, if you agree to meet with someone, you actually keep that agreement barring extreme circumstances like you had to be rushed to the hospital.

For a long time I looked for a woman who cared about honoring her word, someone who if she said she would do something, you knew for sure she would do it. I looked for someone who believed in sticking with her man with total loyalty even when times were tough. I did not find her. What I found were a bunch of women who thought it was totally normal to break their word. I found women who thought it was normal to demand equality, but totally judge men based on the money they make and expect them to pay for everything. The women I found were just not good people.

So now I've expanded my refusal to cooperate. And that makes me MGTOW. I do not miss dating.