My wife is like a Jedi, she is extremely smart and use manipulation of my toughs to achieve her goals.

She is from China, come in Canada to study, want to stay here and get Permanent Resident (PR) card. Here the RED Flags:

1) Trying to make me believe her PR Card is not important by saying: "If it was not of our relationship, i would not stay in Canada and get PR Card''. By saying that she is trying to make me feel safe to start the process to get her PR card and being responsible of her. But she would slip sometime, when we have a fight, she is less cautious: "If you don't get my PR card i will leave you and get it by myself!" "You need to sign a contract that you will help me get PR Card!".

2) She act like a shiny example of fidelity, because it is her "family values". But i would find on her phone that she is flirting with other man, going for supper with her "little brother" while i am at work without telling me, giving her phone number to a guy who want to "invite her to his appartement". She brag about how men give her compliments if we have a fight. Fuck this shit!

3) She would try to act like she don't need me, because I used to always go back to her and save the relationship after a fight. But now, since I dont put up with bullshit anymore and leave her alone, she wear a pretty dress, act horny, submissive and begging me to give her a chance, asking for guidance to be a better person. But she just want to make her way back into being the Boss/Bully.

4) I am in the military, far from my family and friend, I focus on relationship with women to find the family feeling, she know i am afraid to be alone and she like to act selfish to control me. With the help of the Red pill, i dont depend on women anymore for happiness.

5) She order me to put more money in our join account and get angry when i put money in my personal saving because she try to build something for our "family". But she have her own account and she put money in it most of the time in case of a "emergency".

I think all of this are huge Red flags. tell me what you think.