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[–]gentle_lemon 180 points181 points182 points 2 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link
Lemme tell you a little story: my dad had a stroke and was in the ICU, intubated and dying. I was called on emergency leave from the post I was at across the country, and walked in when everyone had already been there for a while. Naturally, I started balling my eyes out; the end was neigh. Guess what? My wife started laughing. Laughing! She told everyone that she thought I was joking because she hadn't seen me cry before.
This is the crux of the "men don't show emotions" argument: you're either seen as weak and unable to hold frame or you're made fun of. It's a no win situation, so men learn early on to hide any emotions, as its always held against them.
[–]mightymigtow 73 points74 points75 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I wouldn't normally bother and I wasn't all heavy about it when I told a woman I knew I was a bit upset that day because my dad had been diagnosed with a kidney problem and she straight up laughed in my face.
I guess that was my lesson...
[–]gentle_lemon 32 points33 points34 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah man, they always react the same. :-/
[–]American__Jedi 47 points48 points49 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Did you divorce your wife?
[–]gentle_lemon 77 points78 points79 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It took a few years, but that was the beginning of the end.
[–]Real_Reality_877 30 points31 points32 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fuck that's awful . What a horrible thing to do. I would have divorced her
[–]ZaHand070 11 points12 points13 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Damn how can someone even contain themselves after hearing that. Hope you are doing better now
[–]Disciple_Of_Cheesus 77 points78 points79 points 2 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Women only care about what you can provide. Anything beyond that is functionally nonexistent. They cannot conceive of you as a person outside of your utility.
Their emotions are only for themselves, and no one else.
[–]-Solitude-- 49 points50 points51 points 2 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
They're like psychopaths. They have emotion and empathy, but they can choose on a moment-to-moment basis whether or not they feel it. Usually, they only choose to in situations where it benefits them, or where not doing so would bring about negative social consequences.
The terrifying thing, just as with psychopaths, is that you can never see it coming — they're so impulsive and selfish that they're near-enough impossible to predict. Things might be going great, and then one day they flip the switch and suddenly you've gone from being a life partner or lover to being literally nothing more than an inconvenience.
[–]crowexplorer[S] 28 points29 points30 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
then one day they flip the switch and suddenly you've gone from being a life partner or lover to being literally nothing more than an inconvenience.
After about the fourth time this happened to me, I completely gave up. I count myself lucky they flipped the switch at 6 years or less.
Could have just as easily been 30 years, then I've wasted decades and my youth on one ungrateful harpy.
[–]bonobodatingstrategy 3 points4 points5 points 2 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
I can't think of a worse fate than wasting 30 years on a woman who just flips the switch and then turns on you. The best years of your life, flushed down the toilet to say the least. It would be like finding out, you really died 30 years ago and now you are just the walking dead. 30 years of service only to be rewarded with betrayal of the worst kind.
[–]redwhalewall 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Worse faith: you don't get divorced and still have to live with her the rest of your life. And then there you are, on your death bed, but you can't get peace in your final hours because of the cunt there just doing whatever. Nagging your ass to the bitter end. Making it all about herself etc."You don't wnt to die alone, do you?" YES, that is exactly what I want to, it is my death; fuck off.
[–]Sea-Mission-6316 23 points24 points25 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Have seen that switch flip instantly myself. Like turning off a light bulb. Kinda scary to watch. My exW used to threaten to bite off a certain piece of my anatomy if I ever cheated on her. And she meant it. That didn't keep her from cheating on me though. They wouldn't have any standards if they didn't have double standards. Lol!
[–]TheSweeper80000 3 points4 points5 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My ex threatened the same thing.
[–]Qwesterly 4 points5 points6 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
They have [...] empathy
I respectfully disagree. In most cases, they do not have empathy. If they can turn it off like a light switch, then it's sociopathy, not empathy.
[–]bonobodatingstrategy 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly. It means, they can pretend to have empathy. But it's not actual empathy. It would make sense that women pretend to have empathy even if they don't have it because men easily fall in love with women who pretend to have empathy. Men who haven't learned how to be comfortable with being alone are constantly starving for people in their lives who understand them. It takes more than being a physically attractive woman to get a man to invest his resources after he's fucked her X amount of times, after all.
[–]bonobodatingstrategy 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree and I've witnessed this in all my previous relationships with women. I've witnessed that "switch" being flipped and then their personality instantly changing into something entirely different in a day or two. It is some scary shit... Like what you'd think you'd witness if someone was possessed by a demon in front of you. It's like you are with someone you've known for a really long time and then suddenly, that person is a complete stranger. It seems some men have that "switch" too but not the majority of men. Society doesn't hesitate to call these men psychopaths though... Because society is 100% okay with objective when it comes to men. Just not when it comes to women.
[–]vega-mgtow 44 points45 points46 points 2 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Titanic is peak female narcissism. It is a tragedy where the great majority of victims were men, but fuck them. Instead, let's make a movie about this old bitch recalling how she cheated on her beta husband and got some poor sod die for her.
Titanic is not a "love story", it is a gynocentric snuff film.
[–]Deep-Lingonberry8548 7 points8 points9 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If he went his own way he'd have the door to himself
[–]bonobodatingstrategy 8 points9 points10 points 2 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
It's basically a story that is 100% gynocentric religious propaganda. The woman "Rose" in the movie, serves the role of a goddess. And the ship is an altar for sacrifice to her. The ice cold water, being the blade that is used to cut out the male hearts required for the sacrifice. Jack is there to serve the role of a man who is worthy of the goddess's attention due to being a better worshiper than the goddess's faithless husband(Jack was willing to die for her after all). And that's exactly why it was so popular with women... It appeals to their narcissism. It allowed them to live vicariously through her so they can temporarily enjoy what they see as their rightful place in the world.
[–]y_u_doin 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow . Aptly said
[–]obamallamajr 36 points37 points38 points 2 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
when i was 16 i was accused of raping a girl at homecoming, she later said she was lying, 18 now and I lost so many friends because of it
[–]tld1981 24 points25 points26 points 2 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
They weren't friends. I had one semen-demon come into my life for 18 months, break up two marriages of my friends with her manipulating to get the two of them to sleep together. She created a permanent rift between me and my best friend, my only true friend, ruining our 30 years of brotherhood.
She sucked my money dry, damaged my relationship with my parents, and when everything was on fire, dumped me via text. She found two rich lesbians and ruined their lives, and broke up clubs in the BDSM community.
It doesn't matter what lifestyle you have, women want everything you have and more. Then, like a plague of locusts moves on to the next field.
I lost my charity work, my reputation, my family doesn't trust me because she manipulated me or others into me looking like a chronic liar.
18 months to ruin a decade of working hard, building myself up at 18 years old into the man I wanted to become. It has taken me another decade to finally get back to where I was when I was 29 years old. I'm lonely and miss the bond of brotherhood I shared, but I am in control of my life. I'm happy again. It's taken a lot of work to get to the point where I can say that I'm happy.
18 months of sloppy, used up, modern-whore pussy, to steal $30,000 from me. And a decade to rebuild trust, my reputation, and my sense of self.
[–]obamallamajr 5 points6 points7 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
part of me wants to find a girl with a good soul, who I can love and care for, but I'm scared I will be screwed over like u were, sorry man, at least you know this now instead of down the line, start saving and investing you could be a millionaire
[–]tld1981 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm totally disabled and in a wheelchair my whole life. I've been with a great woman for nine years, who shuns typical liberated women tropes.
If you can find a woman who will give you a bath, wipe your ass, and is genuinely sane, that's a keeper. We don't really ever argue, and she not into me for money that's for sure. When I can no longer work, we're prepared. Our families are friends now, and this is working. It's because it's a relationship that doesn't start with drinks and sex, we're intellectual equals and we enjoy each others brains.
Good moral women are out there. I met my partner in our 30s, she dated two people in her life, one was a woman which taught her most women are crazy. I dated three women, one was bipolar with borderline personality disorder, the second was a secret alcoholic sorority sister/slut whose parents forbade her from dating a cripple, third was the demon.
I'm stubborn and stupid, but I tried one last time. I got lucky. Don't look for the hot chick, look for the sweet bookish girls who are single because they were overlooked in high school and in their 20s.
[–]bonobodatingstrategy 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
That ex of yours, definitely sounds like a demon.
[–]tld1981 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
My Catholic Dad said he felt this evil feeling from her. Turns out that her sister is a believing Satanist, not the political humanist type, but religious. They are evil people who enjoy hurting people and that is why they got into the Seattle BDSM scene and caused issues.
[–]bonobodatingstrategy 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Did you ever notice her laughing at other people's pain and suffering? And bullying people in public?
[–]tld1981 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
She got off of that kind of thing.
[–]bonobodatingstrategy 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
My ex laughed at people's pain and suffering. But she pretended to be a wholesome and traditional NAWALT... She didn't have anything to do with Satanism or BDSM(at least according to her). Who knows though considering most of what she told me was lies. She talked about Satanism and Satanists a lot though which was kind of unusual. I wouldn't be surprised if women like your ex are a lot more common than we think.
[–]tld1981 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
They are. They use their sexuality and empowerment as a cover for their obsession with wicca, Satanism, etc. Whether you believe in that or not they do, and it shapes their formless sense of sadism and sexual perversion.
[–]bonobodatingstrategy 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Whether you believe in that or not they do, and it shapes their formless sense of sadism and sexual perversion.
I do believe in it. I've been on this Earth for awhile and I've always been the observant and curious type. And whenever I was around women, I noticed their interest in the occult. And all women were like this, no exceptions. Well not the women in the extremely religious Muslim countries because there, such an interest is not allowed. But in the West, they all have an interest in the occult.
[–]tld1981 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I come from a religious family and I was dismissive of the Devil/Satan. I'm older and I see evil, whether otherworldly or simply internalized, it's real. It's very real.
I was attacked by a true demon. She made me renounce my faith. She wa evil and if it wasn't for my Mom, I would have stayed with her and I would be dead.
I have never been close with my Mom, but I am getting better with fixing that now. She is a good person, she and my dad are the ones who saved me when I was going insane and burning bridges with everyone but she held on and pulled my from the gates of hell.
11 years later, my parents and my partner and I bought a home together, which is really two homes, and we are very happy. Finally.
[–]TheSweeper80000 10 points11 points12 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
A guy here in my city was accused of rape and abuse online the other day, on a defamation group/man hating group everyone supported the girl but then the guy posted evidence proving he was actually the one victimized and the women still shit on him.
The girl got a bunch of likes and reactions, a guy posted then about false accusations, the damage they can do, and how he was once falsely accused by a woman and didn't even get half the likes.
[–]obamallamajr 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
i was so scared, honestly thought i would go to prison for something I never did, she now hits me up for hookups, i don't talk to her, never even touched her
[–]TheSweeper80000 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I say you were, such a horrible thing to do to a person. Good. Don't give in, screw that, that monster would probably accuse you again.
[–]goneaway2thewind 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was in your exact situation, it gets better man. It's difficult to move on but take it day by day and find outlets that are fulfilling.
[–]bonobodatingstrategy 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are better off without those simps. What good are friends who think so little of you, they are willing to abandon you every time a woman lies?
[–]pavlikmmm 28 points29 points30 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Do men even have feelings? After i sold my first car to support an abusive, jobless parasite of a person i took it on the chit, grabbed the money and broke down in tears at the busstop ower some rusty hunk of junk(but it was my rusty hunk of junk, the hunk of junk i wielded, painted and repaired). We have feeling but ower the things that are really worth a damn
[–]JihadNinjaCowboy 14 points15 points16 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I'm indifferent to society collapsing and going extinct.
There; I said it.
It's only normal for people to not care about a society that hates them or is indifferent towards them.
[–]coloradocaniac 7 points8 points9 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've had strangers show more sympathy to me over my depression vs "friends."
What's that tell ya?
Two said "friends" were in my life for years before I kicked them out.
[–]Android80631 7 points8 points9 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
People are skeptical about accusations until it hits close to home. A buddy of mine caught one and only reason he proved his innocence was by a video. Had he not taken that video recording he'd be fucked. DA was also hard on him to reach an agreement. Main reason I don't like going out anymore but I've actually gotten wealthier by not going out and focusing on elevating myself in skills and finances. I've got a house down payment in savings in my 20s. I'll stay at home, they can call me an 1nc3l loser, im not playing their game.
[–]goneaway2thewind 4 points5 points6 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was accused by two girls on different occasions that I thankfully had too much evidence and witnesses to be convicted. They then, I shit you not, both told me they were in love with me.
I could have had my life destroyed. In combination with those situations and many more, I decided a woman's love is actually too toxic for me to handle.
[–]rockafault 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Men have an incentive to hide their feelings because they don't want to be perceived as a threat by women and children. Remember what generally happens when a man responds to being assaulted in public by a woman.
[–]Kurved420 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's why you never believe women.
[–]bonobodatingstrategy 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I never believe women because I know female nature. They don't use words to communicate. They use words to get what they want...that's it... The same way, men used swords, spears and axes in the past...
[–]techstural 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Society's not exactly indifferent to men's suffering. It considers it necessary.
These modern women are cold-blooded, reptilian, (expertly) shedding only crocodile tears.
[–]Ricochet556 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I just watched Titanic for the first time recently.
What a joke.
If you look at the story for what it really is, it's a stupid young woman who hates the idea of a structured life and wants chaos/turmoil so she cheats on her loyal fiance for some homeless amateur artist who gives her the tingles. They even smash inside a fancy car that was probably worth a ton.
Fasr forward many years, instead of selling her necklace and setting up her family financially for generations, she tosses it in the sea.
Oh and also forget her husband she was married to for 40 years, all she she think of on her deathbed is the homeless Chad who railed her for 2 days on a cruise ship.
Rose was a whore, plain and simple.
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