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Stood up three dates in a row, after getting out of a shitty relationship

July 29, 2017
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Three dates in a row I've been stood up. No text cancelling the date, nothing. Just ghosted. Granted one was a Tinder date, but the other two were with women I had some rapport with, and they were the ones who initiated the date.

It pisses me off so much how women get away with this shit. On the rare occurrence of a man standing up a woman, he is Satan himself. But women do this shit with impunity. And I look like a loser bitch if I tell anyone what happened.

Oh yeah, I'm three months out of ending a relationship with a girl who I let walk all over me. It's a cliche that abused partners stick around because they feel like their partner is "best they can do", and getting ghosted on dates reinforces that mentality. I found myself thinking "Even if my Ex disrespected me and was bound to cheat on me eventually, at least she showed up when she said she would, and tried to stop me from ending the relationship."

I'm just so sick of women and their lack of decency. I've lost pretty much all respect for women over the course of this year.

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Title Stood up three dates in a row, after getting out of a shitty relationship
Author dontbedenied
Upvotes 33
Comments 16
Date July 29, 2017 12:25 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit /r/MGTOW
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/stood-up-three-dates-in-a-row-after-getting-out-of.569013
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[–][deleted] 20 points21 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Sigh i thought it was you doing the standing up.

Wtf are you thinking?

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Very anti climactic. Stay out of the saddle bro.

[–]8017355 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Ghosters simply...

get away with this shit.

]=)

a girl who I let walk all over me.

Color of shoes, plz, also height of heels if I'm not asking for 2 much. Hurry I'm almost there! ]=)

I'm just so sick of women and their lack of decency.

Free lesson if you attended Yoda's classes "Expectations you have, mHHHHHmmmm, disappointed you will be."

I've lost pretty much all respect for women over the course of this year.

Last year was worse. So many stars decided to AFK.

But yeah, welcome.

[–]New_User19843 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Happens all the time. Half the dates I get now a days I don't even want to go on and generally dread. The women are either so so attractive Or incredibly flaky and I can't count on them to show up.

Don't let it damage your ego.

[–]dontbedenied1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for the support. I was pretty frustrated last night but I feel better today. As a side note, apparently I'm not posting in the right place? Most of the responses are jokes or insults. Are there any other subs where you can actually vent frustration about experiences with women?

[–]Strella10m4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

i dont date , but if i was you i would create some fake profiles play the long con and invite them out to an expensive date to a fancy restaurant so that they get all dolled up thinking they are meeting Mr right and then obviously he never shows.

if someone wastes my time and effort because they are a rude inconsiderate cunt i consider it my duty to make them pay for it. (it is your duty)

[–]gods_bones2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

No need to waste your time on dates. The only thing a woman has to offer a man that is of any positive value to his life are her wet holes. Everything else is just bullshit drama and emotional manipulation. If she's not offering to fuck without you having to spend money on her, forget her and move on. If she really wanted to fuck she wouldn't ask Chad to buy her dinner first.

[–]HumanBeingOfEarth2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Go your own way, focus on spiritual growth. There's more to life then pussy. It's like eating your favorite candy bar, it's so great In that moment you're chewing but when it's all over youre left with bad health and craving for more.

[–]sir_wankalot_here1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Why are you wasting money on dates? Go straight for a hookup, don't waste time.

[–]retraderat1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

seriously don't date. don't give women your time when it comes to relationships.

[–]inspiron30000 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Great news!
Congratulations on dodging the bullets.

[–]Mefic_vest0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I wonder if the app you used has an API that would lend itself well to the reporting of ghosting incidents… not to the service itself, but to hook into the profiles to that ghosting attempts could be collated by a third-party service (another app designed for that purpose).

[–]yturijea-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Been on a lot of dates, never been stood up.

Either you are really unlucky or you are doing something wrong.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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