That's enough for me, going to be joining you.

Mac290 · 2018-03-06T21:08:16+00:00

Sorry buddy. She’s got a dude already lined up. It’ll come out soon.

Your story is yours but it’s the same tale for a million of us. Only the names change.

monkey-socks · 2018-03-06T21:18:51+00:00

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maggot_brain79 · 2018-03-06T21:38:53+00:00

In all honesty, she has probably already implemented her plan. If you do move out or already have, if you drive past you'll likely see another car in the driveway in a day or two. They always have a back-up plan. They don't take a leap of faith in these situations. They have another branch to climb onto always. Her treating you like shit, neglecting you and your needs, were her attempts to try and push you away enough that you would lash out or begin the divorce process yourself, so she could claim the moral high ground. It would be social posturing on her part, to make her seem like she tried it all and it didn't work and she still 'stood by' you until you wanted divorce. When that didn't work and you remained faithful and willing to work things out, as most men are, she started it herself and will likely use wild exaggerations of your behavior to try and save face and get people on her side. I've seen it a hundred times. As an example, in my last relationship, I would drink on the weekends when I didn't have to work. That made me a lazy drunk. I rose my voice a couple times, that made me abusive. The two combined, in a woman's mind, make for a rampaging abusive alcoholic, and everyone around her will support her for leaving you because of her exaggerations.

Worry not, though. When all is through you'll have taken a great many lessons with you, and not only that, but vengeance will come. Be patient. You'll be better without her than you ever could have been with her, and you'll watch her struggle against the current as she hits The Wall at full speed. Eventually you'll get the slingback and maybe even pleading, begging, but don't fall for that shit.

Welcome. The future is bright and you have this entire subreddit at the entire manosphere at your disposal. Watch some videos, read some personal stories, share your own, discuss with other like-minded men. There are a lot of great men here that will help you and give you advice, should you need it, and you can learn much from them. Don't think of it as the end. Think of it as a new beginning.

fredanderssen · 2018-03-06T21:23:07+00:00

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deadBeefCafe2014 · 2018-03-06T21:28:56+00:00

Do NOT settle for anything less than 50% custody.

If you adore those kids half as much as you say you do, you can’t let her raise them as a the custodial parent. She will ruin them for her own selfish ends. 50/50 until the kids can decide one way or the other is going to give them the best possible outcome given the circumstances.

If she won’t do joint counseling, get your own therapist and shop until you find one you like. A good head mechanic is wonderful, and you need to look like a superstar in court.

Do not leave the house. Sleep on the couch if you have to. Do not leave without a parenting plan, or she will call it abandonment and use that against you.

Lawyer up. Not sure what state you’re in, but some are worse than others.

Start diverting cash in small amounts. $20 here and there adds up quick. You may need emergency funds.

Child support is going to suck, but there is a price to be paid for sanity.

TimmyDayz · 2018-03-06T21:43:39+00:00

To any newer members here, read this mans story closely and realize that AWALT. This is the way the world works and don't think for a second that you will be any different.

I'm sorry to hear this happen to you man, but this is some great learning material for the future. I hope everything works out.

Raggs2010 · 2018-03-06T21:12:58+00:00

It is horrible for what happened. She will likely find some idiot that will accept her with the red flags. However odds are she will not be happy and will end up hating him.

Bear with it, be there for your kids and find what makes you happy.

47omek · 2018-03-07T00:16:32+00:00

My standard divorce advice:

DO NOT leave the house, as this will be seen by the courts as abandoning the family home. instead suggest she goes to stay with a friend/family member/hotel etc to 'have some time to yourself during this difficult period'. Use that against her in the divorce proceedings.
DO NOT miss ANY mortgage or rent payments.
DO make sure your kids lives are as uninterrupted as possible. document ANY AND ALL instances of their mother disrupting things (also any instances of crazy on her part)
start building a case against her. Does she drink? Take notes. is she on anti anxiety/anti depressants? Take notes. Get a good lawyer YESTERDAY - DO NOT cheap out on this. She will be operating under the assumption that she will win, leaving you with the legal costs, so she WILL DEFINITELY go with the most expensive lawyer she can find.

You've got a statistically tiny chance of not getting utterly fucked over during this, if you follow the above advice then you might be ok.

2018-03-06T21:20:03+00:00

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IronMeltsinmyHands · 2018-03-07T00:51:07+00:00

The worst for me was when the bitch wouldn’t even share any of what she was thinking, she wouldn’t share any reason of why she was doing what she was doing.

Now, I momentarily, in the beginning noticed, oh she’s being a Bitch and she wants me to breakup with her. And I should have. But no. I had to “man up and fight for her” as the blue pill programming goes.

And that’s what causes so much damage. Holding on to the dead weight. Just let it go. She has.

It’s been said in here that this is social posturing on the woman’s part. No matter what you do, you’ll always be the bad guy. She’s a Bitch, so you break up with her, and she goes to the next guy in her line up. If you get called on it and you tell people she was doing x y and z, they’ll call you crazy. Of course nooooo woman would eeeeeever even dream of being so sinister.

But that’s it. Women are much more sinister than you can imagine. She neglected your needs, gave you the silent treatment even though nothing was wrong, only because she wanted you to get hurt and leave. But she will never admit to this, that will make her lose face.

And as long as nobody see her ugly as fuck face, she’s in “the clear.”

I swear, I don’t even regret jizzing in the women’s faces anymore.

rtmlex · 2018-03-06T22:02:19+00:00

First of all bro, you’re not joining us, you’re making your own way to your own happiness. Study the fine printing and gather evidence of her inaptitudes as a parent. As for her, and her future love, nobody dates baggage. Reality will hit her hard

StoneTempleFlyboy · 2018-03-07T00:10:44+00:00

she wants to keep the house

Let her have it, and make her refinance and buy it your part. I remember going on a date with a recently divorced single mom who "wanted to keep the house"

She was broke AF because she couldn't afford it while her ex was smart enough to just sign it over and get something cheap.

ManIsWalking · 2018-03-07T00:24:17+00:00

My brother, I'm sad to say that your ex wife is monkey branching. She has forgotten what the real world is like, you insulated her from the troubles of adult life. Now that some stranger has paid interest in her online, she is preemptively removing you for this guy, a guy who will never commit to her.

Now is not the time to worry about this. I strongly suggest you see advice from every family lawyer in your area (and I mean every one of them) find the best one for you and prepare for the divorce. Any extra money you can afford needs to be "gifted" to a trusted party. And lastly, spend as much time as you possibly can with your kids, tell them constantly how much they mean to you. Your ex will most likely gain custody, and it isn't uncommon for women to poison children against their father.

We are here for you, brother.

2018-03-06T21:54:51+00:00

Lol dude you'll be the one footing all her bills for years to come by the time you get charged with Alimony and child support. Bitch doesn't have any plans to lift a finger. She'll rather ruin your life than work. You better get a damn good lawyer if you wanna survive this one.

Gr8bellsoffire · 2018-03-06T23:23:24+00:00

Have recently gone through something very similar but with just one kid..yes she already has a dude lined up. Who do you think she's texting non stop.

I'm sorry man. You gave her everything and she doesn't fucking care what it will do to any of you. That was the hardest red pill to swallow. She is not who you think she is.

Let that sink in....it took me a long time accept that. This pain you feel today, don't ever give a woman that powr again. You, and i, did everything right according to what society said we should....and the only people that care are you. She doesn't, it's a hard realization to come to grips with, but she got everything out of you she will ever want. She has a house and thanks to our fucked up family court system since she has leeched off you forever now she has a steady stream of income every single month.

Pm me man if you need to talk, I know what you going through. From this day forward never give a person this power over you again..they don't deserve it

kiwi_like_me · 2018-03-07T01:34:33+00:00

As a guy who fucks other guys wives, she has already cheated on you. The whole 'lack of explanation' thing is what women do to make themselves feel like they're not lying.

Later on she'll probably even say "I NEVER LIED TO YOU!"

fredanderssen · 2018-03-06T21:49:56+00:00

Welcome brother, please stay. Seriously please stay. Not only to share and add to this community but to prevent yourself from relapsing.

In all, I'm sorry that you've had to find the truth out the hard way and I hope the best for you and your children.

Coming from a divorced family I found my father never. And I mean never, spoke badly of my mother. Not even a change in his tone of voice when she came up in conversation. My mother was the complete opposite and for quite some time I thought of my father badly. After all, I was told to. Eventually, that changed and luckily I have half a brain and figured somethings for myself by 15-16.

What I'm trying to share is: be the man you are and even if your children look at you in a wrong light for now and possibly for sometime in the future, if they have half a brain; they'll come around when they're older. I could only imagine what it'd be like to have to leave your home and children behind to god knows what type of raising.

Can't seem to notice from your perspective that your wife never really added much to your life.

If it doesn’t add to your life, subtract it.

2018-03-06T21:51:49+00:00

We got a hell lot new subs today, welcome men!

Million-Suns · 2018-03-06T22:18:31+00:00

She doesn't care what this will do to me, our kids or their mental and financial future. She hasn't thought about how she'll cope on her own with two kids when she seriously struggles now with my support. She hasn't looked at how she'll pay for this new lifestyle once I'm gone.

That's what you think. It's far from the truth. She's counting on child support and spousal support.

Like other posters recommended: lawyer up as soon as possible, like yesterday, or you will be a financial slave to her for years to come.

NietzscheExplosion · 2018-03-07T00:54:21+00:00

1.) she had her plan already. MONKEYS DON'T DANCE WITHOUT ANOTHER BRANCH.

2.) vengeance is naturally yours. 2 kids. she's in her late 20's at the YOUNGEST. the wall is probably smacking her right in the fucking face right now. her chances of meeting an attractive beta bux is rare. women at that age become more obvious about baby trapping too so its easier to stop. so many old bitches if you fuck them are always NO CONDOM, NO CONDOM. back to day 1 of entrapment.

3.) you're fucking free. Germany, Amsterdaam, Thailand, Vietnam, Japan all have some EXCELLENT massage or escort services. travel. have fun. make your dick happy again. you don't feel love. you feel loyalty. men are loyal. you will sacrifice your dick and your sex life for a happy family unit. as a king would. but she just proved what your loyalty means to her. have some fucking fun. even low value SMV guys can gain +1-2 points as they get older and mature and dress better, etc. fuck some chicks, or NOT...that's even better, just some porno and fucking silence afterward.

4.) kids. that sucks. that is the worst part. I grew up in a divorced home. but i had 4 siblings and they grew up when the parents were together. i'd say i'm the least fucked up of the bunch psychologically because of it, not being around a bitter unloving relationship to influence my young self. that shit effects kids. you want your kids to see that toxic shit every day. now you can love them, maybe just 50% of the time or whatever but it'll be all your love and no games or bullshit by your wife. custody battles can be a bitch though. lawyer up!

5.) a bit off topic, but move any liquid asset to crypto and gold. don't let her steal your money as well as your home. fuck.

2018-03-07T01:19:33+00:00

Their minds are easily manipulated by shit they see on Facebook or Buzzfeed, she thinks she deserves the world while providing nothing... just because she has a gash between her legs. Social media to the mind is like rabies to a dog.

CorpulentLeprechaun · 2018-03-06T21:13:06+00:00

Soon? How bout now? this ain't shit to us

2018-03-07T00:20:39+00:00

Nothing to join. This is not a movement. You don't even need to subscribe as it's just a psuedo number (thought represent major factors for the future and stats) just live freely and do a good job for you.

Borofill · 2018-03-07T00:57:55+00:00

The ghosting thing without given reason is 100% them finding a new man. Always has, always will be. Why else do you think she cannot logically tell you?

You have two kids, I hope they are wonderful to you. I cant think about who I would be without my dad.

Bulletproofmonk · 2018-03-07T01:18:38+00:00

Sorry man,

As many others in this thread have said, lawyer up.

also, if you have firearms or weapons in the house, remove them while she's not there. take them to a family member's place and have them under lock and key.

Same goes with valuables. and money accounts.

change the passwords, segregate the accounts, and review your account statements for irregularities.

Any important documents should be put in a fire safe away from the house.

Women are ruthless when they feel like they're going to lose something. they turn from sour to vile instantly when they know they've lost the battle. They go from acting the victim to attacking quickly. and sometimes literally.

If she's pulling the "I love you but not in love with you" then she already has a guy lined up.

I also suggest getting a security camera or something to record your interactions with her. Treat her like molten iron, because in these situations that's exactly what it turns into.

sorry man, i wish you the best of luck.

checkoutmyfish · 2018-03-07T04:35:16+00:00

dude... are you me? same situation a few years ago. there is a new guy, and its probably someone you already know if she's a stay at home. was for me.

my kids ask why daddy doesn't get a new girlfriend, and i explain that daddy only needs them to be happy. everything has improved over where i was in that relationship.

and fucking lawyer up. worth the money.

Titaniumbass · 2018-03-06T21:32:26+00:00

Yep, can affirm. GTFO while the getting's good. Grieve alone. Put on your stoic face. Dive into that hobby/sport you've been putting off.

Narcissus3669 · 2018-03-06T22:24:46+00:00

This is the cycle of marriage unfortunately. They never love the man, only his resources. It is subconcious at first so they mistaken their love for resources and security as their love for you. After kids (usually 2) they realize they can divorce you and still have the resources. When they figure that out, their done.

EuphemisticallyTrue · 2018-03-06T22:42:23+00:00

I made a 5 part youtube playlist that contains most of the views in MGTOW. If you already understand the red pill, you might find part 5 the most useful.

Part 1 of 5: Summary

Part 2 of 5: Information

Part 3 of 5: Human Nature: Evolutionary psychology and it's implications

Part 4 of 5: MGTOW Philosophy

Part 5 of 5: Red Pill Rage to Self-actualization

the_unseen_one · 2018-03-06T23:35:56+00:00

Sorry you had to learn the hard way but usually the brainwashing can only be broken through having your face smeared in it. Here's hoping she doesn't steal the kids at least. Good luck man.

Teflon0819 · 2018-03-07T01:35:05+00:00

Your story is a microcosm of the problem with women at large.

They are so spoiled, so taken care of, so oblivious to the hardships of reality that men deal with for them that they have completely lost perspective. They're like rebellious children that proclaim to their parents that they don't need them while being utterly unprepared for life without them.

It wouldn't be a problem if not for the fact that these children have been given all of the rights of adults with virtually none of the responsibilities, thus perpetuating their delusions of self-reliance.

It won't last.

gods_bones · 2018-03-07T02:23:52+00:00

Download this book, OP:

HOW TO FIRE YOUR WIFE - A Guide For Married Men To Safely Escape Slavery.pdf

Good luck with your divorce. If you live in the US/Canada and require cheap legal advice, I recommend www.legalshield.com. They purposely arranged their price structure according to the Netflix model where you pay about $15-$20 bucks a month instead of thousands of dollars per case.

BananaWilly · 2018-03-07T03:29:24+00:00

Society set this up. Get married and reproduce or you are a failure.

The clock is ticking for the end of today's version of marriage. I read somewhere that future marriage contracts will be on a renewal basis and without penalties.

2018-03-07T03:33:45+00:00

Same story over and over.

Stahlboden · 2018-03-07T04:31:07+00:00

I dont' mean to offend you, but are you positive you are the biological father? Better find out before the divorce starts.

2018-03-07T00:52:45+00:00

PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR

cleats4u · 2018-03-07T01:28:17+00:00

Just be happy in the fact that she is going to wind up alone. All those men will burn through any youth she has left and leave her on the corner. And unless she has an inheritance coming from somewhere she is probably going to be broke and looking to live with your kids. She won the battle, but you won the war. Things will just better for you.

hardtostarboard2016 · 2018-03-07T01:45:57+00:00

Stay strong, friend. You'll get through this and be better than ever. Go your way and don't look back.

hearts-divide · 2018-03-07T03:13:28+00:00

You must remain in your children's life, somehow.

IntrovertedMagma · 2018-03-07T04:59:38+00:00

She refuses to go into any real detail of what she's thinking. She's not willing to try counselling or anything else to fix us.

She is fucking someone else.. it is very obvious.

sorry and good luck

2018-03-07T05:09:39+00:00

Hate to say but sounds like she has already having affair possibly. Just live your life for you now.

kirenex · 2018-03-07T05:20:00+00:00

Another one had to learn the hard way

hi-i-like-coding · 2018-03-07T06:16:42+00:00

As other guys here have mentioned, there's a good chance she already has another guy lined up. I honestly can't see a woman just sinking the ship without having another ship to jump to. The next guy will probably have to through the same problems you're going through now at some point.

2018-03-07T09:09:57+00:00

This is your last chance. After this, there is no turning back. You take the blue pill—the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill—you stay in Wonderland, and I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes. Remember: all we're offering is the truth. Nothing more.

Welcome to your new life.

LJHova · 2018-03-07T10:16:21+00:00

I used to wonder why so many people chose murder-for-hire over divorce. After reading stories of what women do to men in divorce, however, it has become crystal clear. Your tale is as old as time my friend. She already has a man lined up and her plan for survival is to divorce rape you. She never loved you or the lids, only what you could do for her. My advice is to do as much administrative violence as possible and then cut her out of your life. At the very least, don't be there when Chad dumps her crusty ass and she wants to "reconcile."

grotiponeri · 2018-03-07T01:32:18+00:00

These men and the men who watch and learn from their experiences, form the bedrock of men going their own way. Not incels.

whiskeyandbasketball · 2018-03-07T03:46:53+00:00

Mine told me she thought she would be a better mother if I wasn't around to pick up the slack. Lol, women are ridiculous, just forget about them.

thriftypapa · 2018-03-07T03:53:05+00:00

seen this dozens of times. Wait till court when she starts to crucify you for more cash. Sh'ell become the poor poor abuse victim and you'll become the monster brutalizing her and the kids.

2018-03-07T04:26:33+00:00

She loves me, but she's not 'in love' with me. She wants to keep the house and for me to move out

She refuses to go into any real detail of what she's thinking.

I mean, what more detail do you need? AWALT.

MigrainesRcontagious · 2018-03-07T04:29:35+00:00

Sorry that you have found yourself at this crossroads in life, but welcome.

2018-03-07T04:54:11+00:00

Sorry to hear that, but welcome to the sub. Also if you need some resources to understand female nature please check the sidebar. I recommend you read The Manipulated Man and the Predatory Female. Once again, welcome to the sub and if you need advice, we're all here for you.

tammyyeo687 · 2018-03-07T05:20:43+00:00

Only go for no strings attached relationships! Or no go!

elementalwalruss · 2018-03-07T06:57:10+00:00

Women have so much damn empathy wow i just can't. Look at how much she cares about what you or your kids will go through. Super empathy right there.

/s

Also, this is the problem with "NAWALT" you can find it. But there are no guarantees she'll be that in the future.

Anyway, wish you the best man. Hopefully it will all work out good for you.

Makonar · 2018-03-07T07:43:55+00:00

Those personal stories of great men who sacrificed their lives to make people they love happy and who are now paying the ultimate price for their efforts are what gets me the most. I hope you won't get court raped, and only have to provide for the children, but let's be real, we all know that the childcare money you pay will go to her living expenses. The lives of the children will significantly worsen, and she will blame you for it and turn them against you... I don't know how old are your children, but I would be honest with them, don't shelter them from the painful truth, because any explanation you come up will be turned around into blaming you for their situation. I would tell them exactly why their parents are splitting, that you will be there for them always, even if it's not visible day to day, and to remember this when they ask their mother why dad can't live with them anymore...

shit-zen-giggles · 2018-03-07T07:57:39+00:00

Sorry to hear dude. Divorce with 2 kids in it is as ugly as it can get.

LAWYER UP NOW

Her entitled plan is that she'll meet this new man who she'll love.

Scarry, yet - maybe - realistic thought: Maybe she has already met this guy. What do you think she was doing on the phone all the time and when you were out with the kids. I hope that I'm not right, but you should access the possibility.

DeshawnTetrah · 2018-03-07T10:59:16+00:00

Join us Mr Monkey Socks, this is a brotherhood

MegaDeathX12 · 2018-03-07T16:52:05+00:00

I'm sure we have a lot more men that don't know they are mgtow walking around.

500dollarsinprizes · 2018-03-08T07:26:45+00:00

Monkey, youre in the right place. You’ll grow from here.

Right now, your innards are knotting and churning at seeing this new reality. Your comments sound fresh and raw. Keep excreting. Not necessarily here, but let that vile anger that’s been pent up in knots, go. Give. Yourself. Time.

For me, a few years ago, some train tracks looked like a good place to lay down for a bit. Today, I wouldnt trade places with the “man” I used to be.

We cant promise you’ll find justice, but I promise you can still breathe. And with breath, you can put your hands to the task at hand.

Dont look for her to answer your why. Take back the agency to give your life meaning. Someday, you wont need to know why, because you’ll know yourself.

For now, understand the stages of grief, then see yourself live them. It wont be a linear path.

2018-03-06T21:42:00+00:00

After previous girlfriends hadn't treated me well, I thought I had found someone different.

They never are. AWALT. They may act different. They may appear to be a unicorn. But after they have locked you in, that horn will fall off and you'll find it's made out of plastic.

As the relationship has gone on, her true nature of being selfish, mean and lazy have become clearer, so I've worked harder to keep us both happy.

Women are solipsistic. They filter everything they do through self-interest. What you was experiencing was the full extent of the betatisation curve. I predict after marriage, a slow decline of sex and affection until it literally hits a grinding halt.

Naturally, you want to fix things. Men logically see an issue and want to solve it rationally. There is no fixing it. You can't fix something that's ultimately flawed. Her base nature is manipulative and amoral. She acts up and becomes a horrible bitch only for you to try harder. She wins either way. It's all orchestrated to gain more from you.

I work full time while she stays at home

She saw you purely as a meal ticket. And she would have let you played the work mule until you was no longer useful. Shackled to the plantation. She'll also use your children as a weapon.

She brings nothing to the table. Nothing. Just her pussy. Which she's been keeping on a slow drip with a dead bedroom I suspect. Only to give and take away affection as a reward/punishment cycle.

Going to sound controversial but you need to start hating this woman. She's duped you. She's an horrible person. You need that red pill rage. Anger isn't neccesarily bad. But let it motivate you away from her and onto your own path.

but every evening and weekend I end up looking after them to give her a break.

And what self-entitled life she leads. You bring in all the money. She does a few things around the house. And yet you end up doing everything anyways. She offers you nothing.

her parenting is sticking on TV, staring at her phone and screaming at them if they do anything wrong.

It's called passive parenting. Single mothers are notorious for this. They are lazy and are distracted by their own solipsism. If they got off their arse and instilled the behaviors in their children that would prevent them from being brats in the first place. Your children are not given her full attention. They never will. She does nothing but sit on her ass like a couch potato.

We're not rich, but have a nice house

You never will be with her. But you'll find if you go your own way, how rich and better off you'll be even if you do get divorce raped. Men are minimalists by nature. We require very little to thrive. Yet women are materialistic. Thus I suspect most of your expendure came from her. So start a fund for yourself in preparation. I suggest right now you start putting money into cryptocurrency. And hiding cash away. Just say to the courts that you had a gambling issue. They can't do shit.

She treats me badly, withholding sex or giving me silent treatment with no explanation of what I've done wrong.

Stone walling. Silent treatment. All psychological tricks of an AWALT woman who has severely betatised her partner. I suspect it started going south shortly after you got married. That's when sex declines drastically. She ropes you in with that chameleon behavior. No longer is it genuine desire. For now, she's shifted into transactional desire. Now its the occasional sex if you've treated her to a meal or an holiday. Fuck that. You deserve better than that.

Now she wants a divorce. She loves me, but she's not 'in love' with me.

I won't lie. It's most likely she has cheated on you. If she hasn't its because she's now cashing in and wants to reclaim her cock carousel riding years. They call it the alpha reinterest phase. When they want to climb back on chad's dick.

They will break the hearts of family and their partners to go live their solipsistic fantasies. The courts give these women no repercussions. Divorce rape intermittent. Start hiding cash. Put it all in cryptocurrency. Say you had a major gambling spree. Otherwise say good bye to it in the divorce settlement.

She wants to keep the house and for me to move out. She refuses to go into any real detail of what she's thinking. She's not willing to try counselling or anything else to fix us.

They always want the house. Every woman I have broken up with has said the same thing. Even when not married. She's cashing out. Hard pill to swallow but it was her plan all along. They know by locking down beta bucks and buying an house together it ultimately becomes hers. Fight it for all you can. If your name is on the mortgage, you rightfully owe half of it. Don't let her have it. She'll use your children as a form of guilt and bargaining tool. Don't fall for it.

She hasn't looked at how she'll pay for this new lifestyle once I'm gone.

She has. It's you who will pay her lifestyle.

Her entitled plan is that she'll meet this new man who she'll love. A stressed, angry, unemployed single parent of 2 will somehow have men lined up to take care of her and her kids.

And let her watch that reality play out. Maybe she'll meet a chump but then he'll have to deal with the frustration and lack of sex in a deadbedroom eventually. Feel bad for the guy. Because somewhere right now there's a guy out there whose future is to be a work mule and drip fed sex from a post-wall shrewd. He is to suffer the same fate as you.

I look forward to her dose of reality once she realizes how much I'm bringing to the relationship.

She may never realise this. Don't expect her to either. Women are notoriously solipsistic. They only adhere to subjective reality. They can't see reality even if it hits them in the face.

But it will provide some amusement to see the wreck she makes of her life.

I'm heartbroken most by what it will do to my kids lives. They will suffer immensely from my wife's irresponsible behavior.

And that's on her. Not you. Don't let her subjective reality make you believe otherwise.

You've spent your entire marriage building up a sandcastle but simultaneously batting away the incoming tide as it deteriorates all of that you created. You've tried to prevent the inevitable. Now it has crumbled. But fear not for you have the spade and bucket to build an even bigger sandcastle. This time away from the ocean.

What you are experiencing is the crash and burn of the betatisation curve. Pair bonding instinct within you seeks to survive. This will pass. This woman was absolutely an horrible wife to you. Going your own way will provide you with a million times better life. I can promise you that. Life is beautiful when you are following your own path. Don't falter and pine for her back. She will only bring you pain and suffering. There's no happiness to be had with her.

And so I am done with women. I'm new here, but I plan to go my own way. Reading the experiences of others here has changed my feeling of my future from the worst thing possible to something I'm now genuinely looking forward to.

I recommend you read The Manipulated Man by Esther Villar. The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi on the true nature of women. You need to spend some time understanding why women are solipsistic and why they lock down beta bucks.

Watch Colttaine's video Domestic Parasitism

My blog post: Dealing with a break up? Get yourself an hobby

Stay strong. And one day you'll be thankful that you got rid of this manipulative bitch from out of your life.

monkey-socks · 2018-03-06T22:26:42+00:00

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BachelorClubMod · 2018-03-07T07:21:36+00:00

Welcome brother.

Check out the link in the sidebar about "how to fire your wife". Perhaps that can help you through the divorce, because I'm telling you, it's probably gonna get worse before it gets better. But if you play your cards right, you can have a better outcome.

Mathiya · 2018-03-07T08:51:21+00:00

Damn, I ddn't have to go through all that to realise something is wrong, my parents divorced when I was 7 and my father passed away a year ago, he left something for us build on, I'm 30 now. Lucky for me my dad raised me. I'm a responsible, well adjusted adult, and I'll tell you this: intelligent men don't get married.

2018-03-07T09:54:51+00:00

I feel for you Brother! Godspeed!

starkfuture · 2018-03-07T18:30:29+00:00

You are still going to pay for her lifestyle man, and probably also the man who she is going to fuck around with. You are legally obligated to maintain her lifestyle. Plus the child support and the alimony and the nonequitable division of assets, if you have any inheritance... YOU are in for a rude awakening my friend.

Now, if the family laws were different or if the ex is a ethical and moral unicorn who forgoes everything except her half of the assets(i won't waste my breath arguing this point), excluding my and her inheritance(yeah, my dad was loaded and my mom is prudent and is a goddamned saint, no whore deserves their hard earned money), whatever it is - I would be a good citizen and adhere to the "rules", written and implied.

But things being as they are, If it were me, I would hire a shark of a lawyer and go through the motions of the inevitable divorce rape. After asset division I would pay my dues for the time it takes to liquidate all of my assets and move to South America or Asia. If the kids were old enough to understand I would try to support them as much as I can without actually being there. if the kids were too young, they will be brainwashed into hating me anyway, so not much to be gained here. Yeah, I will love my kids, if I have any. But if it comes down to working a job that I hate(but pays well, choices, compromises and sometimes downright sacrifices make-up the pay gap friends), paying a whore I am not fucking and supporting kids who I cannot really see who will most probably endup hating me for things that I didn't do, and living in voluntary poverty despite having earned my own million and essentially living a life without hope - well, I would tap out.

But all of that will always be hypothetical because it is prudent risk planning to NOT put that kind of power on the hands of sluts and whores.

treble-n-bass · 2018-03-07T18:51:37+00:00

Women don't love men. They are in love with the idea of being in love, and they are in love with their childish fantasies and impossible expectations for men. You'll never win. Happened to me several times. MGTOW since 2010, FTS.

NotMyWomen · 2018-03-07T21:11:00+00:00

Reads entire post

Nods

You mean you’re just mad that you objectify women and can’t “get” a girl?

And you’re a teenage, pizza-face, neckbeard, virgin loser?

:)

Title	That's enough for me, going to be joining you.
Author	monkey-socks
Upvotes	326
Comments	173
Date	March 6, 2018 9:00 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/82ij0z/thats_enough_for_me_going_to_be_joining_you/
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