I remember when I was blue pilled I had totally good intentions. All I wanted was to be a stand-up guy who treated women with respect and who then found his one true love to be together with and loyal to. It seemed only logical that women who had been treated like crap by some goon would jump at the chance to be with someone who treated her as an equal. Hah! Everyone here knows how well that works. Essentially, being a good person is WORTHLESS in the dating world. It not only doesn't count for anything. It's points against you.

To boot, feminists even mock men who attempt to be good people, somehow warping that into "entitlement to sex." They mock men who totally bought into being cool with her choice either way, respecting her if she wanted sex with you and respecting her if she didn't want sex with you. Even if you were totally into that mindset, somehow you're branded a creep who felt she owed you sex. Whateverthfuck. So you could become a manipulative dirtball PUA and probably get some sex or you could just totally opt out and refuse any cooperation with the game, in other words, go MGTOW. Of course, you'll get mocked for that too with bullshit misinformation, as if your own life isn't even yours to do with as you see fit.

The only possible choice is opting out with a heavy dose of "don't give a fuck." You'll be mocked and treated like crap no matter what you do. If you play the dating game, there is a good chance you'll get together with someone. Almost all of us here have done that. But then you're at risk for divorce rape and having half your assets stolen, plus maybe alimony and possible child support (to a kid who may not even be yours). Or you can opt out and save your own ass. We're mocked for that as if we don't even have the right to chose a life not tied to a woman. It's bizarre. The truth is, in opting out you can still be a good person. You can just do your own thing and refrain from hurting anyone. They'll never see that as worthy or enough, but just pile on a healthy portion of "don't give a fuck" and you'll be fine.