I despise zero-sum games. I know that’s how our species evolved (endless trials of fire for filtering the best genes) but I’m so over it.
Modern world gives you many more interesting things to do, like wealth creation, where somebody else doesn’t have to lose for you to win.
I’m glad that I dumped my gf, she wanted us to get married. Now I’m dedicated full-time to my business and I see escorts occasionally. I’m happy.