Timothy is the archaetypal male provider. Timothy is a 35 year old engineer with a good career.

Women find Timothy to be unattractive, and he was a kissless virgin until he met Jenny, who he married shortly after their relationship  started.

Jenny is a 36 year old single mother who already had 3 kids. Jenny used to be attractive in her teenage years and early 20s, but is no longer due to poor diet, and excessive partying and drinking during her prime years.

Jenny used to spend lots of time getting fucked by dominant males, but none of them were willing to settle down with her. Jenny realized she needed to lower her standards to secure a source of income, even if that meant settling for a less attractive man.

Jenny now relies on Timothy's income to maintain her lifestyle and provide for her kids. This is why she married Timothy, who is a reliable, submissive provider.

Jenny has never told Timothy the raw truth about why she chose him to settle down with.

Instead, she clouds Timothy's judgement with occasional romantic gestures, as this makes it easier to keep Timothy's self-sabotaging behavior ongoing. Jenny has zero intentions of ever having children with Timothy, because she deems his genes to be inferior for her offspring.

Never be like Timothy. Go your own fucking way for life.