DEAR ABBY: What the heck happens to men between the ages of 45 and 60? It seems the women they’re after are all 15 to 20 years younger. I don’t mean just for sex but for dating, love and marriage, too.

We middle-aged women are often overlooked because these middle-aged guys don’t realize we are at our sexual peak and often hot as hell. And we’re active in many interesting, fulfilling activities. By the time these men come to their senses, they are usually washed-up and impotent.

https://www.mercurynews.com/2021/01/04/dear-abby-why-are-middle-aged-men-so-blind-to-this-truth/