Now everyone's seen this, women saying they want guys over a certain height, which is the 95% percentile just to get to 6'1".

But here's the thing, it's the reasons given that seem ridiculous. Now I don't care why people like what they like, if really tall guys are your thing, whatever floats your boat, but as someone who is tall, trying to fuck or even just hug a 5'2" woman is a huge difference. I'm basically having sex with her chest cavity, and kissing her is a top-of-the-head operation. Just trying to lie together in bed is a difficulty unless it's a doggie style or cowboy operation. The parts just don't line up when you have too high a difference in where the parts line up. I didn't want her head under my chin.

But what's the most common excuse I see? Not, because it makes me feel safe, or makes me feel weak, submissive, and have those aggressive male fantasies #AllMenAreRapists, but it's about wearing heels.

"Oh I want to be able to wear heels around him".

Really? So you're wearing 12" heels are you? All the time you say? Those ballet boots with your toes being crushed into the Earth?

How many women do you actually see running around wearing heels all day unless it's a special event?. At work? Never seen more than 3", and that was on an unbelievably short Japanese woman who you couldn't even see walk by a low wall cubicle I used to work with.

Is she wearing them at home? Hell no, that shit comes off. It's all about comfort anyway. I don't know of too many business offices that have women in spiked stilettos walking around.

And if she is wearing 6" heels, then most likely she's in lingerie on her back anyway, and sex is on the menu. Horizontally they're only 12" tall unless they're a ham-planetoid and quite spherical in nature.

I just always think the "heels" excuse is bull crap unless it's a fetishist. You're going ballroom dancing every day? You know you're more comfortable in flats. You are literally casting out 95% of men on something you won't even have come up except a couple days in your life. Wouldn't you rather line up with a partner in bed so you can have lie-on-your-side wake-up morning sex and not feel his bone jamming into your L2 or L3 vertebrae?

How about the next guy a woman swipes on says, "I'm 6'5". You must wear high heels all day and night long because I can't stand short chicks. Must be 4 inches or higher heel. If you don't have crushing nerve damage at the end of the day, they weren't high enough."

Suddenly no one wears heels and he's a sadistic misogynist.