Young women, when conversing with male suitors, imply all the time that they have no control over their sexual self, as if they are merely acting as an enabler/"pimp" to their sexual self.

Phrases like "You are losing me" or "You are boring me" show this exact phenomenon. What they intend to say is, you are losing/boring my client, my sexual self.

Another all too common phrase is, "You're not getting any sex [from my client]."

A more humane, attached version (increasingly rare) is "We're not going to have sex."

That not only show lizard brain in action, but the fact that her lizard brain and human brain are not exactly on friendly terms and the lizard brain has not exactly "integrated" in her mind.