r/relationship_advice•Posted byu/Tyberang7 hours ago

My (22M) GF (30F) saying she wants D to one of my friends

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So my GF and I as well as some of our friends decided to go to a concert this past weekend. We’ll focus on my one friend who I’ll call “Jeff” and the girl he brought “Tina.”

On the way to the show my gf actually went into my phone and took Jeff’s number down which didn’t bother me as we were going to an event and it’s good to have a way to contact the group. At one point during the show my gf and Jeff actually started dancing together and by that I mean that they were basically grinding. This is something I have explicitly told her I am not okay with her doing with other guys. She apologized and I tried to let it go so it wouldn’t ruin the night.

The next day she was texting Jeff and snapping him quite a bit. I tried not to indulge my jealous feelings even though she was doing that thing where someone closes their phone when you get within viewing distance or holds it at an angle to block the screen.

She did tell me one thing they were talking about which was Jeff and his current relationship struggles. That didn’t bother me so I let it be and believed it was all innocent chatting.

Two days later, Jeff messages me in the morning telling me he wants to talk alone and that I should call him. I leave the house because gf is there and call him. He tells me that my gf was being weird while they were texting and that he was sending me some captures of their conversation.

The conversation did have parts discussing Jeff’s relationship. It then turned into my gf saying she wanted to cuddle with Jeff and his gf Tina as well as kiss his Tina. The grand finale was, and I quite:

“Me having gone through life. I wanna fuck some good d and suck some good d. And I don’t fuck like any particular bitch around here”

After that Jeff basically told her she was crossing the line and the conversation ended.

When I confronted her after he told me, she basically just said it was because she was drunk and upset that day.

Any thoughts would be appreciated.

EDIT: the convo took place after we had both been awake for over 36 hours and drinking. Just for additional context.

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