this hurts my soul. I’m sorry if this was already posted

Wasn't gonna reply because my point seems over-long for the effort, but perhaps one of our younger brothers will stumble across it and think twice...

Your statement about used-up, nasty bitches hits home, lots of dudes are cashing out for single-mom swamp-donkeys that they wouldn't have touched with a barge-pole back in the day. The worst part is that these entitled cartons of rancid milk aren't worshipping these fellows in return for their affections, they just skip straight to exploiting them and taking these dudes for granted. Sad enough to be sure...

But it gets worse... the city I grew up in just happens to be the hardest place in the world in which to get laid (an opinion to be sure, but an informed one as I have traveled widely). Here, the 4s walk around like they are 7s, the 6s prance around scowling at you as if they are solid 8s and the 9s act like they shit cotton-candy.

It is an endless ice-skate uphill just to get your dick wet here... I did okay because I talk a good game and never cared (the ultimate aphrodisiac).

Two of my buddies on the other hand, not so lucky... imagine a set of twins with classic, moviestar good-looks and winning height (6 and change). No shit, these brothers looked like young James Dean, hands down. They weren't the cleverest cats, but they were affable and had great senses of humour.

I imagine that if these dudes were born any earlier or any later, then they would have been stars or kings... but they were born poor as dirt and grew up in a super ghetto neighbourhood were white kids were a drastic minority. I mention that because in their high school/hood Tyrones and Mustafas were worshipped by girls and pussy absolutely disdained these handsome white boys.

The scales were so tipped against them that they never developed any confidence (or dare I say 'game'). I remember we took a road trip together into the southern states and chicks were throwing themselves at these lads - all they would have needed to do was simply close, but they were so whipped down and brow-beaten, they couldn't even pick up fruit from the ground.

We ended up working together at an insanely busy (non-criminal) courthouse... which was a goldmine for tail simply because of foot-traffic/frequency... I was far from a prize (a bit of a slob if truth be told), but even I routinely went home with phone numbers beyond my paygrade. The twins on the other hand? No joy.

These boys weren't incels or virgins (they had slummed it with some low-level asian talent in college), but they might as well have been.

Did they rot on the vine? Get fat? Waste away and go bald? Shoot-up a post office? Nah... they barely got balls deep in their mid-20s before they got snapped up...

The more alpha twin (generally considered the better looking one) ended up marrying a morbidly obese 40-something, black single mother (yes, her daughter was her 'world').

The lesser twin married a chain-smoking, anorexic, lantern-jawed, bug-eyed, vietnamese stick-insect... she had the hips of a ten year-old boy and the utter absence of ass - were you to fuck this creature, you might well injure yourself seriously. This broad was a badge-bunny who banged dozens of cops, but as soon as my buddy knocked her up, she turned off the taps. Last I heard he gets laid about once a year... never getting blown.

Both of these dudes snuffed out in their prime of life.

No doubt it is heartbreaking to see bros. in their 30s and 40s casting their lot with blown-out wildebeests and eating another man's rotten leftovers - but I have known way too many young dudes in their 20s who eschew making memories and having adventures in favour of skipping ahead to the living death of mortgages and serving hideous, horrible women.

R.I.P.